Height-ism and the double level hypocrisy of feminists

[integral]

Everyone is a slave to there biological programming reinforced by culture. There is no fighting it. 

Last girl i dated only fantasized about big dick guys (she indirectly told me). Nothing can be done about it, Luckily amazon sells big dicks, so i just bought one. 

The wrong battle to fight would of been trying to force the girl to change her state of mind. NEVER going to happen. 

Just play the game exactly as it is.

[Michal__]

17 hours ago, DnoReally said:

Easier said than done, when you're not a 6'2 spiritual entrepreneur, hyper masculine, spiritually enlightened, tall, handsome, well dressed, charmful, witty, square-jawed, cross-legged meditating, kundalini-channeling, chakra-opening, maserati driving, 5-Meo plugging chad millionaire

 

no homo

Yeah, sure, no homo.

[integral]

@neutralempty Thats pretty much what i said?

[integral]

@neutralempty Instead of making good moves and strategically playing the game, hes complaining that the game isnt exactly as he wants it to be. 

Focus on the things you can control. Like inner growth and outer play. 

hmm lol also 99.99% of men cant use sex toys to increase there penis size, there way to insecure and attached  to do that. It sounds like buying a bigger penis is an easy solution but its deceptively not, Most men cant play the game as it is, they get in there own way at every corner. 

Edited January 6, 2021 by integral

[Christdas]

@Lyubov dude, ur attitude is 100x more unattractive than ur height

[ZeN]

From the perspective of a giant with NBA stats (6’8,5” and 230 lbs - 2.05m, 105kgs) I can confirm the most important factor when it comes to success in whatever field - inner game.

As someone with high intelligence, above average socioeconomic status and average looks I still struggled for most of my life (Im 30y/o) with inner insecurities, self-esteem issues and little to no success with women and dating in general. It felt like I was a repellent of the opposite sex which made me very confused because I shouldve been the one with automatic success (tall, intelligent, somewhat funny, wealthy) - but elas no success!

Only when I started self-developing, spiritual work and improving inner game is when the situation changed. Its all about the energy and feelings  Even we, tall men, dont enjoy assumed success and confidence associated with being tall and towering over the small folk ⛄️

[integral]

@neutralempty There's no difference. 

[integral]

@neutralempty We are mixing up inner game and outer game. Its not all inner game. If a stage orange woman wants a porn star level dick or a taller man, no inner work is going to change that. Need to be realistic with the cards that you have and play the game. 

Development needs to happen from all angles, not just inner work. 

Well this is all inner work... just out of words to describe all the angles in it. 

Edited January 6, 2021 by integral

[Leo Gura]

On 1/4/2021 at 5:01 PM, DnoReally said:

Easier said than done, when you're not a 6'2 spiritual entrepreneur, hyper masculine, spiritually enlightened, tall, handsome, well dressed, charmful, witty, square-jawed, cross-legged meditating, kundalini-channeling, chakra-opening, maserati driving, 5-Meo plugging chad millionaire

no homo

Lolz

That's your absurd idea of me. You might as well have photoshopped my face onto Arnold Schwarzeneggar's body. That's what you've done in your mind because you idolize me.

The truth is that I have been insecure my whole life, I've struggle enormously with being social and attracting women.

When I attract a hot woman, she has no idea who I am or how much I make.

Yes, I'm 6'2". But... I don't have a square jaw. I'm not classically good-looking. I'm skinny. No girl gives a fuck about my spirituality, knowledge, or wisdom. She has no idea how much money I make and I never tell her. I can be socially awkward. I'm highly introverted and don't like small-talk.

1000s of hours of work went into making me dating-material. And much of it was invested into improving my inner game.

[Leo Gura]

On 1/4/2021 at 11:45 PM, Lyubov said:

I don't think it's really comparable to being short or even a disadvantage for most guys. A well kept shaved head (no grandpa hair on the side with a bald top) is a hairstyle and looks really good on most men and is considered a masculine style. Also facial hair plays a role as well. It really isn't comparable at all to being a short guy.

 

When you are a movie star or musician you can literally be a dwarf and you will still get mad pussy.

Need I mention Tom Cruise or Peter Dinklage?

I didn't say you can't get hot girls being bald. You can and I have. But it's still a disadvantage compared to otherwise. When I attract a hot girl I don't do with my looks or money or status. I do it with the inner and outer game I've developed.

You can find plenty of examples of short guys dating super-model girls who are taller than them. Your mind just ignores those counter-examples because it doesn't fit your shit inner game victim mindset. Again... your mind doesn't care about truth here, all it's interested in is rationalizing your victim complex.

Be ware of how your mind plays tricks on you. That's insecurity in a nutshell.

[MrBON]

@Leo Gura I will print these messages and stick them in my wall or something. Quite inspiring. May i ask, did you struggle with friends also or just attracting girls? Or if i can ask my question more clearly, was the issue to be considered a cool great guy by other people and girls or was it to make the girl feel attracted to you?

Sorry if it is a personal question.

[Leo Gura]

9 minutes ago, MrBON said:

@Leo Gura I will print these messages and stick them in my wall or something. Quite inspiring. May i ask, did you struggle with friends also or just attracting girls?

