Are YOU Leo's new girlfriend? (serious)

[Shin]

5 minutes ago, see_on_see said:

This is the most pathetic thing I've ever seen. A dating recruitment ad. Couldn't make this shit up. 

But I'm not surprised at all. It totally fits with anything Leo has ever said here about dating and relationships. 

At least now he's showing his true colors in plain sight for everyone to see. 

He simply has no social life and his way of seeing social life is autistic, shallow and mechanical. 

It wouldn't be a problem, if he didn't constantly give bullshit social life and relationships advice that lots of inexperienced and clueless people here end up buing into. 

Do 1000s approaches, get good at game, become famous to get women easily, "this" is the way to get her wet... 

Meanwhile, he's fapping to "high quality porn" (his words) in his room, hasn't had a true authentic friendship or relationship with a human being in God knows how long. 

Frankly, we've had enough of such horseshit.

WE NEED CONSCIOUS PEOPLE RELATING TO EACH OTHER NATURALLY AND AUTHENTICALLY!

We DON'T NEED ANYMORE of this type of stage-Orange infested RSD mentality that fills inexperienced people's minds with robotic and manipulative ways of thinking and behaviors!!! 

I don't know if you know.

But there is a thing called Corona right now.

[Rilles]

12 minutes ago, see_on_see said:

This is the most pathetic thing I've ever seen. A dating recruitment ad. Couldn't make this shit up. 

But I'm not surprised at all. It totally fits with anything Leo has ever said here about dating and relationships. 

At least now he's showing his true colors in plain sight for everyone to see. 

He simply has no social life and his way of seeing social life is autistic, shallow and mechanical. 

It wouldn't be a problem, if he didn't constantly give bullshit social life and relationships advice that lots of inexperienced and clueless people here end up buing into. 

Do 1000s approaches, get good at game, become famous to get women easily, "this" is the way to get her wet... 

Meanwhile, he's fapping to "high quality porn" (his words) in his room, hasn't had a true authentic friendship or relationship with a human being in God knows how long. 

Frankly, we've had enough of such horseshit.

WE NEED CONSCIOUS PEOPLE RELATING TO EACH OTHER NATURALLY AND AUTHENTICALLY!

We DON'T NEED ANYMORE of this type of stage-Orange infested RSD mentality that fills inexperienced people's minds with robotic and manipulative ways of thinking and behaviors!!! 

Wooooooow. Thats ALOT of projection.

[Recursoinominado]

1 hour ago, see_on_see said:

WE NEED CONSCIOUS PEOPLE RELATING TO EACH OTHER NATURALLY AND AUTHENTICALLY!

Teach us, then.

How do you meet conscious women naturally and authentically during a pandemic?

[F A B]

1 hour ago, see_on_see said:

This is the most pathetic thing I've ever seen. A dating recruitment ad. Couldn't make this shit up. 

But I'm not surprised at all. It totally fits with anything Leo has ever said here about dating and relationships. 

At least now he's showing his true colors in plain sight for everyone to see. 

He simply has no social life and his way of seeing social life is autistic, shallow and mechanical. 

It wouldn't be a problem, if he didn't constantly give bullshit social life and relationships advice that lots of inexperienced and clueless people here end up buing into. 

Do 1000s approaches, get good at game, become famous to get women easily, "this" is the way to get her wet... 

Meanwhile, he's fapping to "high quality porn" (his words) in his room, hasn't had a true authentic friendship or relationship with a human being in God knows how long. 

Frankly, we've had enough of such horseshit.

WE NEED CONSCIOUS PEOPLE RELATING TO EACH OTHER NATURALLY AND AUTHENTICALLY!

We DON'T NEED ANYMORE of this type of stage-Orange infested RSD mentality that fills inexperienced people's minds with robotic and manipulative ways of thinking and behaviors!!! 

Ahahaha that's funny

[Recursoinominado]

3 minutes ago, see_on_see said:

My point goes way deeper than the pandemic situation. 

And it doesn't make publishing a woman recruitment ad any less sad and pathetic, besides being a terrible example to set when you have a self-growth platform of 1M people. Especially while you're pretending to teach conscious dating and relationships among the things you teach. 

You're missing the point because you are clueless yourselves. 

Well, maybe criticizing stuff is easier than suggesting solutions, who would have thought?

Do better and then come back, stop wasting everyone's time. 

[Leo Gura]

27 minutes ago, see_on_see said:

Especially while you're pretending to teach conscious dating and relationships among the things you teach.

You realize that what I posted is actually conscious and honest? I posted my dating intentions honestly without any games.

Any other alternative will be more dishonest and manipulative. The problem is that people are so used to playing games with dating that when someone does it directly and honestly they are shocked.

Usually all dating is done in secret so that none of your people know your true intentions. This is safe for the ego and lets you get away with a lot more manipulation.

With dating and sexuality in particular, people are often outraged and shocked when the mechanics of the game are laid bare before their eyes. As if the mechanics were not present before looking.

Hiding your intentions does not make your dating any more conscious or honest. And really, dating is never a function of honesty. It is dishonest to suggest that dating is honest. That is not its function. It's an illusion and a game that both sides are playing while trying to pretend like that isn't so.

You can cry about how unfair it all is, but the reality is, when you acquire your dates -- however you acquire them, online or offline -- you are still playing this game.

If I truly wanted to be dishonest and manipulative, I could easily have done that a long time ago and gotten laid a 100x over. My position can basically get me unlimited sex for a lifetime. I could push that button any time. And I basically never do because I have some integrity. But that doesn't mean I'm disinterested in finding a romantic partner. I am. That's honest. And that's okay.

