Having my first date tomorrow

[onacloudynight]

Going on a date with this girl I met at the mall. Its been awhile since I've been on a date, so any advice will be much appreciated.

We're going for coffee by the way.

Edited September 9, 2020 by onacloudynight

[ertopolice]

Hi!

I dated a guy last saturday for a coffee too and I know of that feeling after a long time.

Focus on getting it easy and smile a lot

It helps

 

Btw I love to hear about you meeting her at the mall. I would like to "master" the cold approach being a female but it seems so weird

 

good luck

[onacloudynight]

@ertopolice Haha honestly women don't need to do cold approach. But if you are a fairly attractive women, expect a lot of guys to be down. Just walk up  and express your interest in him. Be like ,"hey I thought you looked interesting and I wanted to meet you" and do it with sweet and innocent, feminine smile and guys will love you. I am not a female, but I would imagine that the rejection rate for females is a lot lower than for males.

There is even a video on this: http://ASKING GUYS FOR SEX (SOCIAL EXPERIMENT)

Rejection rate 50% Go get em

[ertopolice]

59 minutes ago, onacloudynight said:

@ertopolice Haha honestly women don't need to do cold approach. But if you are a fairly attractive women, expect a lot of guys to be down. Just walk up  and express your interest in him. Be like ,"hey I thought you looked interesting and I wanted to meet you" and do it with sweet and innocent, feminine smile and guys will love you. I am not a female, but I would imagine that the rejection rate for females is a lot lower than for males.

There is even a video on this: http://ASKING GUYS FOR SEX (SOCIAL EXPERIMENT)

Rejection rate 50% Go get em

I look quite OK for my age and emotional background..I notice males looking at me at gym and some time in the past my only goal there was to makes friends and socialize because I was struggling with serious emotional issues and dating was not a priority.

Will try to do something..

[ertopolice]

pd. note my goal is just to start dating and gaining some confidence..not a sex experiment 

[Roy]

Remember women are like bears, she's probably just as scared of you as you are of her. Any nervousness you have will go away the second you sit down and it's happening.

Just ask lots of questions and talk about things you like, and ask about what she likes.

Good luck mate!

[Carl-Richard]

[onacloudynight]

@ertopolice I know I was just pointing out that even when a girl is being very direct it still works 50% percent of the time. Which just goes to show how successful it will be when you're not going so direct. 

My advice to you is just be social. Hang around people, have a social life, be out there and guys will come to you. 

Also get on Tinder. It's like a cheat code for dating for women, even if you are just a moderately attractive woman, you will have guys flooding your phone.