As you know, i am the 20 year old married guy. I am a pleaser type of guy. okay i will say only the facts. I was in my home watching "God father" the scene that michael slaps his wife when he realized she aborted their baby. Then i wanted to meet her and called her. But she just hung my phone while i was talking. I called again again. I said okay thats enough. I took taxi, making myself angry. When i met her, she didnt expect that i would shout at her. I was keep shouting at her why wouldnt you respect me. She said i didnt hang your phone. I was like bullshit. She slapped me not so strong in order to shut me up. Then i just slapped her. She said i am scared to live with you in Japan. There is a lot of things happened you guys never know. I just believed i was angry. In fact, she threatened my ego by hanging my phone. My ego defended itself.