You probably know someone like this. They have no problem finding someone they love, who also loves them back. They met spontaniously in the right place at the right time and everything clicks for them. I mean, when you think about it, there are many variables at play; both parties have to be ready (and not emotionally damaged at that time), they have to be available, they have to attract each other physically, they have to click emotionally and intellectually (to have similar views on life), they have to come from a healthy family, and they have to be in the right place at the right time. When you think about it like this, those people who have luck in love, are actually crazy lucky for having it all work for them.

And there are other people who simply cannot find someone they like.

I guess the real question I'm really asking is - is it really only luck that is going on here? 

Since we are creators of our own lives (God), and we create situations and attract people to our lives (most of us do it unconsciously), does it mean that we are the problem that this is happening to us? That it is our fault for not being in the right place at the right time? And if so, how to fix this?