Dating opportunities in pandemic times

[ertopolice]

Hi there

Well, I'd appreciate ur views on this

31yr old female. Single. 

Lost all my friendships during a really hard time in my life. Quit my job. I went from a high regarded job and status to having nothing at all (including family, friends and home)

After all this nightmare I am still on my way to recovery..not fully satisfied with my job but I feel I've already "lost"  also many years of my youth on this issue and i need to focus not only on my career but on my personal life aswell.

I've always been a high achiever before I went through all this. Always into self improvement. During all this nightmare when i lost all i've been keeping fit. I am quite OK i think..but i feel that due to my intense sadness i have not realized it till know. All my current female friends are either married or in LTR.  I even struggle to get plans with friends so no way of meeting new posible mates or dates.

Do not know what's wrong with me. Perhaps i got not enough social network so i can go out more frequently..i dunno.

I am an introvert but love to meet new people. I love intelectual stuff, fitness, self development, gigs, huge range go interests.

Also, this pandemia is of no help at all on this. Any ideas on how to meet people in these times? 

Any tips on how could I  get more chances to meet interesting males or expand my social network?

 

 

[Byun Sean]

Join a club/ group/ or meetup that involves a hobby of yours or something your interested in. 

Guys would love to meet a girl who's interested in the same stuff they are. 

For example if a guy plays a sport and you play that sport too and he find you attractive. The thought will occur in his mind that you might be an awesome girl to have a relationship with simply because he could spend time with you doing something he already enjoys.

Also take care of your self in all ways. Meet interesting females as well to make friends with, stay physically fit, eat healthy, spend plenty of time alone doing self improvement and introspection work like meditation, journaling, etc. 

Eventually, all the work will snowball.

A girl who takes care of herself on the inside and out stands out to guys because when you are at your best, your feminine side will naturally come out much stronger and nothing attracts guys like femininity. The hottest girls are not just physically hot, but also have a much more feminine essence about them. Simply the way you move, talk, act, and carry yourself will be more attractive to guys. You will also have a better chance attracting a more quality man since a quality man is likely saving his time and energy for a quality woman.

Although you probably won't be able to do much of that since we have this whole pandemic thing happening. I'd say probably use this time to take care of yourself and focus on inner work and taking care of yourself. 

It seems you have work to do on your: self esteem, self image, social skills, neediness, etc. There are several books, videos, and courses you can take to help you improve in these areas.