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What does it mean to love someone?

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'What does it mean to love someone?' 

I just came to the realization that I have never defined it for myself and now I am contemplating it. 

I also find it difficult to distinguish between universal Love and loving someone in a relationship (or to integrate the lessons from divine Love into my relationship). 

So what does it mean to you to love someone? 

 

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To care for them genuinely. 

 


INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues

Cleared out ignore list today. 

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Love is like a thank you for someone accepting you, but it's reciprocal.


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Love is:

- when you think of that someone, your heart fills with a warm feeling:

- when you what to do things for that someone, just to see his/her smile;

- when you get in a fight with that someone and you realize you don't want to lose him/her;

- when you spend time with that someone and you feel complete.

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When start to lose your individuality into that person. He /she becomes more important to you than yourself. 


my mind is gone to a better place.  I'm elevated ..going out of space . And I'm gone .

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Love is a misperception that occurs when you lose sight of your value. If you are of high value, you will never love, because what will there be to love?

To love someone or something, it only takes you denying your own worth and then projecting it outwards. You must feel less/vulnerable/imperfect/incomplete first before you can love anything outside of yourself. Because that's the only way you will be able to see value in something other than yourself.


If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey

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1 hour ago, Opo said:

@Gesundheit Interesting take, but I completely disagree. 

You're wrong so who cares.


If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey

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6 hours ago, Gesundheit said:

You're wrong so who cares.

People who don't care don't spend time replying to something just to tell someone how little they care. 

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Just now, Opo said:

People who don't care don't spend time replying to something just to tell someone how little they care. 

lol


If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey

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3 minutes ago, Gesundheit said:

lol

See. I care about you too. ❤️

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26 minutes ago, Opo said:

See. I care about you too. ❤️

You're still wrong.


If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey

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13 minutes ago, Gesundheit said:

You're still wrong.

:D

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2 hours ago, wavydude said:

@Gesundheit Heart chakra blockage alert xD

There can't be a blockage in something that doesn't even exist.


If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey

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4 minutes ago, Gesundheit said:

There can't be a blockage in something that doesn't even exist.

You care about me, your heart must exist. 

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9 minutes ago, Opo said:

You care about me.

Wrong.


If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey

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