What's the point in relationships?

[mandyjw]

@Keyhole 

It doesn't matter if you do or don't have a relationship, no need to make any conclusions or promises to yourself about it to try to limit what may or may not happen in the future. You're free. Perfectly free, unconditionally free. Any limit of freedom you impose on yourself in order to protect yourself comes from some wound. We try to cover up the wound but that's where the light enters in. 

[Loving Radiance]

2 hours ago, mandyjw said:

We try to cover up the wound but that's where the light enters in.

Oh yeah boi, I felt that. (Secretly waiting for another slap of light.)

The non-resonance is felt. The light shines unconditionally on it till it's inspected.

[lmfao]

@Red-White-Light I mostly understand you to be honest. On the other hand. In regards to point 1, I think that an incel like myself who stays indoors all day will probably grow from it. Compared to let's say, complete abstinence, residual bitterness and insecurities. So I think getting laid a few times will probably be good (not speaking from direct experience lmao) 

But like you I really don't care about something like marriage or a long term relationship either. It just doesn't cross my mind much, maybe I'll change in the future, who knows.


Part of the thing is that I use porn and cooming to fill some void for intimacy. But on the other hand, masturbating to porn is a grey area where its partially an addiction, but also just partially normal horniness. My incentive for getting off of it temporarily would be if my dopamine systems get refreshed, idk. Would have to commit to some suffering and challenge to find out, very difficult to this sort of nofap thing in a conscious way. 

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Also, @Red-White-Light, what's the meaning of your pfp lmao ? Is it a nofapper desperately trying to stop cooming? Or is it inspired from Leo's "look at your hand" exercises? Which is it

Edited December 5, 2020 by lmfao