When i watch porn i feel both the female and the male

[At awe]

43 minutes ago, Arcangelo said:

This is what's going on: When you watch porn you are training your brain to become a cuckhold.

Think about it: You are watching the girl of your fantasies getting fucked by some other dude while you masturbate.

                           You get turned on by watching your girl with some other dude.

                           Why you don't just watch nude girls and let your imagination do the rest? Because you are kind of a cuckhold already. You need to       see  a  dick that is not yours do the fucking, while you. Just. Watch.

That's what's going on: you are slowly becoming a cuckhold. You self deceive yourself thinking is harmless and OK but it isn't. Unless you truly desire to become a cuckhold then it is OK and harmless.

 

Arc

Never thought about it that way, interesting. But that means a person watching would have to think that the girl/woman is yours. So it becomes owning. Can we really say that? Even in the relationship? In my opinion we don’t own anybody...

[Arcangelo]

Yeah that's why I wrote yours

[Javfly33]

3 hours ago, Arcangelo said:

This is what's going on: When you watch porn you are training your brain to become a cuckhold.

Think about it: You are watching the girl of your fantasies getting fucked by some other dude while you masturbate.

                           You get turned on by watching your girl with some other dude.

                           Why you don't just watch nude girls and let your imagination do the rest? Because you are kind of a cuckhold already. You need to       see  a  dick that is not yours do the fucking, while you. Just. Watch.

That's what's going on: you are slowly becoming a cuckhold. You deceive yourself thinking is harmless and OK but it isn't. Unless you truly desire to become a cuckhold then it is OK and harmless.

 

Arc

It's even worse than that..sometimes I imagine being the girl.

Jokes aside, I do think porn can hurt aspects of sexuality if you are not sexually balanced enough. So by no means I'm saying porn should be watched mindlessly as eating fruit.

But also is not totally the devil and I believe it can be consumed in a conscious way, without turning it into an addiction or an neurotic behaviour.

[Kalki Avatar]

@Vrubel Yes, women will love you but men will hate you or be jealous if they see you getting women. I mean, I dont care, but depending your social environment, it matters. 

Perhaps, it might seem as that, but not really from an objective sense. I mean't liking everything when you are possesed by sexual energy, close to cum, at that moment you are an animal thinking with the head of your dick.

I have fantasized with men as an experiment, while being feminine. At that moment I dont identify myself as a man or masculine, so its all mind games. Cuz when im out of that state I only feel attratcted to women. I even find myself repelled by gay men,etc.

[StateOfMind]

11 hours ago, Arcangelo said:

This is what's going on: When you watch porn you are training your brain to become a cuckhold.

Think about it: You are watching the girl of your fantasies getting fucked by some other dude while you masturbate.

                           You get turned on by watching your girl with some other dude.

                           Why you don't just watch nude girls and let your imagination do the rest? Because you are kind of a cuckhold already. You need to       see  a  dick that is not yours do the fucking, while you. Just. Watch.

That's what's going on: you are slowly becoming a cuckhold. You deceive yourself thinking is harmless and OK but it isn't. Unless you truly desire to become a cuckhold then it is OK and harmless.

 

Arc

really?, have you heard of something called "Mirror neurons"?...

it's the same as when you watch an action movie and your get this feeling that you're the protagonist...

so when you watch a guy fucking a girl your neurons mirror what the guy is doing... that's how babies learn btw.

[peanutspathtotruth]

On 1/16/2021 at 0:54 PM, Evil Raccoon said:

Had the same problem back when I was fappin, felt all feminine and shit.

On 1/16/2021 at 8:43 PM, hamedsf said:

it's not natural. porn makes you feminine and destroys your self-esteem don't ever watch it. 

On 1/16/2021 at 9:07 PM, Evil Raccoon said:

Porn makes men weak and effeminate.

I generally agree wholeheartedly, from my own experience, that porn is not healthy energetically/psychologically, but...
 

what the fuck??? Why would that have ANYTHING to do with feeling feminine? Big red flags here

 

[Evil Raccoon]

10 hours ago, peanutspathtotruth said:

what the fuck??? Why would that have ANYTHING to do with feeling feminine? Big red flags here

Yo calm down homie! I don’t know the why like I’ve said but I definitely felt like a woman when I was watching porn, like literally, and now that I’ve stopped that shit is gone.It’s some energy thing man, I dunno. 

Edited January 18, 2021 by Evil Raccoon

[peanutspathtotruth]

3 hours ago, Evil Raccoon said:

Yo calm down homie! I don’t know the why like I’ve said but I definitely felt like a woman when I was watching porn, like literally, and now that I’ve stopped that shit is gone.It’s some energy thing man, I dunno. 

Yeah you don't get it, the point is your derogatory way of putting it

[Evil Raccoon]

15 minutes ago, peanutspathtotruth said:

Yeah you don't get it, the point is your derogatory way of putting it

It's the porn you guys watch that's derogatory.

I'm just sayin it makes men feminine, don't cry about it.

Edited January 18, 2021 by Evil Raccoon