Bright Brilliant Beautiful

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This woman is what I'll call bright brilliant beautiful. 

She cares for her child, works hard for her brighter future and holds hope through a tragic loss. 

I can relate to all the women who are struggling right now through whatever emotional, psychological and physical battles they are going through to create better lives for themselves and others 

More power to such  women. 

 

 

Edited September 29, 2020 by Preety_India

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The concept of a strong consciousness. 

 

If the consciousness is pure and strong, it will happen as it is contained in the consciousness 

 

Good people are usually failed by society or people or persons. 

 

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I'm focused on a holistic approach 

 

 

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Approach 

         

          ? educated approach 

          ?conscious approach 

          ? mindful approach 

           ? wiser approach 

          ?awareness approach 

          ? spiritual approach 

          ?matured approach 

           ? progressive approach 

           ? Holistic  approach

           

Fractal of colors. 

 

 

 

 

Edited September 30, 2020 by Preety_India

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This woman has such a beautiful spirit. 

She inspires me to be Bright Brilliant Beautiful 

 

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Just want to sleep in my bed. 

 

 

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When a person wants to do wrong things but they don't want to be blamed for it. 

 

 

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I am just going through a cathartic process right now. 

 

The battle is real. 

I feel so down and dull.. Just depressed. It's tough. 

 

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You shouldn't be with people who aren't ready to give you closure or completeness. 

 

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I kinda feel unhinged. 

 

 

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I'm having a mental breakdown right now. 

I am trying to stay calm and chill. 

 

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Everything is going to be okay. 

 

Don't get emotional 

 

 

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You love the streets. But the streets don't love you back. 

You want to love your community but the community doesn't love you back. 

 

 

I'll try to come to peace with my social side of things. I just want to feel accepted. 

I just want to feel accepted. It's so hard to feel loved and belonged and accepted.. 

 

God, please hear me out, it's really hard. Today's really hard on me. I have never felt so abandoned. 

 

 

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Pride, narcissism, greed and slander are the biggest sins. 

 

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The point of happiness for both men and women. 

This insight came to me just yesterday. It blew my mind. 

I was trying to understand the dynamics between men and women. 

And what I understood is that both men and women have to reach a certain growth to get to the point of peace and or happiness. 

The point of happiness for a man 

This is when the man shows growth in his attitude. 

 

After observing a lot of men, I have realized that there are 2 kinds of men. 

The first kind is the un-grown, un-conscious and the un-matured man. 

The second kind is the grown, the conscious, the matured man. 

 

Now the first kind of man is at stage Orange throughout most of his life. 

He wants a great job, status, lots of money, he wants things that will make him feel powerful and he wants lots of women. 

He doesn't women as something exclusive. He wants many women and he views women in a very physical way. Like he has only temporary attraction to her. He is ready to dump her the moment he sees another attractive woman. He is hard wired in this way and only focuses on his physical needs. 

At this stage he is not psychologically bonded to the woman he is attracted to. He has no emotions for her. He just wants to get laid and enjoy sex with her 

Once he has satisfied his sexual urges with her, he is ready to move on to another woman. He cannot see a woman as a companion or somebody who can fulfill him emotionally because he does not have such emotional needs at this stage. He is focused on purely physical needs. 

Now if he outgrows his raw masculine nature and grows further into a more conscious man, he will attain some degree of maturity and growth and consciousness. At this stage, he won't be too attracted to money or wealth, or money won't be his only goal but he would want a wife, family, kids, community and a structure which is emotionally stable. Here he is in touch with a more psychological side of him and not just physical. He is able to override his physical needs and understand the emotional and psychological needs of his psyche. 

At this stage, which is a yellow stage, he has also cultivated more feminine aspects into his consciousness. He has developed side, so he is more emotional and he is capable of loving a woman, not only physically that is sexually, but also psychologically. So he is able to have an attachment to her, but in stage orange he was not able to have such attachment to any woman. 

 

Because of this psychological attachment, he is able to be more Wholesome in the relationship where he can spend quality time with the woman and not treat her like a temporary object of satisfaction, but see her as a companion to his self, and he is also giving her the love and attention that she needs, he is fulfilled with her both physically and psychologically. He is able to keep her happy since he is able to invest in her more time and resources and connect with her deeply. He is not only attracted to her but also committed to her. 

He is more likely to be a loving husband and father at this stage and capable of keeping the family unit together and also contribute to society in a conscious manner. He is no longer about selfish wealth building and only focusing on selfish needs. At this stage he is selfless and he is more passionate about doing something for society, family and humanity. 

At this point he is growing in a more conscious way and he has reached a point of peace and happiness. He is more healthy, more happy, he is deeper in his connection to his self, he is happier with women, he is genuinely happy and it's not fake happiness coming out of  winning a game. 

I had come across a very stage orange guy a few years ago where I was working. And he was always boasting about money, and his little toys, he would cheat people and make lots of money, his personality was like Trump, and he would boast about getting women despite having a beautiful wife and kids, I saw him degrading everyday, his health got worse, the point is he was just not happy and becoming miserable everyday. 

So I think that the point of happiness for a man lies in becoming

a matured man, 

A grown man

A conscious man 

 

So when he attains this growth, he reaches stage yellow and he is more psychologically connected to aspects of life.. 

 

 

 

 

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The point of happiness for a woman. 

I think this point comes when a woman moves from stage Green to stage Yellow. 

The reason I haven't placed women at stage orange is because women are more emotional. 

They tend to look at relationships in more emotional ways and use less logic. 

They are already at the Psycho-emotional stage. They are one step higher than the man because they have overcome the physical state. They want a relationship sexually but they also crave the relationship emotionally. 

They are more likely to be happy If these emotional needs are met. 

The man has to grow from the physical to the Psycho-emotional. But the woman is already grown. She has already taken the leap to the Psycho-emotional. 

So if she is not emotionally happy then it's a huge problem for her. Because there is no further room for growth. The only way is to get out of the place where she is not emotionally or psychologically happy. 

So what is her pattern of growth? 

She has to grow from her stage Green base. 

And she should stop being emotionally attached to men who don't give her psychological happiness. 

This means she should be wiser and not always rely on her emotions. 

Her growth lies in becoming wise enough to find the man who is psychologically compatible with her. This man is the stage yellow man discussed earlier, the man who is grown, conscious matured. 

Let me say that this man has moved from point A at stage Orange to point B in stage Yellow. This is the point B man.. 

So her growth lies in becoming wise enough to leave the Point A manipulative man and move towards the stage Yellow and use her brain to find the point B man.. 

At this point she will find happiness or peace. 

This is the common point in the stage Yellow. 

At this point both the man and the woman will find happiness with each other and contribute to each other and the world. 

They both will move from greed and ignorance towards cooperation and selflessness and mutual happiness at point B, the common point where happiness is experienced. 

I created this diagram to get a better understanding of my concept. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited October 1, 2020 by Preety_India

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I love love love listening to this.. 

 

 

Edited October 1, 2020 by Preety_India

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You poison a plant and you also expect that plant to grow. 

That's not how things work. 

 

 

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You were a dog to hurt me so much.. A freaking dog. 

You hurt me in the worst possible ways you could.