Bright Brilliant Beautiful

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I'm imagining an aesthetic where I'm sitting in a room on a ship and this room is like stacked up on another room like bunker beds in a train compartment and these are like small cute bedrooms with only the bed and a window.. And far below is the main body of the ship.. 

The window has curtains. And people constantly peep out of the curtains and talk to each other, they look below for the ones that are living below their tier and call out their names so they can talk to them. You have to slide your head out the window and talk to them. 

Fun fun. 

On a fairytale ship. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Higher emotional energy plane 

When you are surrounded and inspired by true love, you are on a higher emotional energy plane. 

 

 

Lower emotional energy plane 

When you are surrounded by false and shallow love, fake love or lack of true love, you are on a lower emotional energy plane. 

 

 

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Start with a vision board. That helps tremendously 

 

Nahm is pretty efficient with this. You can ask him 

 

 

 

Use a reward system for all the hard work you do. Rewarding yourself creates an impetus. 

 

Keep an excel sheet of progress report that you will update weekly. 

 

Use apps in app store that keep a tab on progress. 

 

 

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This thread is good for productivity. 

 

 

 

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Men are heartbreakers. I should remember that. Won't give my heart again to any man in my life. I am a sucker for a man's love. That's what always gets me in trouble.

I always feel like I can't function without a man's love. That's the difficult part.

 

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The threat of patriarchy. 

The dilemma of dating - lack of resources 

Financial and Emotional Empowerment of women 

 

Basic level Level 1 level 2 in dating 

Women approaching men. 

 

 

 

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In order to be happy jn life you have to understand human nature. 

Also control the physical state and achieve psychological happiness 

You can't get 2 at the price of 1 

1 point for physical needs 

4 points for psychological needs. 

 

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Understanding empathy 

 

Understanding her side rather than dismissing it in your mind

The nice creepy guy 

 

If you want a woman to love you, love her back 

Trust building 

Integrating the Feminine side 

Positive bias and negative bias - when praise is not really praise.. 

 

When you don't come from a healthy place of compassion. 

Intention more important than action 

 

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I want to be an advocate for women's rights in the future. 

Especially for women who have suffered like my mother 

I also want to write a book and title it as "Bright Brilliant Beautiful" and make it a collection of stories of bravery shown by women in abject circumstances and how they were always Bright Brilliant Beautiful despite all that society and life put them through. 

One such example is this woman who is a single mother and fighting to create a better future for herself and her baby. 

Such women give me hope and strength. 

I want to document the journeys of such women and ask them what changes they would want in society to create a safer and better existence for women, what changes could have improved their lives. 

 

 

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Topics in this journal 

 

 

The Understanding and the Ego 

 

How the Ego ruins everything 

Difference between a healthy ego and an unhealthy ego. 

 

Why being a decent person in this world is so difficult? 

Why we must support good leaders and hate bad leaders? 

 

Life is not rocket science, it's super easy. We make it complicated 

 

Be nice and be with nice. 

Narcissism and the conscience 

Is a man trying to be compatible? 

Passing the exam of life - a 20% score. 

The middle ages 

 

When judgment is thrown at good people 

 

 

 

 

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More topics 

 

Green screen 

Life is super easy 

 

The girl rejects you. But you have rejected her in your mind already. Jow a woman feels around a man.. 

 

 

 

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Green screen 

 

 

To me the green screen serves as a distraction, the mindfulness beautiful distraction from brutal reality. 

 

Another imagination in my mind is a bunk  bed 

 

Always remember that whatever this world will admire and appreciate will never be the best thing. 

 

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The Necessity of valuing someone 

 

 

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The poverty of love 

 

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What kind of a man I should be looking for? 

Someone who is interested in keeping me happy meanwhile I'm interested in keeping him happy. 

We both keep each other happy. It shouldn't be one way. 

A man who understands the limitations of a relationship. 

 

A man who is not a pervert 

A man who is not a creep 

A man who treats his girlfriend right 

 

A man who is not a user or player 

A man who is not hyper-critical or abusive or controlling. Or overly judgemental or has huge cognitive dissonance. 

 

A man who doesn't manipulate or gaslight. 

 

A man who is just simple and nice 

A man who is loyal and trustworthy

 

A man who I can marry 

 

 

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When will a man treat me right? 

Especially after I have given him love, respect and affection. 

He will only treat me right if he values my loyalty love and affection 

But if he takes me for granted then he won't value me. 

When will a man try to get along with me or try to be compatible with me? 

I have to understand this as a woman. Let's say I always agree with him when he says something. 

But when it's my choice he never agrees with me. That's a bad sign. 

This is like a doormat relationship, where only I'm supposed to agree with him. 

So when does a man want to get along with me or agree to me? 

When the man values me.. 

 

Only then he will put that effort. 

If he doesn't value me, despite me being attractive to him, he will always treat me like a doormat. 

I need to find a man who knows how to value me. 

 

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Sometimes I'm not able to get over my thoughts about Joseph 

 

All the strong negativity that I experienced in the relationship was coming from his frustration with financial problems and this was a result of his bipolar disorder. 

I was traumatized multiple times during this relationship and its still difficult to put it all behind me. 

 

 

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I have to go through a lot of emotional labor to work things out. 

 

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Out of all the loves and romances in life, there is always one love that stands out as special. 

Maybe you had many romantic experiences in life with many people that you fell in love with. 

Your school crush. 

Your college boyfriend 

Your workplace colleague 

Your married partner 

Your post-divorce  lover 

Your best friend turned lover 

At many points in life, we meet different people in different places and fall in love with them 

Then, sometimes the relationship works and sometimes it doesn't.. 

After a long time, you forget these people. They become your exes. You had both good and bad memories with them 

But now you look for a fresh new partner in life, somebody who will not the carry the baggage like your past boyfriends or girlfriends carried.. 

Someone who is very different from the ones that you dated before 

Now. 

There is always someone in your past dating history that you loved madly. 

You were madly in love with them. With that person.. It was like Romeo and Juliet

You wish that you had married that person and that person only and none other. 

And you broke up with that person because of unfortunate situations. 

But you always remember that person 

That person was special to you. 

That person was not like other people who you fell in love with.. 

That person was special 

That person was like a soulmate 

You had lots of happy memories with that person 

You wish that relationship had worked out.. But it didn't.. 

That was truly a unique love. 

I will call such a love the hunger satisfying love. 

Because this is the kind of love that satisfies your inner soulmate hunger 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited October 3, 2020 by Preety_India