Scientific study: Women have more power than men in the most important area

[Mannyb]

@Megan Alecia Amen ?? brother, sexual polarity is the universe’s driving force ☯️ 

[Megan Alecia]

The game is the game 

Edited December 10, 2020 by Megan Alecia

[Mannyb]

@Preety_India Reality is most people will still be operating on the basis of sexual attraction regardless of how enlightened It’s important, sexual attraction is a sign of health, when playing the reproductive game, health’ll be the number 1 priority. 

[Mannyb]

2 minutes ago, Megan Alecia said:

 

Beautiful ? as always from Alan Watts! 

[Preety_India]

13 minutes ago, Mannyb said:

@Preety_India 

sexual attraction is a sign of health, 

That's an illusion and a Delusion. 

Sexual attraction is very unconscious. Sexual attraction is the number one reason why people fall into toxic relationships and create dysfunctional families, because they fall in love out of pure attraction, don't use their brains, fall for anyone they are attracted to and make poor choices. 

Attraction is never conscious. At its base level attraction is like pure animal instinct and when you are attracted to someone with that basic instinct,, it's not always the best partner. 

Also logical attraction is rare and comes after a lot of consciousness practice where you train yourself to be attracted to the right people, but not many can manage something like this. It's like training yourself to like organic foods, but ice cream doesn't need any training, you're automatically unconsciously attracted to it and so is the case for junk foods, similarly sexual attraction doesn't happen in the mind, it happens in the brain. And then most young girls end up falling for a bad boy who probably has had a jail record and is dangerous for her kids and herself but her body is still attracted to his looks and style and audacity. It's only conscious practice that makes her get attracted to better dudes with good careers and sound behavior.

Even then if the bad boy improves his career and behavior and general conditions and has the same value to offer as the good guy, and now if she told to make the choice between the good guy and the bad boy, she will still pick the bad guy, in fact she'll be glad to choose him. 

It's like if you're given the choice between organic and junk food, but now the junk food is not unhealthy, it's properties have been changed to make it healthy, you'll instantly select the junk food because your brain loves it, the only reason your brain was being  trained to like organic food is because you consciously know that junk food needs to be avoided since it's bad, if it weren't unhealthy you'd actually eat it more. 

That's how sexual attraction works. At its fundamental level dating and sexual attraction work on dopamine receptions just like video gaming and TV, we're attracted to that which stimulates our brain whether it's unhealthy or not, and in most cases, the things that help with dopamine are generally unhealthy for life but we do it anyway, because we need that dopamine, similarly in dating and sexual attraction, a certain body type or particular personality type stimulates the sexual organs more than other personality types. For example someone who is romantic, carefree, confident is able to emotionally and sexually stimulate whereas someone who is very boring and passive is simply unable to emotionally and sexually stimulate. 

There's a reason why both men and women like flirty and funny people because it releases endorphins and helps sexual release. Whereas a person who is too strict or angry cannot produce such hormones in the other person. 

However the person who is flirty and funny could have genetic disorders not healthy to have children with. Whereas the boring man/woman could be absolutely healthy in their body and mental health, hence they could be very healthy for making families. 

Therefore pure sexual attraction is unconscious and is simply based on brain stimulation by a particular pattern just like sugary sweets create the feeling of hunger or craving, certain bodies/behaviors create the feeling of wanting company/sex. 

So the whole idea that sexual attraction is healthy is rubbish.

Conscious attraction can be considered healthy, but it will need training of the mind to raise consciousness to a level where you begin to like a certain person perceived as healthy, but this is largely like a development process through learning and experience and is not the same as your mental blueprint when you're going through puberty, essentially it's a learning process by which you realize what you really want and slowly being attracted to it, which comes from maturity, but the brain in puberty without any maturity, in its most natural instinctive state, without any learning, does not attract consciously, rather it attracts anything that generates the hormones needed for arousal.

This is the reason why younger girls in puberty are more likely to attract immature bad guys who mistreat them or are unhealthy in behavior whereas matured women attract more conscious partners after developing and learning to attract such partners. 

 

[MrBON]

@Leo Gura The thing is that most guys WILL have lower standards even for relationships. Most of them do not qualify for the big number of criteria girls have for partners so they settle for whatever they can get. Players have options but that is like 2 percent of the population, most will get anything they can, just like a starving kid will eat anything. It is not just sex they want, also love companionship someone to love etc.

