When i watch porn i feel both the female and the male

[Javfly33]

If you mean "I fantasize in the video about being the girl and being fucked", just say It lol.

I do It a lot of times and I'm straight too. 

Its not that weird right? ?

[Spiral Wizard]

I remember having a wet dream and right before the orgasm I switch from being the man to being the woman  

it was an amazing experience 

[Leo Gura]

7 hours ago, Evil Raccoon said:

Had the same problem back when I was fappin, felt all feminine and shit.

Lol

[hamedsf]

it's not natural. porn makes you feminine and destroys your self-esteem don't ever watch it. 

[Evil Raccoon]

19 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Lol

I know you’re maintaining a strong relationship with your precious porn collection but the side effects are undeniable.Porn makes men weak and effeminate.

[Gesundheit]

22 minutes ago, hamedsf said:

it's not natural.

Says who? Dr. Penis?

24 minutes ago, hamedsf said:

porn makes you feminine

What does that mean?

24 minutes ago, hamedsf said:

Porn destroys your self-esteem don't ever watch it. 

How exactly? And why?

[StateOfMind]

9 hours ago, Javfly33 said:

If you mean "I fantasize in the video about being the girl and being fucked", just say It lol.

I do It a lot of times and I'm straight too. 

Its not that weird right? ?

Haha you got me... but this is really weird because as you start to explore that, it gets really intense to the point where you have a complete female orgasm! and there is nothing gay about the whole thing.

and for those who have access to psychedelics and experiment with this, i can imagine it to be some really high level shit that even a female can only dream about.

[Vrubel]

1 hour ago, Evil Raccoon said:

I know you’re maintaining a strong relationship with your precious porn collection but the side effects are undeniable.Porn makes men weak and effeminate.

Sounds like there is a beautiful girl inside of you you have been ignoring(;
Get in touch with your feminine and "weak" side, this will ultimately make you very strong and masculine. Psychedelics help a lot.

I myself used to become very sensitive and "weak" after masturbating but now after some work on myself fapping has an absolute zero effect on how masculine and confident I feel, if anything it just relaxes me. 

[Javfly33]

1 hour ago, StateOfMind said:

 it gets really intense to the point where you have a complete female orgasm! 

I have to disagree in that one.

Even though I can fantasize about being the girl during the whole video, always when it comes the time of ejaculating, I feel an intense unstoppable drive to switch to being the man ,while I ejaculate I need to feel I'm pounding . It's impossible to me otherwise in that moment.

 

[Leo Gura]

3 hours ago, Evil Raccoon said:

Porn makes men weak and effeminate.

Lolz

[Kalki Avatar]

@StateOfMind Yep. 

I like playing or imaging being a women or at least activating that femenine energy on purpose that we all have. Gender attitude is a psychological thing. Such thoughts create certain vibration energies. If you practice it, you can create a new self image and save it or anchor it to activate it when you want to experience that energy. Be aware that if you go to some social places with high feminine energy, ppl will think ur gay and weak. Nothing wrong, but be ware. I used to think I was gay or bisexual but i dont like men at all. Its just games of the mind. When you are horny, you like everything. 

Edited January 16, 2021 by Kalki Avatar

[Vrubel]

27 minutes ago, Kalki Avatar said:

@StateOfMind Yep. 

Be aware that if you go to some social places with high feminine energy, ppl will think ur gay and weak. Nothing wrong, but be ware. 

If you play it well women will adore you, but ideally, you have mastered your masculinity too. As a men, you get satisfaction from feeling boyish and masculine. 

 

30 minutes ago, Kalki Avatar said:

I used to think I was gay or bisexual but i dont like men at all. Its just games of the mind. When you are horny, you like everything. 

If you are horny and you like everything you are bi, no?

[Yog]

Oh, there is a guy in porn ?
I thought there was just a dick and a chick.

Good catch man!

