I am done with trying to meet women through social media

[ertopolice]

@Leo Gura Exactly..they seem to get scared if you show these interests soon enough. Sometimes I feel they assume I am the random gym/fitness girl to stare at..but then after bringing up some deeper topics attraction it's gone

Have to learn to calibrate, definitely.

Btw i'd probably get bored or finally unnatracted to a man who cannot understand this. 

 

[Leo Gura]

4 minutes ago, ertopolice said:

but then after bringing up some deeper topics attraction it's gone

Keep that crazy in the closet till you got him hooked

[arlin]

@The0Self Are you fucking serious? AHAHAHAAHAH

 

[arlin]

17 hours ago, The0Self said:

God damn I guess I’m lucky to be so good looking (not serious). I am a student who works at a fucking department store and I have had sex with extremely hot women (as hot as pornstars) literally hundreds of times from just being personable and friendly. Started happening after awakening, like magic. I used to consider my biggest problem: I can’t get laid. Once nothing mattered... holy fuck.

i Mean this  

[ertopolice]

@Leo Gura

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Keep that crazy in the closet till you got him hooked

Oookey, no witchery for the moment. I'll try hard to be a normal person 

 

Edited November 18, 2020 by ertopolice

[The0Self]

@arlin Just to clarify, NOT hundreds of women, lol. Hundreds of times. Relationships that sometimes get pretty serious. They're often divorced and quite a bit older than me.

[Leo Gura]

@The0Self If you work in a women's department store, that's like doing pickup 8 hours per day. That's like shooting fish in a barrel. The perfect cover to ply your art.

Many people get laid from their jobs, simply by having the right jobs which offer automatic socialization opportunities. And of course they use this to their advantage to snipe the best targets. This is like a socially acceptable form of pickup.

[The0Self]

19 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

If you work in a women's department store, that's like doing pickup 8 hours per day.

Doesn't really feel like pickup, but I can see it that way. I'm really just radiating Metta/loving-kindness for the hell of it (pure habit) and women seem to get intrigued by whatever takes place since all my reactions are not really reactions but playful, kind responses. Almost robotic (or so much detachment that it's actually engagement) compared to what they usually experience, I imagine. I guess they like a shiny new experience of being with someone who simply doesn't judge. It's not even like I'm that "confident" with women in the way most people would probably imagine -- I get sometimes get red faced whenever they mention something super personal. Brutal vulnerability and honesty. And self-love above all else.

[Dima]

On 11/17/2020 at 9:20 PM, Kiko said:

Guys i am really dissapointed,

Every time when i try to set a date with a women which i dont know through social media it never works.

First of all i consider myself as average looking in the face and tall and muscular body, i dont have very good profile though and I know that.

The last straw happened when I texted with one girl back and forth for couple of days and when I asked her out, she said sorry but we barely know each other, she was so super kind that I felt that rejection didn't even happened.

So there are couple of reasons that this happens everytime:

1. They see me as ugly

2. My text game is week and I don't build enough rapport (which I don't think its the case)

 

So I know that online games definetly works for other dudes, so the problem is in me, for me it doesn't fucking work I wont even try anymore, because I am so frustrated with same scenario over and over again. I forgot the mention that I am not targeting super attractive girls, just normal girls, some of them are below my attractiveness for sure.

 

I am 24 y.o What do you think guys?

 

 

 

+1. And being frustrated with those shallow dating services I've come up with my own startup: allkindsapp.com