Finding Forgiveness After A Broken Relationship

[Jared Gregory]

Hello guys 

When reading Eckhart tolle's book power of the now. I was reading chapter 8 Enlightened relationships, and it made me realize something. 

I recently broke up with my girlfriend who i had been for nearly 3 years and i considered to be eternally blessed with love and  happiness. But after we broke up I still had this bad feeling inside my stomach that would keep me up, at first it was anger which i know the go thrives on conflict, anger,resentment. But this was still bothering me. 

So about a week ago i came to the realization that this feeling wasn't helping whatsoever so i asked myself " how is this helping me at this moment?" the truth was that it wasn't. so i spoke to my ex and i could tell she was very sad and kept blaming herself for everything. So i said the simple words of " I forgive you' because deep down there was nothing to forgive as we are all connected. 

The feeling i got after that conversation was beautiful as i know longer feel anything bad or negative towards her i just feel happy and at peace.

Just wanted to share this with you guys. If anyone cares to share please do 

 peace and love

[kurt]

@Jared Gregory

Thank you 

I would like to say that there was nothing to forgive her for, because she did nothing wrong.  The only thing that was lacking was your expectation that any of this is permanent.  Which is in itself is innocent.

What a beautiful way to see things, and freedom from all object expectation.

Cheers!