Porn made me BI, reality made me hetero

[Leo Gura]

8 minutes ago, Husseinisdoingfine said:

vaginas are disgusting

I should ban you for this, but I will be merciful because you are ignorant.

[Megan Alecia]

This is some old testament shit

Jk! 

[ColeMC01]

@Leo Gura I am also not turned on by seeing a vagina but i am if i see tits ass cute face nice toned body etc

I do not think most guys get hard if they see a picture of a vagina in itself. Roast me if i am wrong

[Rilles]

You guys are nuts! 

Pussy is beautiful!  Did yall miss puberty!

[peanutspathtotruth]

This could get interesting 

[Preety_India]

How would you make love if you are disgusted by something? 

It's one thing to be disgusted by someone else's something, but if you're disgusted by something on your girlfriend, then it would be impossible for you to make love to her. 

Kinda weird and incel-y. 

 

It's one thing to say that you're not turned on. But completely different if you say "disgusted." 

 

Edited January 23, 2021 by Preety_India

[Eren Eeager]

12 minutes ago, ColeMC01 said:

@Leo Gura I am also not turned on by seeing a vagina but i am if i see tits ass cute face nice toned body etc

I do not think most guys get hard if they see a picture of a vagina in itself. Roast me if i am wrong

I can relate, but not entirely.

Maybe you need a trans girl, do you get turned on by dicks tho?

[soos_mite_ah]

5 hours ago, Hansu said:

So I believe that looking for that clean and good looking porn and all those years of discussing with my gay friends, making sexual jokes and chatting with them in general made me think I am bisexual. However, when I began to date men, the reality hit me hard. I only like really clean, polished men. Im not denying my attraction to good looking men, I will be attracted to porn for all my life. But when my preferences are so specific, clean and fantastical, they can exist nowhere else but in my fantasy and imagination. As soon as the light of everyday life is shone on my fantasy, it withers.

Sexuality exists on a spectrum. I have bi friends who describe their attraction to women and men as 90% to 10%, meaning they feel like they mainly lean towards women as far as intensity of attraction goes but they have extremely specific tastes for men or they rarely find themselves attracted to men if that makes sense. A lot of bi people are 50-50, 70-30 and everything else in between. 

Or there is this other thing called aesthetic attraction where you can acknowledge a good looking person and appreciate their beauty without wanting to have sex with them 

[Preety_India]

4 minutes ago, Eren Eeager said:

 

Maybe you need a trans girl, do you get turned on by dicks tho?

[Michal__]

14 minutes ago, soos_mite_ah said:

Sexuality exists on a spectrum. I have bi friends who describe their attraction to women and men as 90% to 10%, meaning they feel like they mainly lean towards women as far as intensity of attraction goes but they have extremely specific tastes for men or they rarely find themselves attracted to men if that makes sense. A lot of bi people are 50-50, 70-30 and everything else in between. 

Or there is this other thing called aesthetic attraction where you can acknowledge a good looking person and appreciate their beauty without wanting to have sex with them 

Spot on

[Espaim]

You undecided folks would benefit from learning about different types of attraction. Romantic, sexual, aesthetic...

And maybe uncommon sexualities.If you have the need to fit yourself into a label then at least learn about all the ones that exist: pansexuality, bisexuality, asexuality (aego)... No need to fit into the mainstream hetero/gay paradigm

There's also Sex-favorableness and sex positivity but i don't know much about it

Edited January 23, 2021 by Espaim

[intotheblack]

I’m straight, but I had a fling years ago with another girl. It was fun at the time but I never felt like I would want a relationship with a woman.  I guess it was a phase that I grew out of, something I wanted to try. 

Just flow with it, you don’t have to figure everything out now 

[Danioover9000]

@Dunnel

1 hour ago, Dunnel said:

@Leo Guradidnt meant to report you btw, should have put my glasses on lol

 

[ColeMC01]

@Eren Eeager No. I am turned by what i wrote above

[Danioover9000]

      You all should go and try Nofap and abstain from pornography for a bit. From my experience, porn is perfect place to project whatever deep desire muddied by trauma, and have distorted view of self-sexual identity. Go Nofap to see clearly what sexual orientation you are. After some time like that, then you can more consciously decide if you want porn or not.

[Danioover9000]

@Preety_India

1 hour ago, Preety_India said:

What's the condition called where I'm attracted to only good men? 

 

   Stalker's syndrome.

[Preety_India]

1 minute ago, Danioover9000 said:

@Preety_India

   Stalker's syndrome.

That's a new one. 

I better agree with "lying" 

[How to be wise]

@Husseinisdoingfine Next time you see a vagina, just imagine how your dick will feel when it is being squeezed by the vagina as you are inside the girl. Imagine how tight it will feel. That should solve your issue with vaginas.

[AtheisticNonduality]

2 hours ago, Husseinisdoingfine said:

I'm the exact same way, vaginas are disgusting.

no u

[goldpower123]

Porn fucked me right up. I'm a normal guy, but it turned me into this really weak, timid, awkward feminine guy. Nothing wrong with that, except when I decided to get on "No Fap" I found myself identifying with my sexuality as a real Man. I was really more masculine and it feels authentic. I'd love to thank No Fap, but really I think it's just porn that's messed up