Massive insight about pick-up

[Parththakkar12]

I want to share an insight about pick-up.

Pick-up, in essence, is about social climbing and achieving social status. That's what the quest for the relationships you want is about. So, if you really want to do pick-up efficiently, learn to social-climb!

Nerds, for example, are very smart and capable. But, they have lower social-status because they don't know how to climb. Pick-up tends to be all about teaching nerds to climb.

What do you think about this? What do you think about the relationship between pick-up and social-climbing?

Edited January 4, 2021 by Parththakkar12

[hamedsf]

it's not about social climbing or something in those lines. it's your confidence which helps you in the process. in case of smart nerdy guys, I should say that they're confident in their study field but not confident flirting with girls even on texting. competence brings you confidence and confidence feed it back vice versa and this positive cycle goes on. 

Edited January 4, 2021 by hamedsf

[Parththakkar12]

26 minutes ago, hamedsf said:

it's not about social climbing or something in those lines. it's your confidence which helps you in the process. in case of smart nerdy guys, I should say that they're confident in their study field but not confident flirting with girls even on texting. competence brings you confidence and confidence feed it back vice versa and this positive cycle goes on. 

I have a few questions about this:

• What about the guys that have poor game but get laid because of their social status? They've never learned to flirt, women will complain about their assholishness but won't leave them.
• If you learn to climb, would that help according to you?
• I never really understood why flirting is considered a 'skill'. It kinda assumes that all women are the same machine, they come with a manual that you have to figure out and if it didn't work, that's because you didn't flirt well enough. Maybe you weren't compatible!

[hyruga]

There's nothing to climb if you have confidence in your own ability. 

[Human Mint]

social status is boring

[Human Mint]

The real thing is going through your vulnerabilities and emerging as a more careless/free person. That's what attracts. The rest is communication skills. At least that's what I understand about pick up

Edited January 4, 2021 by Human Mint

[hamedsf]

2 hours ago, Human Mint said:

social status is boring

@Human Mint not boring at all

[Human Mint]

@hamedsf Yeah maybe. I wouldn't like to be left by my social circle. But for me it isn't the most important thing at all

[hamedsf]

7 hours ago, Parththakkar12 said:

I have a few questions about this:

• What about the guys that have poor game but get laid because of their social status? They've never learned to flirt, women will complain about their assholishness but won't leave them.
• If you learn to climb, would that help according to you?
• I never really understood why flirting is considered a 'skill'. It kinda assumes that all women are the same machine, they come with a manual that you have to figure out and if it didn't work, that's because you didn't flirt well enough. Maybe you weren't compatible!

@Parththakkar12

first of all, I don't wanna say that women don't care about a man's money AT ALL. I would state that women pay attention to other factors of men more than the money alone. when you see somebody who has money and social status and successful with women at the same time, it means he's acting MORE confident and LESS needy and that's what makes him attractive. 
flirting is art and skill AND you should experience my progression to understand what I mean, as I'm getting that skill, I become more attractive to women around me. ?