Girls normally are more social but a girl can still get great guys to date and be with via dating apps at this time so going out is no longer needed. A shy girl will have just as much abudance of guys as a player will have of girls. And since guys hate approaching with a passion, you have plenty of great guys using dating apps, its not just the bottom of the barrel. Why cold approach when you can find sex/relationship via a basic swipe right? High value guys have it even easier online than in person.

 

[MrBON]

@Recursoinominado You basically are saying the frustration of all the guys making these threads. Girls have to exist, guys have to do all that work and be awsome. People find this shit unfair and start crying because they dont want to do all the work while others exist.

Personally i love going to the gym, meditating, reading, meeting people etc but if i didnt like this and i had to do it to find a girl i would be VERY angry and frustrated. i would love if girls jumped at my dick though without me having to do shit

[Display_Name]

If you want to get an actual look at the dating market for yourself, compare a girls tinder with a guys tinder.

Its not news.

Just stop being delusional “just be confident” bluepill, and stop being delusional “it’s over if you’re not chad” blackpill, cause the truth is somewhere in the middle of both echo chamber extremes.

[Preety_India]

@MrBON  the dating market is very skewed against most women 

Most women don't look like Victoria Secret Angels to have 100s of men falling at their feet. 

If a girl is shy and rarely goes anywhere, most men wouldn't know her and she will never be approached by a man because she doesn't even exist out there. 

If the girl is dressed in boring clothes, nobody will notice her at a party and most guys will not even look at her. 

If the girl is not funny or does not have a good attitude and speaks rude, most men will talk a few times and leave. 

So the number of men who approach a woman will depend on how much she is out there, also how she maintains herself, if she doesn't look good then her chances of getting a guy are very negligible.. 

With porn and modeling, the requirements of beauty have become completely unnatural. Because most women don't have the body of a porn star. So it's getting difficult for women in general to get the attention of men. 

Most men will only be attracted to the most beautiful women who have the best bodies. However such women are a select percentage of the crowd. Rest of the women don't match these standards. 

So the men who approach them are very few. 

These few men can approach literally 100s of girls. But the women have to choose from a very small group of men that approach them. 

So most women don't have a choice but to sit and wait for the right man, who by the way never arrives, and she is ultimately left to choose out of a small number of men who show interest in her.

A man does not have to wait, he can immediately approach the next girl. 

The problem with waiting for a man is that her age is passing by, as she gets older, her attraction appeal further drops because most younger men wouldn't want her because of age  so now she has to settle for older men and if she gets too old, she is basically out of the dating market.. 

Whereas age is not such a big factor for men because men can still look attractive even if they're aged and their value does not depend on age, also society does not see any problems with an older man dating a younger woman, whereas most men see a problem with dating older women, they don't consider an older woman attractive. However such judgement is not placed on a man's age. 

So essentially the dating market is a bit skewed against women and is highly in favor of men. 

So to say that women only have to exist is very wrong. 

If you're talking about the small number of hot women, well, even they have to work on their personality or else they will get dumped and they have to keep rejecting a lot of men who approach them because most men approach them only for their hot body, so they have to carefully look for the genuine guy. 

Being a woman, hot or not, is not as easy as you're making it out to be. 

Women have their own issues because of which they feel discouraged from dating.

[Mannyb]

@Preety_India Sexual attraction is based on physical cues for health. You seem to be taking this quite personally. There’s no such thing as logical attraction, you can’t train yourself to be attracted to specific people, you’re simply either attracted or not. Attraction is unconscious, that doesn’t mean it’s unhealthy. You will get attracted to beautiful people (beauty is a sign of good genetics). Now, wether you get into an intimate relationship with someone is a completely different subject, such a relationship will best be based on love, rather than attraction. In that case, when deciding to enter or exit one, applying logic can be useful to some extent, although a mutual understanding of what a healthy relationship is coupled with love + intimacy is best. In the end don’t over complicate it, follow god’s will & all your actions will spring from love towards more love. Namaste ?? 

Edited December 10, 2020 by Mannyb

[Mannyb]

@Etherial Cat All is Self. Dating and attraction are two separate things (I’m making a concession here, All is actually one), I am attracted to a specific type of woman (physically speaking) and expanding my sense of self hasn’t really changed that, yet that doesn’t mean I’d enter a relationship with them based on the attraction (it tends to fade away). 

