Watching porn

[Just Do Nothing]

Ever since I know what I know the something is telling me that I should enjoy masturbating to porn. 

 

Why is that? I don't want to watch porn and I don't want to masturbate.

 

I'm waiting for the women of my dreams to just enter in to my life because that's what I believe true love is. 

 

And I don't believe in internet dating.

 

Thoughts?

[Just Do Nothing]

1 hour ago, BlackMaze said:

Just do nothing then lol. 

If you want to watch porn then watch porn if you don't want then don't do it, i don't believe that it's so important anyway unless you are an addict and all you do is masturbating. 

I also don't believe in internet dating but it works for some people. 

The problem with waiting is that it may never happen and i'm stuck in the same boat myself. Living in a foreign country is more difficult to meet new people. If this is not the case for you then you are lucky. Just socialize more and you will eventually meet someone a friend of a friend or something. That worked for me before changing country at least. 

Even if the woman of your dreams come to your life you will get bored eventually i can guarantee that, and if you don't have relationship skills the relationship will not last. 

Oh right. 

 

Well... well... we seem to have a legend on the forum. 

[Nahm]

1 hour ago, Just Do Nothing said:

the something

 

1 hour ago, Just Do Nothing said:

Why is that?

Maybe the question is what is that (“something”).

[aurum]

@Just Do Nothing

Well porn is usually extremely toxic. More and more people are realizing that.

But you also don't want to be in resistance to porn.

Where do you feel you stand?

[Just Do Nothing]

43 minutes ago, aurum said:

@Just Do Nothing

Well porn is usually extremely toxic. More and more people are realizing that.

But you also don't want to be in resistance to porn.

Where do you feel you stand?

I think I could get quite into lesbian porn.

[Space]

9 hours ago, Just Do Nothing said:

I'm waiting for the women of my dreams to just enter in to my life because that's what I believe true love is. 

I'm sorry to tell you this but this is literally never going to happen. Stop procrastinating and go out and approach girls. You need to be talking to dozens of new girls every month. 

[ChrisZoZo]

10 hours ago, Just Do Nothing said:

Ever since I know what I know

You can still get deluded just as Leo said delusion happens as all level, yes ALL levels even the most enlightened people can be deluded. Delusion's can ruin your life btw. 

[Ima Freeman]

On 7.11.2020 at 1:04 PM, Just Do Nothing said:

Ever since I know what I know the something is telling me that I should enjoy masturbating to porn. 

Seems like the calls of a past addiction. You don't really want to masturbate, but doing it to porn was very exciting in the past, so your subconscious brings it up when you are bored (maybe due to low dopamine)

Just see sexuality as it is, a simple physical act. Porn isn't sex, it's voyeurism. And the acts portrayed in mainstream porn have as much to do with sex, as wrestling has to do with real fighting.

My tip: Masturbate without porn, as it will confuse your mind if you do it regularly. If you want sex, seek it in the non-virtual world.

[fridjonk]

13 hours ago, ChrisZoZo said:

Delusion's can ruin your life btw. 

Nothing ruins a life. 

Things just are. 

[Just Do Nothing]

Thanks for that, that was great.

[non_nothing]

Everyone is different, what matters is personal experiences. If you haven't tried before quitting porn, just give it a try and see for yourself.