Sex from Truth: an Exposé on True Sex

[Origins]

This is a journal on sex I’m developing. 

The following is taken from my other journal here - https://www.actualized.org/forum/topic/59826-partner-compatibility-guidelines-female/#comment-814140

In a preliminary way it describes what I’m so far looking for regarding a partner from the perspective of sexual compatibility, sex here being only one of many other areas of relevant compatibility that need discernment and consequential elaboration.

Until I’ve differentiated the complex of what will be entertained for this journal said descriptions should do justice in painting its beginnings along with what can be envisioned for it.

From the perspective of this journal, at the very least some of these descriptions can be considered as antecedents to inevitable sexual principles that can be derived therein.

Sexual Open Mindedness (though this goes without saying - and ideas, possibilities, expressions here are negotiated not mandatory of course)

Sexual Stamina (I like to go for at least an hour - just because I find that more intimate - doesn’t have to be like this every day, at least every few weeks or more I’d like to go for 2 hours plus)

Sexual Frequency (at least once per day is preferred though of course there’s incidents of chaotic misfortune that may disrupt that - and the experience has to be negotiated, because the whole idea is ensuring the best possible experience)

Sexual Imagination (they have to be good at creating and holding scenarios in their mind for creating purposes sometimes for the sexual experience — sometimes the purpose will be around creating a certain frequency between one another)

Sexual Intimacy (this goes with sentimentality, though nuances of intimacy can sometimes be sacrificed for the sake of fulfilling the negotiated outcomes of sexual open mindedness; again, negotiated, not mandatory sanctions of course)

Sexual Enjoyability (this should be obvious, but I want to highlight the importance both with respect to my own experience and the experience the other person is having, its of the utmost importance to me that the latter is fulfilled as much as I wish to enjoy it)

Sexual Experience (not just in terms of frequency or partners, more instead along the lines of how much and well they’ve thought about it, what insights they’ve had there, creative explorations they’ve generated which are underpinned by say life principles or simply something analogous to this sentiment. It’s taken that sexuality is not just an act of pleasure but an experience of symbiotic reflection, expression of something deeper than the body, creative catharsis as well as art of being, release and extensionality. Examples relate to questions for all of the above which test ones level of experience. Say regarding enjoyability, how is it going to be enjoyed? Why is it enjoyed? What is resolved? What is created? Etc. So many people just see sex as an act and release without any contention for forethought regarding its intentionality. Intentionality as it must be understood, is the soul of sex, don’t trifle with it).

Sexual Honesty (this relates to intentionality, you must have your intention right, which can be learned. What are you trying to express in the moment? How are you tethered to this other being in this act of spiritual art? If you’re not reaching from the soul where are you reaching from and who are you reaching to? How you have sex says a lot about how you do life, allow the intentionality you’ve developed in sex paint the self honesty you will approach all of life with. Finally, the level of sexual honesty within any relationship describes a lot about the dynamics of the relationship itself. What is felt? What can you hear between the breaths where no words are spoken? If you cannot commit in any act of sex, what in life can you truly commit to? True sex is the bedrock of having to experience ones complete energetic body in the moment, what is your commitment to true feeling here then? Alignment with sexual honesty is the cornerstone of aligning with sex from truth and the beginning of true sex).

No Sexual Escapism (if sex is used in such a way to escape ones energetic body via the pleasure principle, then one is not truly experiencing their full energetic body during sex, and thus one of the sole premises to sex as an act from and as the universe, is not fully magnified in intensity and breadth, soul expression, devotion, extension and connection. In fact, to covet sexual escapism is the anti-thesis of living life, moreover, given the relationship between intentionality within sex and future life navigation, if you use sex as an escape you’re only reinforcing the attitude of medicating oneself to handle the pressures of life. This is why intentionality in the context of ones energetic body to manifest the honesty is so vital for authentic enjoyment and experience. Any sexual escapism and any issues around sex in general will be treated delicately and mindfully moving forward.)

 

Edited January 18, 2021 by Origins