Value

Really need some advice - I feel an inner urge to go travel

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I am a man in my mid twenties, I have met a fantastic girl who I love very much. We have been a couple for 1,5 years but I feel an inner need to go out and travel in the world. I haven't really done the "travel thing" that some people do after they finish High School, I have basically spent the last 5 years locket up working with stuff on my own. Furthermore, these years haven't been very social for me either, at college I only attended to my craft basically and it was a very un-social environment, I have felt isolated at times but have gotten career stuff going. I feel like I have a lot of catching up to do of "being young", "being a college kid", "partying" etc. What is making me stay is my beloved girlfriend. We are a match to the like of which I haven't experienced before. The other thing is that I see some cool opportunities in the marketplace of my field to possibly make great leaps forward in my career (which though would lock me down to my home location even more...). 

What should I do? All advice MUCH appreciated.

/ With love

 

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@Value

So what's the problem? Why is your girlfriend an obstacle to you traveling, being social and having fun? Unless you mean something else by wanting to "party" ;).


"Finding your reason can be so deceiving, a subliminal place. 

I will not break, 'cause I've been riding the curves of these infinity words and so I'll be on my way. I will not stay.

 And it goes On and On, On and On"

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57 minutes ago, Value said:

We are a match to the like of which I haven't experienced before.

That's the biggest trap.

You have little to no experience with life, everything seems so "total" but then 10 years later you look back and realize you were a dumb fuck.

Go travel and gain experience, quit being stuck with this comfort zone.  

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Maybe you should travel. But you can't during covid. 

Wait till you get injected 


INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues

Cleared out ignore list today. 

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