Online dating destroying the principles of game

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, ColeMC01 said:

@Leo Gura I have a question. If extroversion is more biologically attractive for females than how come guys have evolved in a way for introverts to be a thing.

It's not per se that extroversion is more attractive. Extroverts simply get more logistical opportunities for sex.

The #1 key for sex to happen is logistical opportunity and bumping into new people. Introverts bump into far fewer new people than extroverts. So o course they will have less sexual opportunities. It's just basic logistics. You can't get laid sitting at home reading books. To get laid a lot you need to go to parties and social events. Which introverts don't enjoy going to.

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If introverts are not desirable for a girl attraction wise then they would have been wiped out or not even evolve to a thing at the first place. I think what females desire in a man is strength and that can be even if you are not extroverted.  Strength is what allows you to protect, defend and dominate. Extroversion can help with that since we are a social species but at the core it is strength that they desire the most. 

Correct me if i am wrong. I have seen more laid back, chill and relaxed kind of guys with introverted vibes be very successful with girls naturally.

You act as though I said introverts can't get laid. That's not what I said. I simply said they get laid less.

The reality is that you don't need to get laid a lot with many people to have children and reproduce.

Also, introverts can be very good at getting laid through other means. For example, many introverts become successful businessmen who then just buy as much sex as they want.

For example, I could leverage my introversion to buy a lot of sex if I wanted to. Remember, for most of human history sex was traded and acquired through wealth and power, not pickup at nightclubs or Tinder.

The ultimate way to get laid is through power. Consider Genghis Khan.

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Do not confuse introversion with being shy, socially awkward or boring. 

I am not conflating those two.

1 hour ago, Hardkill said:

While I am not great with women, I believe that not all men who are extroverted have an attractive personality. In fact, some men are so obnoxious or talk too much to the point of were you’re like “shut the hell up!” or you just want to smack them. Hell, I am sure that there a lot of women can’t stand or are turned off by arrogant loud mouthed schmucks like Trump.

Doesn't matter. That kind of polarization only increases your results with girls. A highly polarizing obnoxious ass like Trump will be hated by 33% of girls, but about 33% will love him. Girls who hate him will really hate him. Girls who love him will really love him. At least at first, before they learn how much of toxic devil he is. Eventually 100% of girls will hate him

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Also, they say that women are a lot of time appealed by a man who conveys a certain kind of quiet confidence that exudes an alluring mysteriousness to them and is good at listening like James Bond or Don Draper from Mad men. 

That's nice in theory but doesn't work in practice. You need to be social to get laid a lot.

Of course you can still get laid being quiet. You'll get just laid less relative to someone who's more active.

[Preety_India]

I can tell from some experience that I was easily seduced by extroverted guys. Although they didn't make good boyfriends 

However it's the introverted ones that make good boyfriends. 

Extroverts are generally into too much socializing and hardly have any time for anyone. They get draining after a while 

 

[Snader]

1 hour ago, Preety_India said:

However it's the introverted ones that make good boyfriends.

Totally subjective.

 

[Preety_India]

Just now, Snader said:

Totally subjective.

 

Totally personal experience 

[Hardkill]

14 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

It's not per se that extroversion is more attractive. Extroverts simply get more logistical opportunities for sex.

The #1 key for sex to happen is logistical opportunity and bumping into new people. Introverts bump into far fewer new people than extroverts. So o course they will have less sexual opportunities. It's just basic logistics. You can't get laid sitting at home reading books. To get laid a lot you need to go to parties and social events. Which introverts don't enjoy going to.

You act as though I said introverts can't get laid. That's not what I said. I simply said they get laid less.

The reality is that you don't need to get laid a lot with many people to have children and reproduce.

Also, introverts can be very good at getting laid through other means. For example, many introverts become successful businessmen who then just buy as much sex as they want.

For example, I could leverage my introversion to buy a lot of sex if I wanted to. Remember, for most of human history sex was traded and acquired through wealth and power, not pickup at nightclubs or Tinder.

The ultimate way to get laid is through power. Consider Genghis Khan.

True. Some Historians have said that Genghis Kahn had one of the highest body counts ever when it came to both sex and murder. 

 

14 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Doesn't matter. That kind of polarization only increases your results with girls. A highly polarizing obnoxious ass like Trump will be hated by 33% of girls, but about 33% will love him. Girls who hate him will really hate him. Girls who love him will really love him. At least at first, before they learn how much of toxic devil he is. Eventually 100% of girls will hate him

Yeah, I suppose that's sadly true. So, would you say that creeping out tons of women would also be another kind of polarization that would actually increase your results with girls overall?

14 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

That's nice in theory but doesn't work in practice. You need to be social to get laid a lot.

Of course you can still get laid being quiet. You'll get just laid less relative to someone who's more active.

Yeah, that's largely true. That's why legendary pickup artists Gunwitch say that being too quiet or boring like James Bond is not the best for getting laid. Though wouldn't you say that ambiversion would be the most ideal for seducing women, because it has the best characteristics of both an extravert and introvert?

 

 

 

 

[ertopolice]

For some women i think introverts can be sexy aswell. I personally am not attracted to extroverts-chatty men frequently. I find the quiet ones with brains and a well developt soul extremely attractive. 

[Lyubov]

I just got the prem service, added some memes to my pics and a dumb bio that makes me sound like some corny bad boy and I got some matches with hot girls lol

american girls are weird. dunno why they are into that dumb fake acting persona like "I'm soooo interesting and edgy and exciting." smfh. that shit does not work in europe from my experience. 

Edited February 12, 2021 by Lyubov

[lmfao]

On 11/02/2021 at 5:11 AM, Leo Gura said:

It's not per se that extroversion is more attractive. Extroverts simply get more logistical opportunities for sex.

The #1 key for sex to happen is logistical opportunity and bumping into new people. Introverts bump into far fewer new people than extroverts. So o course they will have less sexual opportunities. It's just basic logistics. You can't get laid sitting at home reading books. To get laid a lot you need to go to parties and social events. Which introverts don't enjoy going to.

 

What was it like socialising so much, and in a sense pushing yourself to be extroverted?  Is socialising and being around people still draining? Did you become an extrovert in a sense or are still an introvert? 

Edited February 13, 2021 by lmfao

[AmaDeY1993]

I dunno why introverts are considered to be smart people with developed personality and rich soul... Not all introverts are good guys, tbh, my personal experience shows that they can be real jerks as well as extroverts, it's just a type of personality. Someone loves people around him, someone prefers silence, however this isn't the main defining trait of a person. At least, extroverted people are honest and more sincere about their needs and wishes even in bed. I've recently read https://breakupangels.com/stop-sexually-frustrating-yourselfand-your-partner/ and now I believe that this sexual frustrations comes from the fact that you can't or you're too shy to express your will.

Edited February 28, 2021 by AmaDeY1993

[Arcangelo]

Online dating destroying the principles of game> I agree

Dating apps are forcing women to be (more) visual