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[Preety_India]

Love. 

[Preety_India]

 

 

 

 

 

Focus on positive people 

 

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[Preety_India]

 

We're moving towards a modern better future where everyone should feel accepted, loved, respected and welcomed.. 

 

 

Edited December 10, 2020 by Preety_India

[egoeimai]

12.000 posts 

Congrats ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[Preety_India]

@egoeimai thank you 

[Preety_India]

I just need to timestamp myself when I'm in here. 

I just don't know how time flies by.. 

[Preety_India]

Oh no please, enough with your 15 mins of preaching, spiritual ego and spiritual fame. Please no more. I took enough from you. 

 

[Preety_India]

Just cut through the bs and come straight to the point.. 

There's so much energy that needs to be unblocked. 

I need to seriously start working on myself and reach recovery. 

I had promised myself in April that I'll be doing shadow work but I got too busy in writing a book throughout June and August and I completely forgot to do shadow work.. 

Then came the elections and lot of things in between including distractions from my ex that nearly ruined everything that could have been possible. 

Anyway I'm trying to get back on track after terrible experiences and closures. 

Want to get my streak back. Holla!! 

 

[Preety_India]

I need to break up my journal into time stamps, Bullet points, starters, events, breaks, updates, posting, instructions, chapters, cycles etc. 

I want to be more proactive with my journals. 

 

Edited December 11, 2020 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

I was going to make a comprehensive list on Hm. That has been heavily on my mind. 

[Preety_India]

Trying hard to focus.. 

 

Timestamp - 9. 25 am. 

Edited December 11, 2020 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

Insights such as reprogram the mind 

 

Also this new insight that you really need to be way past something early on to know how you should really put things into motion. Otherwise there will be a ton of distractions. 

One way to keep going in the right direction (all of life is going in the right direction) is to keep a goal board and track your progress towards it. 

If you're doing good or great, continue. 

And if you're slacking, then look for reasons and eliminate those reasons. 

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Keep a track throughout the day

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Always focus on the inevitable this helps with decision making 

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Always remember that every problem has a solution in reprogramming the mind. 

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Focus on positive people. Focus on serious people. Focus on matured people. 

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Go meta on everything. Use systems thinking 

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Remember you can never change the world so don't even try it. 

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The problem with giving advice is that it ultimately falls on deaf ears when people get to attack that advice. It serves no purpose even if it's the best advice. 

There is a huge problem with giving advice in an open environment. Because it's not a clean environment. 

Even your best intentions are misunderstood and twisted and spinned in order to fit their narrative. This is an inherent flaw.. 

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Connect with positive and serious people who display the best intentions. 

There will be too many jerks online. Just don't play into their game 

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Always remember that principle is more important than company. 

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Build yourself up

Build  back better 

Bright Brilliant Beautiful 

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I have struggled so much and I came so far, even the devil is going to be have some mercy on me. 

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A trap may or may not exist. But learning to be careful is important 

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You need to be able to give advice in a clean environment. Without all the people jostling 

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I need to do hourly updates 

 

 

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All that the devil achieves is distraction from "work" 

 

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The best couple in my opinion is Barack Obama and Michelle Obama. They intuitively understand each other. 

 

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You have to be in a proper grounded emotional state or place to be able to work toward your goals in a definitive manner. 

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I need a partner who keeps me grounded. 

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Feminine nature 

Very trusting very giving 

Masculine nature - dominant or passive 

 

What is feminine attracted to? 

Dominant masculine 

Why is feminine attracted to dominant masculine? 

Because she perceives dominant as protective. 

She does not see beta or passive as protective. So zero attraction to beta. 

In masculinity, you can dominant abusive DA, or dominant protective DP... The feminine mostly ends up with DA instead of DP. She has to work very hard to find DP and sometimes she never finds DP. 

Most alphas = abusive 

Most betas = insecure. 

Both alpha and beta use abusive tactics 

Alpha uses domination and fear. Pure fear. 

Beta uses gaslighting and guilting and contradicting/ opposing/ hyper critical /violation of boundaries / constantly attacking self esteem/ drama creation /giving emotional stress /unnecessary demands/ emotional blackmail /childish behavior /immature behavior /asking you to prove love/not ready for resolution / playing victim /suicide threats and obsessing and control freak behavior, using insecurities/ jealousy. 

 

A woman should be given 2 choices. Either find a healthy male or be single with the ability to survive alone. 

If you can't find a healthy male then remain single. 

Whats marriage = brainwashing.. Packaged as tradition and culture. Patriarchy. 

Prince Charming = brainwashing 

Romantic movies and novels = brainwashing /fantasy

Reality = men have agenda / max benefit 

Man's stays in the marriage = because of social pressure 

Men = want more than one woman. Masculine nature. 

Healthy men = very few

Most boyfriends = assholes 

Solution to female problems 

Enemies of a female /enemies of the feminine = chemicals, hormones, thoughts, emotions. 

A woman uses her heart more often than the head.

