Losing mental anchor

[Walleldin]

mgtow and red pill mindset preventing and ruining my relationships Mind is completely confused about relationships and how to treat woman after seeing in a very crude perspective 
 

Is there an objective mindset for relationships? 

and how to treat woman, or how to express authentic self. ?

 

open to wisdom. 
 

 

[Recursoinominado]

3 minutes ago, Walleldin said:

Is there an objective mindset for relationships? 

No.

3 minutes ago, Walleldin said:

and how to treat woman, or how to express authentic self. ?

Those are pretty broad questions, please be more specific, elaborate on your perspective.

[Preety_India]

 

Treat the woman how you would want to be treated in the relationship by the woman. 

Be fair on all terms 

 

Be kind, understanding, caring, loyal and sincere. 

Be authentic. 

Don't listen to red pill nonsense. It contains a lot of wrong information. 

Be you. 

But try to add some charisma apart from the dominant qualities stated above. 

Grooming - take good care of how you look. Don't look lazy or shabby or too nerdy. 

Be helpful - when you approach show your helpful nature in a sincere way. Chivalrous. 

 

Be attentive - learn to listen. Women like good listeners 

Great manners - have good manners, table manners, all kinds of manners. But most importantly speech manners. No woman ever likes an aggressive guy. 

Be polite and gentle. 

Be funny and take things light. 

Engage in a lot of talk 

Don't be sexual around the very first time. May make her feel uneasy. 

Don't be very domineering. Be like a great friend 

Show your caring nature. 

Take her out to show that you are interested. 

Don't be too argumentative 

Don't be possessive or obsessive 

Don't be controlling 

Show that you are happy with her 

 

Reduce any criticism. 

Engage in conversations from anything general to deep. 

Be confident 

And try to develop a connection by sharing similar interests.. 

So if she likes hiking, then go hiking with her. If she likes the beach, then spend time with her at the beach. 

Don't give negative vibes. 

Be gentle at all times. That's a sign of dependability. 

Practice detachment to overcome neediness and lame-ness.. 

 

Now if you still want to follow red pill type of advice then this is my final advice 

If you like to do the opposite of the above, then look for women who like toxic men(assholes). Remember these women are also toxic because they attract toxic energy. 

If you don't want those women then follow the tips to attract the type of women who want men to be good men.

 

Edited October 9, 2020 by Preety_India