I am done with trying to meet women through social media

[Roy]

24 minutes ago, The0Self said:

Times I’ve gotten laid from just talking to women in person in random situations: well over 100.

I mean as long as everything is consensual and you weren't manipulating/taking advantage of any of them, nothing "wrong" with that.

But honestly that's just really risky behavior otherwise, don't think I'd ever want to attempt that. I'll willingly go to the grave without trying to break triple digits. The chances of an unwanted pregnancy or getting an STI, or god forbid HIV are just way too high, no matter how safe you are stuff always happens.

You are treading in some dangerous (and filthy) waters my friend haha!

Edited November 18, 2020 by Roy

[The0Self]

4 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Damn dude, 100 randos? You should raise your standards.

Lol.  Picture 6/10 (as ridiculous as that seems; rating; oh god I shudder). That’s my absolute lowest. Literally have never gone lower. Not even once. Feels ridiculous to even say this, but it’s usually over 7.5/10. I think I might just be handsome (not serious). And extremely vulnerable and honest — women pick up on that.

[Leo Gura]

5 minutes ago, The0Self said:

Picture 6/10

I shudder to picture what YOU consider a 6

Does it even have to be human?

[The0Self]

10 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

I shudder to picture what YOU consider a 6

Does it even have to be human?

I can see this isn’t going anywhere, but if you want to know... LOL fuck it... just picture a 6 in your own head. I can guarantee you that’s roughly what I consider a 6. And btw I’m in my mid 20’s and most of the women I hook up with are in their early 30’s. Often divorced. Sometimes they have not-perfect teeth, etc, but body of basically a pornstar. Picture your average pornstar — that’s how I view these women. Seriously. Doesn’t matter how others see them (though I can pretty much guarantee others view them as “hot as fuck”) — they’re perfect to me. It’s just magic when I’m with them. Don’t care what other people think about their imperfections.

[Leo Gura]

@The0Self Sounds like you've mastered the art of sniping wounded cougars.

I'm just teasing ya. I don't care who you bang.

[The0Self]

19 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

@The0Self Sounds like you've mastered the art of sniping wounded cougars.

I'm just teasing ya. I don't care who you bang.

Haha  all good. Literally nothing goes into it. No art. I don’t think about it at all. Hell, I date them fairly often. Made some of them my long term girlfriend. Almost married one of them. One even kept saying “yes” and I’d say “what?” And she’d say “just practicing (for when you ask me to marry you).” I’m a fairly spiritual guy and they seem to end up happier after being with me for some time. What can I say... lol idk. I’m still in college. Maybe I should date girls my age but I have a thing for cougars something terrible lol.

[Leo Gura]

@Khr I was teasing him. This was not a serious conversation.

[Leo Gura]

3 minutes ago, The0Self said:

Literally nothing goes into it. No art.

There's definitely an art to what you're doing.

[The0Self]

10 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

There's definitely an art to what you're doing.

If we are going by the construct that literally everything is art, which come to think of it, seems to be the case, then yeah, I guess you’re right.??
❤️
Keep on keepin’ on brother, breaking down them walls.

[electroBeam]

2 hours ago, Roy said:

I mean as long as everything is consensual and you weren't manipulating/taking advantage of any of them, nothing "wrong" with that.

But honestly that's just really risky behavior otherwise, don't think I'd ever want to attempt that. I'll willingly go to the grave without trying to break triple digits. The chances of an unwanted pregnancy or getting an STI, or god forbid HIV are just way too high, no matter how safe you are stuff always happens.

You are treading in some dangerous (and filthy) waters my friend haha!

if you think that's bad, you should attempt what I do, have sex with randos in 3rd world countries!

The more 3rd worldish it is, the more wild the sex is

 

[How to be wise]

@electroBeam I know people who go to random countries in random cities to get chicks pregnant, then they leave before anyone can hold them down. They don’t even know how many children they have!

[electroBeam]

11 minutes ago, How to be wise said:

@electroBeam I know people who go to random countries in random cities to get chicks pregnant, then they leave before anyone can hold them down. They don’t even know how many children they have!

Wow that doesn't make any sense to me, why do they do that?

Maybe if these people are 'underdeveloped' in a sense, they could derive significant pleasure from feeling like their genes are spreading throughout the world, as if they are growing themselves. 

Edited November 18, 2020 by electroBeam

[Leo Gura]

19 minutes ago, How to be wise said:

@electroBeam I know people who go to random countries in random cities to get chicks pregnant, then they leave before anyone can hold them down. They don’t even know how many children they have!

[evgn]

9 hours ago, RendHeaven said:

Why hello there dream girl ?? 

Sorry bro but thats sounds like simping...

[Raze]

1 hour ago, How to be wise said:

@electroBeam I know people who go to random countries in random cities to get chicks pregnant, then they leave before anyone can hold them down. They don’t even know how many children they have!

if you enjoy catching std's, this is a good idea.

[Leo Gura]

4 hours ago, How to be wise said:

@electroBeam I know people who go to random countries in random cities to get chicks pregnant, then they leave before anyone can hold them down. They don’t even know how many children they have!

It's time to upgrade the quality of people you know.

[Skin-encapsulatedego]

@Leo Gura

If you could've recruited potential girlfriends in person this year, what would've your approach been?  How did you anticipate to find the calibre of girl you refer to?  

Cold-approach on the streets would likely result in the girls, on average, not being open-minded enough.  I'm guessing visiting spiritual communities or yoga studios, or something of the like, but do let us in on your would-be strategy. 

[Leo Gura]

@Skin-encapsulatedego You shouldn't really use me as an example because I'm at a very different position in life than you.

You'd be surprised. You can meet conscious and openminded people in clubs and bars. Girls of all kinds go to clubs and bars for fun with their friends. There is this false idea that only sluts or skanks go to clubs. That's not true. I've met some amazing people. One of the most amazing things you'll discover when you go out a lot is that you will bump into the most surprising people. I once bumped into Tony Robbin's copywriter and she went on a date with me. We had some amazing conversations and she was all into self-help and stuff.

Ironically, it is closedminded to believe that openminded people don't go to clubs.

Then again, I've never really enjoyed clubbing. It's something I did to grow myself, but it's not an environment I want to be in if I can avoid it.

Oh, I once met a stripper with a Om tattoo and she liked to smoke DMT and was into yoga. People are more interesting and complex than you expect.

As far as finding a high caliber match, that's basically luck. The more numbers you get the better your chances. You can't really predict it.

[Skin-encapsulatedego]

@Leo GuraGura

True! Cool, thanks. 

I am seriously looking forward to going out again.  Covid be over plz. 

Good luck with your search Mr Gura!

[Leo Gura]

2 minutes ago, Skin-encapsulatedego said:

I am seriously looking forward to going out again.  Covid be over plz.

Unfortunately that won't happen without serious vaccinations. And many people have been brainwashed not to take them. So we're sorta fucked.