Why doesn't girls understand the challanges guys face when trying to attract a girl?

[SamC]

54 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Incels beg to differ.

True. Of corse a lot of guys struggle to see it - that's true with being able to see anything as it is in the world. Your point is that it is all self biases and victimhood that creates this dynamic of selfishness from both sides. Yeah it might be the case, but on the other hand, woman don't know what they are attracted too while guys do.  Guys are more visual and logical and girls more emotional. Guys know what gets them attracted, girls don't.

This maybe * big maybe*  means that guys are able to understand the challenges that girls face logically better, because they see all the girls their are not attracted to, cause they know what they want and not want ( being able to empathize better if they really fucking try)

Woman are more emotional and don't know this, and that's maybe why they struggle more. Cause the attraction is in a sense even more subconscious and theirfor they don't see how hard attraction can be for a low value guy, cause they don't know what it takes( but guys understand that ugly woman have it super hard logically).. Maybe in other words woman is not to designed to be able to empathise to the problems men face in attraction...

Or maybe I am totaly wrong and it's all biases, I am open to both possibilities. What do you think Leo?@Leo Gura

Edited October 7, 2020 by SamC