You can judge it of course. But if you really care about honesty so much, I invite you to contemplate the double-standard of how you acquire your dates. You may find that your method is less honest than mine. Consider all the social circle games you play.

[electroBeam]

@Leo Gura the smart thing about what you did is you were seriously honest, to the point where it would turn low conscious people off, so that it leaves only the mature to apply.

[Gesundheit]

@see_on_see You reek of cultural dogmas, which is unconsciousness. Don't critique others when you're deeply unconscious.

[Leo Gura]

@Gesundheit Easy... There's no need to attack him.

What I did was bold and I knew it would be somewhat controversial. Some people will not like it.

[Gesundheit]

15 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

@Gesundheit Easy... There's no need to attack him.

That's where a slap on the face is effective. He needs to wake the fuck up instead of preaching dogma while pretending to be awake.

17 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

@Gesundheit 

What I did was bold and I knew it would be somewhat controversial. Some people will not like it.

+ Respect lol

[mandyjw]

I dunno, but from my perspective if I was single and looking, I'd assume from that that you were more interested in my body than anything else, and since I couldn't honestly in any way guarantee my health or looks, the anxiety and doubt over meeting all that criteria over the long term wouldn't be worth it. I find that anxiety over having to look a certain way for someone else is what destroys confidence, which is the actual root of what we find attractive, and that confidence or self love is the very root of my sexuality, femininity and spirituality. I'd much rather just find someone who immediately finds me attractive, without having to check all these requirement boxes first. 

But anyway, good luck Leo, I hope you find someone who is your perfect match. 

 

[Shin]

5 minutes ago, mandyjw said:

I dunno, but from my perspective if I was single and looking, I'd assume from that that you were more interested in my body than anything else, and since I couldn't honestly in any way guarantee my health or looks, the anxiety and doubt over meeting all that criteria over the long term wouldn't be worth it. I find that anxiety over having to look a certain way for someone else is what destroys confidence, which is the actual root of what we find attractive, and that confidence or self love is the very root of my sexuality, femininity and spirituality. I'd much rather just find someone who immediately finds me attractive, without having to check all these requirement boxes first. 

But anyway, good luck Leo, I hope you find someone who is your perfect match. 

 

I doubt the physical requirement are that important.

If you have everything else to decent degree, it's not gonna matter much if you have 1 pound more/less or 1 foot more/less.

Your body and looks is the easiest thing to guarantee, and unless you lie, all the other criteria doesn't need to be proved (so faked).

[Gesundheit]

11 minutes ago, mandyjw said:

I dunno, but from my perspective if I was single and looking, I'd assume from that that you were more interested in my body than anything else, and since I couldn't honestly in any way guarantee my health or looks, the anxiety and doubt over meeting all that criteria over the long term wouldn't be worth it. I find that anxiety over having to look a certain way for someone else is what destroys confidence, which is the actual root of what we find attractive, and that confidence or self love is the very root of my sexuality, femininity and spirituality. I'd much rather just find someone who immediately finds me attractive, without having to check all these requirement boxes first. 

But anyway, good luck Leo, I hope you find someone who is your perfect match.

Don't forget the fact that Leo is very understanding. So he definitely won't be shooting girls down for every little thing. He's got a standard and that has to be fine with some women, I guess. Of course, assuming that he's gonna get any lol

[mandyjw]

4 minutes ago, Shin said:

 

Your body and looks is the easiest thing to guarantee, and unless you lie, all the other criteria doesn't need to be proved (so faked).

Dude, I don't know if I'm gonna get a skin condition or get in some horrible disfiguring accident two months from now. Or develop an intense all consuming love affair with chocolate cake and become a world famous 300 pound cake chef. Maybe that's my life purpose!  Who knows? That's the inherent beauty in life, you never know. 

[Shin]

Just now, mandyjw said:

Dude, I don't know if I'm gonna get a skin condition or get in some horrible disfiguring accident two months from now. Or develop an intense all consuming love affair with chocolate cake and become a world famous 300 pound cake chef. Maybe that's my life purpose!  Who knows? That's the inherent beauty in life, you never know. 

Jesus, cannot be easy to live with a mind like that  

[electroBeam]

@Shin hry shin are you a woman?

[mandyjw]

1 minute ago, Shin said:

Jesus, cannot be easy to live with a mind like that  

 I'll have you know, Jesus thinks I'm POSITIVELY DELIGHTFUL. 

[Shin]

5 minutes ago, electroBeam said:

@Shin hry shin are you a woman?

No sadly, I wish I could apply and get a Leo on top of me

@mandyjw He's lying

Edited November 18, 2020 by Shin

[Natasha]

@mandyjw That's why he put a requirement for emotional stability and being into self-development. Someone who has those won't engage into emotional eating, gain a hundred of pounds and then try to justify their lack of self-discipline by saying 'Arent you supposed to love me unconditionally just the way I am?" Yes, accident and disfigurement would be a different story. I had a friend who got paralized after a motorcycle accident and her husband left her for the nurse who attended to her at the hospital. She didn't get bitter, however, she understood that his love for her was still real, but attraction no more. And she didn't hold it against him. They continued remaining friends and great parents for their daughter until she passed 3 yrs ago.

[mandyjw]

1 minute ago, Etherial Cat said:

Na. It's more that your body and looks are guarenteed to vanish. It will go south 100% for all of us. 

I have seen a lot of drop dead gorgeous women in their 60's, 70's, 80's and beyond. Cause it's really about confidence and life force more than anything else. But if people aren't open to see it, they'll miss that. It's like telling Fall or Winter that she isn't as beautiful as the Spring, she most certainly is. 

I'm not gonna want to be with a man who can't see it also. 

@Etherial Cat