How much do women get turned on by a man's looks?

[Leo Gura]

5 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

Don't you think that women are supposed to operate in logic mode or else you'll have 10 times the current population on the planet. Whatchu thinkin bruh? 

You operate in logic mode 90% of the time. Then there's the other 10% -- that's what I'm talking about.

If you were in logic mode all time the human race would die out.

Besides, you don't enjoy logic mode

[Preety_India]

1 minute ago, Leo Gura said:

Then there's the other 10% -- that's what I'm talking about.

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To tell you a little secret. 

That 10% is too precious. Reserved for special men of course. 

Not any Tom Dick and Harry. 

So the dick pic of only that special someone will work, ya know. 

 

[Character kill]

Yeah the emotional side of things. No wonder that woman are attracted to big artists like Oliver Sykes or Alex Turner.

[intotheblack]

I think the more common type of male stripper would be at a hen party, I don't know how popular actual male strip clubs are.  

I spontaneously went to an erotic dance club some years back, when drunk late night in Bulgaria.  of course  it was women though not men..  I could imagine the vibe would be very different if it were male strippers.

the stereotype for women who get horny over strippers etc would be a loud and drunk middle age type lol 

 

Edited January 14, 2021 by intotheblack

[Origins]

Inclusive of game is all just advertising to evolutionary biology anyhow, short term stuff. I don't play my old video games anymore, they're boring I've out grown them. I'm looking for things (i.e. the big R) in life that have more substance.

[intotheblack]

7 minutes ago, Character kill said:

Alex Turner

I do love Alex turner haha although I don't think he's drop dead gorgeous he's super cool and down to earth.  Saw arctic monkeys in 2019,  he has amazing energy.

Edited January 14, 2021 by intotheblack

[Leo Gura]

11 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

To tell you a little secret. 

That 10% is too precious. Reserved for special men of course. 

Not any Tom Dick and Harry. 

So the dick pic of only that special someone will work, ya know.

That's not a secret. That's as predictable as Trump.

The real secret is that all that specialness is bullshit invented to maintain your survival agenda.

[Preety_India]

4 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

The real secret is that all that specialness is bullshit.

Explain me how? 

So if I get turned on by a really intelligent guy having an intimate conversation with me, Lmfao how is that bullshit? 

I usually get attracted to the Dom type of guys but they need to be intelligent. 

 

Edited January 14, 2021 by Preety_India

[Character kill]

@intotheblack flamboyance, hotness, charm, charisma. Definitely something special going on with his energy.

Not unusual that artists playing their own music transmit an extra magnetic and unique energy. Really beautiful phenomenon.

[Preety_India]

@Etherial Cat  I usually get turned on by Italian men. 

My ex boyfriend had Italian genetics. 

 

Edited January 14, 2021 by Preety_India

[Character kill]

I can also speak from my own experience that a physiological reaction to a woman’s body can be severely weakened.

I have had a weird progressive spiritual journey.

Overly opened upper energy centers come with a great sacrifice. That animalistic quality to getting horny gets really weak. It’s there though.

[intotheblack]

9 minutes ago, Etherial Cat said:

18 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

@Etherial Cat  I usually get turned on by Italian men. 

My ex boyfriend had Italian genetics. 

Plenty of handsome chaps in Italy for sure.  

yes but with huge egos lol.  I had 2 Italian guys on separate occasions tell me that italians are the best, they 'have the best food, culture, fashion, and that Italian people are not stupid compared to people from other countries'   yes some of that may be true regarding food and fashion,  but at least be humble about it lol 

Edited January 14, 2021 by intotheblack

[Leo Gura]

38 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

Explain me how? 

So if I get turned on by a really intelligent guy having an intimate conversation with me, Lmfao how is that bullshit? 

There is nothing special about anyone. Or, to say the same thing, everyone is equally special.

The mind is bullshitting itself whenever it feels that one thing is more special than any other. That is ego in a nutshell. But you can't stop doing it or you'll die. So here we are, bullshitting each other.

And now you understand all of human life, especially dating and relationships. It's all 100% pure bullshit which is why it's so unstable. Ta-da!

