What is a waste of time and what is not a waste of time?

[EternalForest]

Do what's best for you at this very moment.

In some moments, what's best for you could be to play video games or go somewhere fun. In other moments, what's best for you could be to meditate or have a deep conversation with a friend. You just need to get better at figuring out what's best for you. And it can be counter intuitive, because although something like reading or strong determination sitting may be more beneficial in theory than just going for a walk, going for that walk may actually be what you need more in this moment. 

Don't worry if you're off sometimes! All that matters is that you did the best thing you could think of doing for yourself at that moment. Good luck.

[Byun Sean]

Nothing is a waste of time until you think it is

[Gesundheit]

Suffering/resistance is the only way to waste life.

[Nahm]

@Strangeloop

[Strangeloop]

@Nahm Well apart from sex I got the foundation down. Unless you count masturbation as sex, which I don't.

The second pillar I've got down 65%. I'm secure, got a job, recources, property not so much as I live with my parents. Body health, I don't know I feel that it's preety decent. 

the third pillar is a hard one, I need to focus on this one for sure. Most of my interactions with people are online. Which isn't the best option. I neglect my family. Taking them for granted. Ignoring them... I want to stop though. I think if I start to speak with my family more I will be more up for finding a partner part. 

fourth and fith pillars is something I'm working on, but now I see that without laying and building a proper third pillar I won't be able to go to the above stages. 

Spending time with my family is an option. I'll go to my grandparents and just chill with them, maybe that will help.

[Nahm]

@Strangeloop

Thinking in terms of time and wasting it or not can get strange loopy.  

Knowing what you want to build breathes excitement into the foundation, the very building of it.