Females are attracted to strength , Men are attracted to kindness

[mandyjw]

Attraction is uncontrollable and undefinable. 

If someone tells me I have to be sweet, kind, caring, attractive and lock myself into those traits somehow to be acceptable or desirable, I'll gladly take the freedom of being however I feel inspired to be over whatever the prize is for paying the price of my authenticity and freedom in order to be something else for someone else. Likewise I would rather give my partner the gift of being authentic, whether he is incredibly strong in some situations but in others, I have to squash hornets for him in others cause he totally freaks out. We are contradictions. We are hypocrites. We are living art, we are perpetually in motion and free expression. We are not humans, we are dancer.