[lmfao]

7 hours ago, Evil Raccoon said:

I know you’re maintaining a strong relationship with your precious porn collection but the side effects are undeniable.Porn makes men weak and effeminate.

I'd say porn makes men as weak and effeminate as the Internet does generally. Which is to say I think it's a half truth, in the context of addiction and compulsion. And how the Internet and information novelty can fry your dopamine system. 

I don't know what you specifically mean, but I've seen a narrative of men becoming "weak and effeminate" be very loaded with other ideologies. 

 

It's a handwavy statement right? That men are becoming weak and effiminate. It's the sort of thing you can say vaguely.

I'd argue that the vague and hazy meaning of it is there because it is the expression of idealism. Vague ideals. The sorts of ideals you pick up from hyper masculine depictions in fiction and portrayals of history. It starts to become a matter of having a specific identity that you have to pretend. 

Like I said though, there's a partial truth in a way to it. Convenience can make you lazy. 

Edited January 17, 2021 by lmfao

[Evil Raccoon]

9 hours ago, Vrubel said:

Sounds like there is a beautiful girl inside of you you have been ignoring(;
 

Nope, not at all.In fact I was really androgynous in the past and I proudly showed it.It’s just that when I started doing NoFap I naturally stopped feeling like a woman and I wasn’t expecting that at all.I don’t know why but there’s something about porn that makes you feel like you’re the chick in the vid and that « female feeling » just stays inside of you, even tho you’re a straight guy.Weird.

[Gesundheit]

38 minutes ago, Evil Raccoon said:

Nope, not at all.In fact I was really androgynous in the past and I proudly showed it.It’s just that when I started doing NoFap I naturally stopped feeling like a woman and I wasn’t expecting that at all.I don’t know why but there’s something about porn that makes you feel like you’re the chick in the vid and that « female feeling » just stays inside of you, even tho you’re a straight guy.Weird.

Why would you link that feeling to porn? I've heard others saying that porn makes you a cuckold too, but that's silly cuz the girl in the video means nothing to the consumer.

And now that you're "more masculine", how different is your life?

[Evil Raccoon]

15 minutes ago, Gesundheit said:

Why would you link that feeling to porn? 

Like I’ve said, when I stopped watching porn it went away, it’s not a fucking coincidence. AIso I had many relapses in my journey and it always came back then went away again as soon as I abstained for long enough.                          

 

15 minutes ago, Gesundheit said:

And now that you're "more masculine", how different is your life?

I feel MUCH better!

Edited January 17, 2021 by Evil Raccoon

[Gesundheit]

2 minutes ago, Evil Raccoon said:

Like I’ve said, when I stopped watching porn it went away, it’s not a fucking coincidence. AIso I had many relapses in my journey and it always came back then went away again as soon as abstained for long enough.

Did you stop both fapping and watching porn together? Or do you still fap?

4 minutes ago, Evil Raccoon said:

I feel MUCH better!

Awesome! Did your dating life improve as well? 

[Arcangelo]

This is what's going on: When you watch porn you are training your brain to become a cuckhold.

Think about it: You are watching the girl of your fantasies getting fucked by some other dude while you masturbate.

                           You get turned on by watching your girl with some other dude.

                           Why you don't just watch nude girls and let your imagination do the rest? Because you are kind of a cuckhold already. You need to       see  a  dick that is not yours do the fucking, while you. Just. Watch.

That's what's going on: you are slowly becoming a cuckhold. You deceive yourself thinking is harmless and OK but it isn't. Unless you truly desire to become a cuckhold then it is OK and harmless.

 

Arc

Edited January 17, 2021 by Arcangelo

[Evil Raccoon]

23 minutes ago, Gesundheit said:

Did you stop both fapping and watching porn together? Or do you still fap?

I stopped both.

24 minutes ago, Gesundheit said:

Awesome! Did your dating life improve as well? 

Of course! Feeling more alpha sure helps a lot in the dating scene and in life in general.

And sex feels a lot better since I'm no longer stuck in my head thinking about porn to get hard.