Nathaniel Branden, The Sixth Pillars of Self-Esteem
I recently finished reading The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem for the second time. The first time that I read it (~2 years ago), I was too emotionally unstable to do anything with the knowledge and do the exercises properly. However, I grew a lot since then and I now feel mature enough to use the material properly.
About My Self-Esteem Issues
While growing up as a kid, then as a teenager, and now as a young adult, I suffered pretty huge self-esteem issues that impacted the quality of my life. Some of these issues included:
A lot of depression
Extreme shyness
Inability to make friends / make social connections
Discomfort with girls
Neglecting my body. I wasn't doing any sport and was very skinny, some people even asked me if I was anorexic
Laziness
Fewer good results than I was capable of in school (I was a little better than average and sometimes even good, but it was still way below what I was capable of)
Very low results in freelancing because I was afraid of charging clients
I solved some of these issues in the past, but some of them are still here. I'm still quite shy, still uncomfortable with women, still experience a little of depression from time to time. However, I now look good, I go to the gym regularly, I'm more hardworking, and recently started to have much better results in freelancing.
Why Self-Esteem
Healthy self-esteem is the foundation for proper functioning in life. So If can raise my self-esteem, I can improve everything:
Relationships
Communication
Health
Work ethic
Business results
Awareness
Happiness
And much more.
Why Will I Do
At the end of The Sixth Pillars of Self-Esteem, there is a program to progressively raise self-esteem. It is a 31 week program, I will do it at least one time, but if I see the necessity to do it more than once, I will do it. If taking other actions are necessary, I will take them.
What Inspired Me
I got inspired by a user on this forum who did the same thing two years ago: