Friend is mad at me that I told them I feel bad talking to them

[Preety_India]

@Lyubov  to be frank there is no point in expecting anything anymore out of such a dynamic, it's an unfulfilled dynamic. 

It's best to move on and look for better connections. 

This dynamic is dishonest on their end and a bit gimmicky because it's like there's playing games. 

[Viking]

They seem quite emotionally immature, not your problem really.

Get some real life friends/girlfriend. (actually girlfriend is easier than friends i found)

[flowboy]

A lot of meaning in communication is lost and gets distorted when you only write.

It really promotes overthinking and reading too much into things.

We live in a great time where this problem is really not necessary to have.

If you want to know what is up, you can just say 'Let's talk' and video call them. (if they don't want to, they are not a friend)

 

Apart from that: did you get what you wanted out of the space?

@Lyubov If I understand correctly, you wanted the space so you could let your feelings pass and get back to the normal long distance friendship.

Did they?

It seems to me that they gave you pretty much what you asked for: they left you alone for awhile and then pretended nothing happened, which seems to me is a good thing to do if you want to let awkwardness pass and continue a friendship. It's what you do when the boundaries of a friendship get transgressed, for example an ill-advised kiss attempt on a drunken night: both people pretend it did not happen, so that they can continue where they left off.

Is that perhaps not what you wanted after all?