Love = attraction /addiction /drug 

When the woman breaks the relationship she experiences withdrawal and suffers relapse just like in addiction, she goes back to the abusive boyfriend 

Her chemicals are very strong. The more feminine a woman, stronger her chemicals. 

Once she is in a relationship, if it's abusive, very difficult to break chemical bond once formed. 

These chemicals /hormones /emotions create sticky brain fog. Chemical fog /love fog. Her brain is full of love fog.

She won't leave the abusive boyfriend unless the love fog dissolves. 

Why does a woman not leave? 

Society will say low self esteem, trauma, unconscious behavior, low self worth or that she is always attracted to assholes etc etc.. These are fringe reasons but not key reason..

She falls in love through manipulation. 

The key reason why the woman is staying in such a relationship, is because of chemical attraction /chemical bonding or love fog. 

For removing the love fog, the woman has to be dragged out of the relationship by multiple people including supportive family members and other community people to slowly coax her into leaving the abusive boyfriend. Coaxing should continue during relapse phase also. 

 

 

How to prevent this problem 

Give women financial Empowerment 

Give women tools and resources to know what toxic and abusive relationships look like. Awareness about domestic violence and emotional abuse. Give them books, videos, articles, interviews, discussions therapies. 

Give women emotional support, both family and community. 

Other tools - Reprogramming the Mind. Coping mechanisms. Survival mechanisms. Healing mechanisms. Defense mechanisms. 

Examples of Reprogramming the Mind 

If you're trusting - become skeptical 

If you are thinking it's good - think it's bad

If you believe easily - don't believe easily. Give more time and opportunity and higher threshold to reach the belief point 

Run a lot of shit tests on the guy. 

Only if the man agrees and listens 80% of the time, and disagrees 20% of the time, he is good. Also keep a three strike rule. Thrice if he hurt you (minor hurting) and 1 strike rule for major hurt. So if he hurts (minor) thrice and major once then he should be dumped.. Trash bin. 

Don't simply allow anyone in your life, don't let them in your life if they can't pass the test. Have strict filters. 

You should have a higher threshold for someone's good behavior to begin to really matter. 

If you think it will get better - no, it will get worse 

If he is too sweet - think it's manipulative 

The issue of female loneliness, lack of family support, dysfunctional family, lack of emotional independence, lack of community support, bullying community 

lack of family support, dysfunctional family, lack of emotional independence, lack of community support, bullying community = factors that increases loneliness. 

 

 

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Edited December 11, 2020 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

What I'm going to do in this journal is use these straight lines to extend on a particular insight. Whereas if I'm having insights in rapid succession then then I'm going to use bullet markers to jot them down 

 

But if I want to extend on a particular insight and give an explanation on it, I would simply use dash or straight lines such as this —————————

 

[Preety_India]

There is no point in rehashing spiritual principles unless you embody them and unless you implement them. 

Only a wise person can fully understand me and all the bad mental programming I've been through and how it should be undone and replaced by reprogramming. 

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Genuine hearts and proper minds is a great combo. 

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This image is bomb. Love it. 

 

Edited December 11, 2020 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

This cat looks so cute. 

 

 

On a side note - don't think too much about people. 

 

[Preety_India]

This. 

On 12/11/2020 at 6:07 AM, Preety_India said:

I need to break up my journal into time stamps, Bullet points, starters, events, breaks, updates, posting, instructions, chapters, cycles etc. 

I want to be more proactive with my journals. 

 

 

[Preety_India]

Time stamp - 4.34 pm. 

Completed some of my office work. 4 hours work. Then came to the forum. 

How much time spent on the forum - 1 hour. 

I'll gradually reduce my time on the forum but this won't happen right away. 

The pandemic did offer me a huge chance to be on the forum and learn communication, interaction, feedback. 

I've changed so much just being on the forum. 

Now I need to change more. 

I don't like being my older version. I constantly go through metamorphosis and become a new me every few months. 

I like the idea of growth and growing and learning. 

Came to the forum 4. 34 pm. 

Spend time tending garden - 2 hours. 

I like cutting shrubs and bushes. 

I love to spend time in the company of plants and trees. I feel like they are talking to me. 

 

 

 

 

Afternoon time is usually not the best. 

 

I usually like the bigger bulkier trees. Sitting under them in the night is a beautiful spooky mysterious experience. 

 

This is in the morning 

 

 

 

The trees usually look dry on most evenings. 

 

 

Some trees shed their leaves by the end of the day and in the night they look kinda spooky. 

 

 

 

 

 I don't know what this bluish tinge is on these trees. Maybe camera flash. 

I love spending time surrounded by trees. They bring a sense of completion. 

I simply walk into these woods in search of inner peace. 

Time stamp 5.52 pm. 

 

Edited December 12, 2020 by Preety_India

[BornToBoil]

@Preety_India It's so cool! I would like to live in a place like that ))

[Preety_India]

I love spending time with trees. 

 

[Preety_India]

Came to the forum right now (just minutes ago) 

Timestamp 10.05 am.