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How To Make The Most Of Like-minded Flatmates?

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Hey. In one month I'm moving in a new flat which I'm gonna be renting with 2 new friends who are into personal development as well. It's going to be my first experience of living with flatmates who have similar goals which is going to be super productive. One friend is into fitness and this year he's going to focus on building his fitness brand, working out and picking up girls while working part or full-time in the gym or supplement shop. Other friend is going to mainly be focused on pick up and reading as he's aspiring Youtuber. And I'm going to be focused on building website in personal development niche and studying Psychology or English in Colledge, while working with pedicabs on weekends and talking with girls in between. So, we have very similar goals and want to make the most out of this year.

Do you guys have any suggestion or tips of how to make ourselves accountable and what kind of weekly habits should we do together? If you are living with like-minded people, do you work separetely and then at the end of the day share what has been accomplished to each other? Or maybe do certain activities, like meditation or working out, together? Maybe make comittment statements to each other? What house rules should we implement? 

I feel like it's going to be uncomfortable doing this as I'm not really used to having transaprent discussions about each other goals and mistakes, but it's just a ego defence and I could see how it would give me the most growth.

 

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9 hours ago, Blaze35 said:

That sounds awesome! :)

Have you ever lived with like-goal-oriented flatmates?

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Complete RADICAL ACCEPTANCE of each other and self of everything & all actions, behaviours, decisions, mistakes, desires, thoughts ect.. 

It can make your time together lot smoother :) 

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15 hours ago, Wind said:

Have you ever lived with like-goal-oriented flatmates?

No, but I would really like to at some point. That or to live in some sort of a dormitory or an intentional community where people come together based on shared values. I think that it presents a great opportunity for mutual growth. A support network of friends with who you trust to discuss your problems without judgement and who can serve as the mirror, the alternative perspective that helps you to unstuck and move forward.

Remember to keep a relaxed focus.

I understand the fear of transparency, disclosing yourself.

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