When i watch porn i feel both the female and the male

[StateOfMind]

i'm a guy, so when i watch porn, of course i watch it from a guy perspective but i also pick up some of the female emotions/orgasm as well.

Does this happen to you?

is this related to a better integration of the anima? although i haven't tried to integrate it consciously.

[Rilles]

perhaps youre bisexual? 

[Elevated]

I'm not sure what you mean. Like do you begin to view the guy in the porn from the perspective of the female? Or do you mean you respond to the signals of pleasure from the woman? 

[StateOfMind]

4 minutes ago, Rilles said:

perhaps youre bisexual? 

not a chance

2 minutes ago, Elevated said:

I'm not sure what you mean. Like do you begin to view the guy in the porn from the perspective of the female? Or do you mean you respond to the signals of pleasure from the woman? 

yeah it's like how the female is feeling about it, you can put it the same way an empath would pick up emotions.
it's like watching from the guy's perspective but then that perspective changes to the woman's and comes back in a second, like a switch
 

this is rare but sometimes i can feel for them both simultaneously.

[Gesundheit]

A wise man once told me: “Ignore your problems in life like you ignore the male actor in porn” 

I orgasm exclusively to the female emotions/orgasms/facial expressions/voice/sounds/body shaking/etc..., and I'm 100% straight. So I'm not sure what you mean by this thread. More info needed.

[StateOfMind]

3 minutes ago, Gesundheit said:

A wise man once told me: “Ignore your problems in life like you ignore the male actor in porn” 

I orgasm exclusively to the female emotions/orgasms/facial expressions/voice/sounds/body shaking/etc..., and I'm 100% straight. So I'm not sure what you mean by this thread. More info needed.

I really cannot describe it more than my replay to @Elevated

if you're a guy and you feel the orgasm of the female watching porn, than we're the same.

[flowboy]

yup, happens to me too. I can also pick up (or empathise) sensations of people if they are in front of me, being sexual or otherwise

 

Although personally I don't really bother with porn which is well-acted or elaborate like that

Edited January 15, 2021 by flowboy

[StateOfMind]

1 minute ago, flowboy said:

yup, happens to me too. I can also pick up (or empathize) sensations from people if they are in front of me, being sexual or otherwise

on one hand it feels good that i'm not alone, and on the other hand it's ruined cuz i thought i had some special power Lol

[flowboy]

@StateOfMind  Rest assured that in my daily life I am usually too closed-off to this I only get it in spiritually heightened / open states, for example on a retreat, or when I have eaten healthy and not ejaculated for multiple weeks. Which is not often ?

[At awe]

@StateOfMind 

I have actually watched porn with the intention to realize/sense/read if the female role gets any pleasure from the whole process. Mostly mentally analyzing I guess.

Tbh it’s almost impossible for me to look at those videos if I suspect that she gets nothing from it.  

[Leo Gura]

2 hours ago, StateOfMind said:

i'm a guy, so when i watch porn, of course i watch it from a guy perspective but i also pick up some of the female emotions/orgasm as well.

Does this happen to you?

Yes, of course.

You would be a fool to watch it otherwise. The girl part is the best part.

[StarStruck]

In most porn, girls are being face fucked or perform oral sex. Thanks but no thanks.

[Abdelghafar]

3 hours ago, StateOfMind said:

i'm a guy, so when i watch porn, of course i watch it from a guy perspective but i also pick up some of the female emotions/orgasm as well.

Does this happen to you?

Yes.

[StateOfMind]

23 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

In most porn, girls are being face fucked or perform oral sex. Thanks but no thanks.

this is NSFW but, it's just another perspective, gotta take it. don't judge.

it could also be shadow work, if it disgusts you, you should try it. at least imagine it.

[EddieEddie1995]

Do it consciously, woman orgasm is very interesting, and it lasts for long time ?

[roopepa]

It's normal to feel what others feel. Especially when talking about sex. That's the best part.

This reminds me of a dream I once had where I was the woman being fucked. It was quite weird. I can still remember what it felt like to have a penis in my vagina. It changed me forever.

[Preety_India]

@StateOfMind ya it's fine. 

Guess when I'm imagining sexual things, sometimes I try to think about the guy and how he is feeling pleasure during the act and it heightens my feelings. 

I guess it's the same way. I find it normal. 

I guess we do it because it's a mutual thing and seeing the expressions of the other makes the experience more real and delightful. 

 

[Roy]

Who has time to watch porn lol? It's way too much of a time investment, it's like 20-40ish minutes for a video to watch the whole way through if you want to build suspense. Just don't get it.

[Lyubov]

2 hours ago, Roy said:

Who has time to watch porn lol? It's way too much of a time investment, it's like 20-40ish minutes for a video to watch the whole way through if you want to build suspense. Just don't get it.

people watch the entire 40 minute video? 0_o

[Evil Raccoon]

Porn fucks up your sexuality, you should stop watching it.

Had the same problem back when I was fappin, felt all feminine and shit.