I am scared to talk about my future to anyone

[Bird Larry]

I feel that a person being able to express his goals is important and healthy. Unfortunately, i am always fearful of it. If people are to offend me, make fun of me etc. Do you guys ever have this? Embarassment in expressing your ambitions? 

[PrakashastrologerUK]

Yes you right I understood about whom you have defined in your question. "I was the worst introvert guy in my college times and also in school but and had faced so many problems too due to which my father took my this problem on a serious note and consulted one guy you wont believe and he took me there without my consent and I met him and now I feel that, that was the best day of my life, which truly mould me in different direction."  so now its not me but I am the guy to whom this guy met. Prakash Astrologer. 

 

Edited November 19, 2020 by PrakashastrologerUK

[NK13]

I'd recommend keeping quiet about your goals and try to reach them instead. Why do you feel the urge to talk about them?

[zeroISinfinity]

@NK13 Profile picture commended. ?

Love virus. 

Edited November 19, 2020 by zeroISinfinity

[Preety_India]

@Bird Larry

You simply do not have to care about what people think about you or your choices in life. 

Ask yourself this, "who are they to judge me?" 

That way you liberate yourself from the fear of being judged. Stop caring what people think and you'll feel very free. 

There is absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about. Even if you feel that way, realize that it's only pesky thought bothering you and there is really no truth to such a thought. 

It is simply social conditioning that makes us think the way we do. 

Have a good day and cheer up. 

 

 

[Nahm]

1 hour ago, Bird Larry said:

I feel that a person being able to express his goals is important and healthy. Unfortunately, i am always fearful of it. If people are to offend me, make fun of me etc. Do you guys ever have this? Embarassment in expressing your ambitions? 

The discord is from your thoughts & perspectives. It’s not coming from other people. It can be liberating & humbling to admit you don’t even know if other people are thinking at all. You have only your interpretations. It’s hard to create the experience of embarrassment when you realize you don’t know what anyone else thinks. 

What is “I”, and “me”?

Stand up, walk towards these and look at them.

[UDT]

@Bird Larry dont. work in silence.

[aurum]

@Bird Larry

Embarrassment usually means we approve of our decision, but we don't believe someone else will.

Why do you believe people will offend or make fun of your ambitions?

[Origins]

@Bird Larry You've just done a great job at expressing how you feel about the subject, that's arguably 10X more courageous than actually detailing the things you hope for the future. Wishing you the ability to see the strength, courage and emotional intelligence you already have so you can apply it in the areas your intuition guides you to apply it at any other time in your life  .

Edited November 20, 2020 by Origins

[Bird Larry]

8 hours ago, aurum said:

@Bird Larry

Embarrassment usually means we approve of our decision, but we don't believe someone else will.

Why do you believe people will offend or make fun of your ambitions?

I don't know. Maybe I always felt people don't like anyone different and likes people who are square and not themselves (isn't this quite true?). Anyways, I'm not trying to advertise my goals and what I want to do to everybody, but I do feel the need to relinquish my fear of expressing or sharing my vision to anybody at least... But by and by, i tried expressing it, and by and by felt wearied by doing it. Feel like I will never get over this fear.

[Bird Larry]

9 hours ago, UDT said:

@Bird Larry dont. work in silence.

been there done that. Not good enough.

[saif2]

@Bird Larry don't do that, it will make it more difficult.