First date

[BornToBoil]

@Porphyry Fedotov here, since you speak russian, watch this dude, just to get some healthy mindsets inside your head

Also, you have probably heard about Igor Voitenko since he is quite popular (if not look his channel up you might find it pretty motivational). He didn't have sex with his gf until they got married. Now, I don't say that it's the right thing to do, it's a seperate topic I don't want to get into rn. The point is that does he look like an incel or a looser to you? No. Why? Because he acts and lives life like a strong person and that allowed him to create an aweso.e relationship.

[ColeMC01]

@Preety_India That works if the guy seduces you properly then you ll be eager to go at his place. However otherwise you will get rejected. I think that would make more sense on the second or third date. However getting a kiss or something on the first date is quite important. I know because i ve had dates like the one this guy had that ended up in friendship

 

[Porphyry Fedotov]

48 minutes ago, BornToBoil said:

@Porphyry Fedotov here, since you speak russian, watch this dude, just to get some healthy mindsets inside your head

Also, you have probably heard about Igor Voitenko since he is quite popular (if not look his channel up you might find it pretty motivational). He didn't have sex with his gf until they got married. Now, I don't say that it's the right thing to do, it's a seperate topic I don't want to get into rn. The point is that does he look like an incel or a looser to you? No. Why? Because he acts and lives life like a strong person and that allowed him to create an aweso.e relationship.

Maan I've just watched a video by this VLADissLOVE guy - he is so green on spiral it's crazy. Very interesting dude indeed. Never thought there're such people here in Russia... Like for example, this video is the shit:

 

Edited December 5, 2020 by Porphyry Fedotov

[BornToBoil]

@Porphyry Fedotov yup ))

[Leo Gura]

@Porphyry Fedotov Dude, you talked with her for 3 hours and didn't flirt, or touch, or hold strong eye contact. What do you expect? You deserve to be friendzoned.

By 3 hours your hands should be on her ass.

On dates you gotta keep things light, playful, and lots of physical touching. And you gotta bounce around to multiple locations. Don't just sit in one place for 3 hrs.

[Preety_India]

@ColeMC01 a kiss is fine. But don't expect sex right away. Most women see it as a red flag. 

You don't want to come across as too desperate for sex.