Sex - why I ejaculate so quickly now?

[Lubomir]

So, this problem started like month ago. Until then I could have sex without ejaculation for like 15-20 min on everage, sometimes I didn't even ejaculate despite our sex being freaking awesome and we both really enjoyed it.

But now it's weird for me.

When she came back from abroad and spending 14 days of quarantine at hut of my parents with me, we then moved at "my place", where she stayed with me for almost 2 weeks. We was at that time at "my place" alone (we both still study so I had rented my own room with other couple living in the second room). Few days past by and everything was fine, we weren't only at "my place" but also at hers grandparents and few other places... 

But then my room-mates came and everything seemed to have huge tension. And that's where my problems with performance started. We still had plenty of sex, but I always came after like 2-5mins when I penetrated her. We talked about it when she was moving to her parents for hollidays and we both agreed that our whole sex after my room-mates came was not good, sometimes even platonic.

She's right now at her parents and I came there for a visit too. We had sex and it was much, much better in terms of pleasure and connection, but I still couldn't last longer then few minutes. 

I'm starting thinking that it's not because of me, but because of her -> she had some real traumas with her father and she's been preparing for it the whole time (she finally decide to talk about it with him), so maybe she just got into stress and that realized itself even in her sexual way and her body. 

Maybe, I don't know. Just trying to hint some tips and comments on it. So feel free to say anything. Also, if it's relevant, we are together more than a year. Thx

[DIDego]

Woow courage, thank you for sharing. 

This was interesting and genuine.

Keep it up and hang on to that courage!

 

Take care, Love & Stay safe! 

Edited August 5, 2020 by DIDego

[Lubomir]

@BlackMaze Yeah, I started to have financial problems at that time, because my car and phone broke and I couldn't straight afford to fix it. We also planing to move together in one week to our own flat, so there's plenty of things that needs to be done. 

So yeah, I'm in stress. That's the thing I "blame" for it right now.

Also thx for tips, I'm overall can control myself very well. But lately it's just so fucking hard :)... 

@DIDego Thx! I'm still working on not being ashamed of anything in my life and I improved a lot from the begining of my journey. Guess this sums it up :D, love it