Namaste  After being with several men/boyfriends who were good at flirting, sexy, romantic, I have realized that I don't want such men anymore.  Because through my personal experiences, I have understood that majority of these men turn out to be hurtful assholes and players. I got played enough, no more.  The romantic ones are nice to be around, they make you feel good and excited but later on they break your heart. It's best to not deal with them.  I'm not generalizing here but this is what I gathered from experience  Now I think for a woman it's best to find a man who is simple and disciplined and direct in his approach.  Even if he is not romantic, it's okay because he won't be a heart breaker at least.  You at least have a sense of respect with a guy who cares and respects you    I think women need to change their thinking and look for men who are not necessarily attractive but have better things to offer in terms of emotional security.  It's important for a woman to reach that level of awareness and consciousness where she doesn't fall for a man's bullshit anymore and doesn't simply give into her body's reactions but focuses more on the heart of the guy  Women it's time to open the heart chakra and look for men who will fuck your heart first rather than your body.  Please don't ever fall for a player again. It hurts like hell. Thats my advice..  Namaste