[Preety_India]

2 minutes ago, intotheblack said:

yes but with huge egos lol.  I had 2 Italian guys tell me that italians are the best, they 'have the best food, culture, fashion, and that Italian people are not stupid compared to people from other countries'   yes some of that may be true regarding food and fashion,  but at least be humble about it lol 

Omg my ex boyfriend used to bombard me everyday how Italians have the best dick like all the time to the point of absurdity. 

I mean yeah he had the best dick but so what, be humble lol. You're spot on. 

 

Edited January 14, 2021 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

3 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

There is nothing special about anyone. Or, to say the same thing, everyone is equally special.

The mind is bullshitting itself whenever it feels that one thing is more special than other. That is ego in a nutshell.

Agreed. 

[Character kill]

2 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

Omg my ex boyfriend used to bombard me everyday how Italians have the best dick like all the time to the point of absurdity. 

I mean yeah he had the best dick but so what, be humble lol. You're spot on. 

 

Using the past tense there is a bit sus. What did you do to his mr. Johnson!

[Preety_India]

On 1/14/2021 at 4:17 PM, Character kill said:

Using the past tense there is a bit sus. What did you do to his mr. Johnson!

I dumped him. That's why past tense. 

Suspect lol.. Haha. 

Because only dick doesn’t hold a relationship. 

 

 

Edited January 16, 2021 by Preety_India

[StarStruck]

Women care about looks of the man to the extend that they don't want deformed or ugly children (unconscious process). That is why they also look at guys who are somewhat muscular, tall but they also look at intelligence or money. Since intelligence and money present power and that is good for her survival and for the survival of her (potential) kids.

I've started looking at women differently and it helped me a lot. Stop listening to what women say they want. Don't follow her or listen to her. Develop a good intuition. She will respect you for it.

Edit: that last part was my stage red flaring up

Edited January 14, 2021 by StarStruck

[Spiral Wizard]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Haha

Women are not sexually aroused in the same way as guys. They are not aroused by visuals alone. They are attracted to powerful personality and presence and leadership. They are attracted when the guy is good at pumping up her emotional state and making her feel like a girl. Women are emotional creatures. A photo of the biggest dick in the world will not make her excited. You must pump up her emotional state first. The silent James Bond approach will not get you laid. You must be chatty, playful, and extroverted. You need to play with her.

Your looks are a great advantage -- they get your foot in the door -- but getting your foot in the door is NOT closing. Learning to close makes or breaks your whole lay count. If you are good-looking but have no clue how to close, you'll get laid less then ugly guys who know how to close.

Right now it's like you own a Ferrari but have no clue how to drive. The Ferrari is a fast car that will beat a Toyota, but if I know how to drive my Toyota and you have no clue how to drive your Ferrari, I will beat you every time.

If you want to understand what turns on women, go to Walmart and buy a romance novel. Read it. That's is porn for women. Women are turned on mentally, not visually.

Also... attraction is also not seduction. You can get attraction pretty easy but then you must lay on the seduction until she's horny. A women does not get horny instantly like a guy. You need to guide her into it and manage all the logistics so sex can happen. You absolutely cannot count on women to handle the logistics. Learning to handle logistics like a champ is the #1 key to getting laid consistently.

It's the logistics, stupid

All game boils down to two things: playful leading. Everything else is an unpacking of those two things. If you can't be playful and you can't lead, your game sucks, and so your chances of getting laid become extremely low.

Damn. Dear Mr. @Leo Gura, we are still waiting for your promised videos on dating.

[Preety_India]

7 minutes ago, Etherial Cat said:

That's quite true.

In my case, I have also noticed I'm attracted to men who are good pattern transmitter. But it doesn't stop to genetics, intelligence and survival skills. You also want an exceptionally good mental and emotional health so he is a good partner and father to your offsprings. 

Mental healths issues and ego development stages are also part of what I sniff for. Yet, most men overlook this factor.

How can he be so perfect though? 

I admit I got some mental issues. But then I'm ready to give him a pass if he has issues too. 

Are we not supposed to embrace imperfections? 

 

Edited January 14, 2021 by Preety_India