Having to change my personality to get basic needs met

[Byun Sean]

@ColeMC01

Do whatever you want but the quality of the partner you will attract will be directly proportional to how much you work on and love yourself as a man.

Your goal here is not to fake an inauthentic version of yourself to get laid. The goal is to love yourself more and allow yourself to be more authentically you more of the time which actually makes you more attractive.

The only reason some girls look 'out of your league' or 'beyond your grasp' right now is because they probably have a lot more value than you as a guy. Increase your value and level of Self-Love enough and you will perceive them as simply regular human beings just like you. As you increase your value, so will your standards for a partner. And vice versa. A high value girl won't settle for a low value guy.

[ivory]

@ColeMC01 The book Models by Mark Manson is a really good place to start.