[Danioover9000]

@Blackhawk  below is some really good advice:

@knakoo

On 12/8/2020 at 9:52 PM, knakoo said:

@Blackhawk Try semen retention for a few weeks or months. It will change your relationships with women and people in general and maybe change your perspective on this. And if you start approaching some girls as well that is even better ! 

Read this if you need some convincing on semen retention :

https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/dqwuat/benefits_after_50_days_of_semen_retention/

   Not just for easier dating and exploration of sexuality, but if you can go much longer in that Nofap state, you can become more powerful than any other man. If you can go years of Nofap, you'd have so much bodily energy, health, recovery rate and mind energy that you'd be focusing and over working on different areas of your life. By the time you've made your life amazing, women will just be gravitated towards you, and then dating and relationships become much easier from that foundation. However, that's still a choice to date and have relationships, because you can go much deeper with Nofap that you'd be more than satisfied that you don't need to date or fuck men/women anymore.

[Danioover9000]

@Etherial Cat

1 minute ago, Etherial Cat said:

Have you ever been attracted to someone after getting to know them? To me, it has happened quite often.

The contrary as well. Finding someone hot until they'd open their mouth or behave in filthy way as been quite common in my experience.

Yeah. All is Self but as long as you are not realized you're operating from duality and so is your attraction. I'm not interesting in talking the case of someone who mentally grasp non duality but talking about the case of someone who is seeing the world through this prism.

I'm certain that Turquoise people for instance, are much better at accepting aging than let's say Orange people. That was my point.

   Please tell me where you found Turquoise people? They're really rare to find.

   The thing about realizing 'all is self' is that the motivation to date does drop down, since you are dating you. It does get confusing, which is one reason why I don't over work on chasing women.

   I really appreciate those times when I find someone very contradictory to their appearance, like finding hidden treasure.

[Mannyb]

@Etherial Cat I’ve been attracted to someone in almost all cases at first sight and no matter what they said the attraction wouldn’t vanish. 
I am self realized (if by that you mean aware of, and identifying with Self), yet my attraction is not besmirched by that (it’s polarity after all).

[Display_Name]

@Preety_India I take it you’ve never opened up a dating app?

Also, girls are welcome to approach too, and some do. guys would be delighted to be approached. so this “sit and wait” is entirely self imposed. make it an “accidental” approach if you feel too restricted by cultural norm (which is just an excuse, as for guys)

or, you could just open a tinder account and watch the DMs come flying in

girl friends, entirely average looking and even under average looking, have shown me theirs, and it’s just hundreds. per day. not saying they’re all quality, but literally HUNDREDS to select from. try it out

inb4 “only creeps on tinder”

(not the case)

Edited December 10, 2020 by Display_Name

[Danioover9000]

@Mannyb

54 minutes ago, Mannyb said:

@Preety_India Sexual attraction is based on physical cues for health. You seem to be taking this quite personally. There’s no such thing as logical attraction, you can’t train yourself to be attracted to specific people, you’re simply either attracted or not. Attraction is unconscious, that doesn’t mean it’s unhealthy. You will get attracted to beautiful people (beauty is a sign of good genetics). Now, wether you get into an intimate relationship with someone is a completely different subject, such a relationship will best be based on love, rather than attraction. In that case, when deciding to enter or exit one, applying logic can be useful to some extent, although a mutual understanding of what a healthy relationship is coupled with love + intimacy is best. In the end don’t over complicate it, follow god’s will & all your actions will spring from love towards more love. Namaste ?? 

   How could it not be personal? Most people, especially in their teens to mid 20'-30's, will have some higher fluctuations in their horniness, and both mind and body are effected by this to some degree. Attraction and beauty is physical and more than physical, especially if you can transmute those energies behind that attraction and beauty.

[Mannyb]

@Etherial Cat Don’t be too quick to make such assumptions my beloved darling?  

[Gesundheit]

@Megan Alecia Do you think Leonardo DiCaprio is attractive?

[Mannyb]

@Danioover9000 Sexual Transmutation?? 

[Display_Name]

5 hours ago, Enlightenment said:

@mmKay lol

The Chad Sam Harris have a Stacy wife

Unlike Virgin Jordan's wife

your signature hahaha