In a sense I don't struggle with friends because I'm so introverted I don't keep them.

I enjoy my own company more than that of any other human. Many people don't understand such a lifestyle.

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Or if i can ask my question more clearly, was the issue to be considered a cool great guy by other people and girls or was it to make the girl feel attracted to you?

The struggle was three-fold:

1. Simply learning to be social at all
2. Getting over my insecurities and limiting beliefs that any hot girl would want to date me
3. Learning how to flirt and attract women

When I started I had big problems with all three.

[Star]

So actually MrBon if I understand correctly... you want to attract women who are attracted by tall guys... 

There are also women who are attracted by guys who have a lot of money.. 

Other women like fame, some want to have guys who are their servants...

But there are also women who search for love.. trust me

Personally I think that shared sense of humour is the key to a relationship...

And all those years, till recently, I was complaining and accusing others that they were boring and not funny...

well I realised that I was the problem, I was always in a bad mood, stressed and miserable and I couldn't find anything funny.... 

You should also see if the problem is you and not your height.

Your height is irrelevant... yes women like tall men, like you like big breast and boobs and asses and models and pornstar...

so what?

(I'm sorry if I'm off topic... I'm new here plus.. I'm a foreighner, I don't even live in USA and I haven't read the whole thread)

 

Edited January 6, 2021 by Star

[Leo Gura]

Also, dude, don't forget, most women are short! You can easily find gorgeous women who are in the sub 5'5" range. So ultimately height is irrelevant.

[Merkabah]

You can also learn to use hypnosis. It's a great tool to erase any kind of insecurity from your subconscious. Try it and you will see it's marvelous effects.

Edited January 6, 2021 by Merkabah

[mmKay]

huh, https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Dwilf

[Rajneeshpuram]

So evolution went wrong? I read that short men were very skilled for fishing, and tall ones for grabbing inaccessibly high fruits...

Why women see short men as less gifted?

[Lyubov]

6 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

I didn't say you can't get hot girls being bald. You can and I have. But it's still a disadvantage compared to otherwise. When I attract a hot girl I don't do with my looks or money or status. I do it with the inner and outer game I've developed.

You can find plenty of examples of short guys dating super-model girls who are taller than them. Your mind just ignores those counter-examples because it doesn't fit your shit inner game victim mindset. Again... your mind doesn't care about truth here, all it's interested in is rationalizing your victim complex.

Be ware of how your mind plays tricks on you. That's insecurity in a nutshell.

My reply was to you saying it was a disadvantage. I'm saying being bald isn't anymore a disadvantage than having any other hairstyle except maybe exceptionally beautiful hair. You think having a shaved head is a disadvantage vs the basic ass short haircut 95% of guys have? Maybe it is in some cultures where a shaved head is totally unconventional but not in western countries. Also I'm not short (6 feet) but I've seen plenty of short guys get made fun of constantly (mostly by other men exploiting male insecurities) and been in the club where my friend who is super short would start talking to girls and they would instantly only want to talk to me. I'm also balding. I've never felt it was a disadvantage in any sense. Short guys can get beautiful women. This is true. My friend has a hot girlfriend, but he tries and he told me he has faced a lot of shit for being short. I've faced none of that for balding except the once in a blue moon bald joke from other men. I really don't think they are remotely comparable but at the same time it isn't an excuse not to better oneself cause short guys can still do really well with women with great inner game and status. 

Edited January 7, 2021 by Lyubov

[Skin-encapsulatedego]

6 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

In a sense I don't struggle with friends because I'm so introverted I don't keep them.

I enjoy my own company more than that of any other human. Many people don't understand such a lifestyle.

@Leo Gura could you speak a bit on maintaining an intimate relationship while being so introverted?  How do you maintain your own space given so much of life is shared when in a relationship, and the likely far higher social needs of the other person?

[Leo Gura]

4 hours ago, Lyubov said:

My reply was to you saying it was a disadvantage. I'm saying being bald isn't anymore a disadvantage than having any other hairstyle except maybe exceptionally beautiful hair. You think having a shaved head is a disadvantage vs the basic ass short haircut 95% of guys have?

Don't bullshit me. Being bald is certainly a disadvantage in dating hot women. Don't use this as an excuse. You can still date hot women while bald. But it's harder. You will have to have better game.

3 hours ago, Skin-encapsulatedego said:

@Leo Gura could you speak a bit on maintaining an intimate relationship while being so introverted?  How do you maintain your own space given so much of life is shared when in a relationship, and the likely far higher social needs of the other person?

1) Although I am very introverted I really enjoy deep intimate relationships. It's a bit of a paradox, but not really. Introverts like few relationships but they are deeper. We trade off breadth for depth.

So while you may think that I don't go deep with intimacy, the opposite is the case. When I'm with a girl, I give her my full attention because I don't scatter my social energy around in 50 different ways. And I'm not with a girl often so it feels much more special.

2) As an introvert you need to make plenty of space for alone time. Don't constantly be together for long periods of time.

3) Dating an introvert is helpful because she too will appreciate her space and alone time and she won't be interested in highly social activities like clubbing or partying. Two deep introverts can make for a great combo. And there are plenty of introverted girls.