How to Grow the F**k Up?

[Zak]

You may all have had this realization of you not being able to act or respond in a very well-mannered and mature way to different situations.

How many good quality friends have you turned off by not being able to be mature? Not being able to be mature in relationships, work and where you get to interact with other fellow humans.

How can someone get to the level of maturity of his/her age? How?

What can he/she do to grow the fk up?

 

[Preety_India]

By suffering. 

[soos_mite_ah]

Depends on the specific issue but if we're going to be general I'd say grow a sense of emotional intelligence and go to therapy 

[Recursoinominado]

By putting yourself in challenging and new situations.

Go into situations where you are alone and thrive.

This will develop self-reliance, which is the core of adulthood.

[Sempiternity]

You have to travel. Go to unfamiliar places. Be forced out of your comfort zone. Be forced to talk to people, make friends and connection to be able to survive. Go through hardships, and discover strength and resilience that you never knew you had. 

But, you have to actually do it. You have to actually risk everything. But, you'd rather stay in your comfortable little bubble. 

How much do you want to grow as a person? You want the easy way with no growth, or the hard way which will grow you in ways you can't even conceive of right now?

[Zak]

Thank you all