I have just noticed a lot of thirsty guys here.  I suppose that is the norm.  But let me ask you guys who are dying to have sex dying for a girlfriend:   What do you think it will give you?   Unconditional love?  Nope.  First off, unconditional love is a state of being, not a state of mind.  Secondly, there is no one on this earth who is constantly emanating unconditional love.  If you were, then you would have no problems.  And I have never met anyone who does not have e a problem.  Even hardcore Buddhist monks have problems.
Fulfillment?  I remember when I was a pick up artist for a few years.  A year and a half of those were in Los Angeles.  While it was not during the heyday of pick up, I was able to go out to different venues in Hollywood, Venice, Santa Monica and Downtown L.A and have a few one night stands.  If I had not watched Leo’s rant on pick up artists I would have probably continued on that path.  
  I look back now and those days make me few empty.  Even my post pick up days pre pandemic when I was still using those skills.  Yeah, I met some cool, fun women.  But all I was looking for was sex.  There were women who wanted a relationship with me, but I was so closed off to anything exclusive.  In a way that is good as I got to learn more.  But all the chasing amounted to not much outside of social skills. A life partner?  You probably would act in a way where if you got her into a relationship, she would leave you.     Security?  You are barking up the wrong tree.   Happiness?  That’s like looking for drugs to give you happiness.  No one can make you happy.   A spiritual og once told me how self love used to be considered a mystical experience.  What happened to that?  Now all I see are a ton of co dependent men and women who cannot stand to be alone.   I am not saying that you cannot be in a relationship.  All I am saying is that sex and a relationships will not solve any of your issues.  It will only put a mask over your feelings of lack.  Your lack of self love.