Strangeloop

Aaaaaand rejected another time...

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@Arcangelo nice. Everyone needs your philosophy. Write that post in your journal. 


INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues

Cleared out ignore list today. 

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I know her through my social circle. Yes I get the anology with cars. One girl does not mean it's the end of the world. There are plenty out there, I just got to approach them and talk to them. I think it's easier for me since I'm a taxi driver because if a young women sits in my car, I can chat her up and train my speaking skills with women like that. 

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6 hours ago, Forestluv said:

I approached a gal that turned out to be lesbian. I found it humorous that I was trying to flirt with a lesbian. I didn’t take it as a rejection. 

I know this is off topic, but this reminded me of a memory. I met a beautiful girl at a bar. I flirted with her and she was receptive. I asked her out on a date. She later thru text asked if her sister could come with us. I thought that was weird, but couldn't say no. After the "date" I asked her if she wanted to go on another date, this time just the two of us, and she said "oh...I didn't consider this a date, I'm a lesbian. I just thought you wanted to hang out and make a new friend". I too laughed at the situation. 

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why tf would you be a coward if you failed at getting the number of a girl in a relationship? dude just let it go and work on your emotions. Journal and find ways to see why it hurts to get rejected. It never feels great to get rejected but if it is super demoralizing it is a good sign to do ineer work. You can still approach while doing deeper inner work to figure out what's going on.

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@Strangeloop

On 12/5/2020 at 7:19 AM, Strangeloop said:

I know her through my social circle. Yes I get the anology with cars. One girl does not mean it's the end of the world. There are plenty out there, I just got to approach them and talk to them. I think it's easier for me since I'm a taxi driver because if a young women sits in my car, I can chat her up and train my speaking skills with women like that. 

   How do you socialize in general?

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