Should I have approached here ?

[TheUniverseIsLove]

@Striving for more He made a comment about our mutual surroundings and tasks. Approach as if you were just being friendly.... and if it goes well, ask for the number

[kag101]

On 12/19/2020 at 11:25 AM, Striving for more said:

I'm just going to approach no matter what, who cares if I disturb someone, it's a couple seconds

Stop with this simplistic idea of "approaching no matter what". This neurotic attitude of yours can make you look creepy. Use common sense!

 

[Striving for more]

On 21/12/2020 at 2:24 AM, kag101 said:

Stop with this simplistic idea of "approaching no matter what". This neurotic attitude of yours can make you look creepy. Use common sense!

 

OK OK, Obviously I am not going to "approach" a girl alone walking at night, or in a cubicle > that's scary AF 

But I mean I will "approach no matter what" every time I have the urge to approach - & I'd never have the urge to approach in a creepy/scary way anyway

I don't get how having an abundance mindset would make me creepy ..

@kag101

Having said that ... Social Calibration is important, I need to check I do understand this properly. If I did creep out a girl, and noticed her creeped out reaction - that would really knock my confidence & I would feel less desire to continue approaching

Edited December 22, 2020 by Striving for more