Making her come using my dick

[Farnaby]

15 hours ago, wwhy said:

The mouth is for eating food

Pussy is a nice food 

[StarStruck]

If you can tilt your dick while it is hard, it is easier to hit the right spots. I accidentally discovered this trick and it works. 

Kegel exercises are good. Not only for the technique I described but also for endurance. Women need at least 20 minutes of that good stuff. 

I mean it is also important to have a good health to get strong erections. 

Edited August 4, 2020 by StarStruck

[egoeimai]

@Recursoinominado legs up is the best position by far. Good choice.

[Value]

@datamonster So have you ever made her come without clitoral stimuli?

[icecoffee]

@Value Do you have feelings for her and does she have feelings for you? Or is it just a hookup? I find this makes a difference in the experience.

[Value]

@icecoffee I'm in a relationship with a girl I like. 

[icecoffee]

@Value Ok then this makes things easier.

You can make her come via her G spot if she is totally relaxed; like all of the muscles in her body sink into the bed. Often, when we (girls) are having sex our body automatically tenses up and that does not allow an orgasm to happen. 

Allow her to feel comfortable enough to just relax and be totally in the moment (as though she is surrendering). It also helps if you tell her you want her to orgasm, but don't pressure her. Just say you're going to take care of her and she can just relax and enjoy.

Giving her compliments, caressing her (e.g. light strokes on her inner thighs, cute little peck kisses or even just putting her hair gently back in place) or saying stuff (whatever she is into) while she's on her way is very helpful too. The reason why you gotta let her know you want her to come is because most girls don't expect the guy to know how or to even try to do it, so we don't have the mindset to let it happen, we're just in a "i'm being fucked" mode. 

Also, don't stop until she comes, you'll know when she does. It takes time. If you are doing it right and she is loving it then keep doing that, don't all of a sudden change because then it's as though she has to restart the whole process to climax. Often, when I'm about to come for some reason at that moment the guy changes whatever he was doing which is so frustrating. As well, if she says don't stop what you're doing or she likes it, then she's sort of telling you that whatever you are doing can make her come. 

If you succeed, you could make her come numerous times the same night via her G spot. Another thing that helps is if you manage to get into a deeply connected scenario. Like both of your bodies are insync, you guys are staring at each other in the eyes with intensity, breathing heavy, holding each other etc... It can get so passionate: the best sex there is when you literally create love energy. However, be careful she might fall inlove with you! Don't treat her like a princess if you don't intend on loving her back.

Another tip:

To be penetrated slowly in and out, and deeply works wonders for me. It feels so good that it gets me into that synchronized mode. 

Edited August 4, 2020 by icecoffee

[icecoffee]

2 hours ago, StarStruck said:

If you can tilt your dick while it is hard, it is easier to hit the right spots. I accidentally discovered this trick and it works. 

Kegel exercises are good. Not only for the technique I described but also for endurance. Women need at least 20 minutes of that good stuff. 

I mean it is also important to have a good health to get strong erections. 

The harder, the better!

[icecoffee]

19 hours ago, Recursoinominado said:

I like to focus on deep penetration, letting the woman feel like i am completing her, filling a literal and metaphorical whole. When you are deep on her, move your hips and test things. 

YES.

 

2 hours ago, egoeimai said:

@Recursoinominado legs up is the best position by far. Good choice.

I don't know man... Personally, I don't think I could come in that position, my body isn't relaxed/grounded enough. Go ahead just try, lay on your back and do a child's pose (but without holding your feet or legs) it's not really comfortable, the mind and body are focused on the tension/instability of the legs (we can still enjoy this position though). 

Missionary or flat on stomach with legs closed is the best imo. Adding sweet light kisses on the back or neck can make us feel safe, taken care of, and fulfilled. It just gotta be a romantic mood you know and not always so fast. Slow down guys take your time.

And again, y'all should not be doing all these amazing things unless there are feelings involved. I'd be pissed off if a guy fucks me this good, but isn't interested in anything more afterwards. Not necessarily an official relationship, but some sort of bond you know. If a guy makes "love" to me numerous times, naturally I think I'd develop some sort of attachment to him. But, if he just disappears from my life or only hangouts for sex then fuck off, thank you next. We will then see you as a weak/insecure man who needed his masculinity to be validated through being "good" at sex, it's a legit turn off. You either create something with me (for which I need to be super attracted to you or I'd think you're creepy and bold to "exploit" my body without knowing me -instant cringe mode) or you just fuck me. Don't give me the illusion that you are so into me and that we have a connection, if it's just sex for you. If it's just sex, then just make it about sex (can still be awesome sex). No girl wants hookup guys to make "love" to them, that's serious stuff; human biology makes it so. 

 

Edited August 4, 2020 by icecoffee

[egoeimai]

@icecoffee I'm a girl ????

[Michael569]

Stop looking at sex as a dick & vagina play. It is a harmony of 2 bodies, emotions and chemistry. The environment plays a great role and so does state of mind, any worries, stress , light, smells, ecc. Before you even penetrate the girl you need to spend 40 minutes (at least) on foreplay and massage to build up her desire and circulation. In the bed the man is yang, he kindles quickly but also fades quickly where girl is yin, she needs longer time to kindle but will keep the fire going for long time. 

Instead of mindless bashing like you see in porn, slow down and have her savour every thrust. Use your hands and mouth as much as you can to stimulate other areas of her body. 

She also needs to feel comfortable being naked in front of you. For some women this means less light and more natural light such as a candle. 

Spend a lot of time finding her G-spot. It exists and it is very real. Before you even penetrate her, she should already be beyond at least 1 orgasm, ideally more. 

David Deida's book "Way of the Superior Man" is quite good. 

 

 

[Value]

46 minutes ago, Michael569 said:

Stop looking at sex as a dick & vagina play. It is a harmony of 2 bodies, emotions and chemistry. The environment plays a great role and so does state of mind, any worries, stress , light, smells, ecc. Before you even penetrate the girl you need to spend 40 minutes (at least) on foreplay and massage to build up her desire and circulation. In the bed the man is yang, he kindles quickly but also fades quickly where girl is yin, she needs longer time to kindle but will keep the fire going for long time. 

Instead of mindless bashing like you see in porn, slow down and have her savour every thrust. Use your hands and mouth as much as you can to stimulate other areas of her body. 

She also needs to feel comfortable being naked in front of you. For some women this means less light and more natural light such as a candle. 

Spend a lot of time finding her G-spot. It exists and it is very real. Before you even penetrate her, she should already be beyond at least 1 orgasm, ideally more. 

David Deida's book "Way of the Superior Man" is quite good. 

 

 

Lol to your assumptions. We're having good sex already, with everything you're mentioning above already integrated into our lovemaking. I'm talking specifically about making her come using my penis without clitoral stimuli. If you have ever done that, hit me with your best tip.

[Farnaby]

@Value you mean without any kind of foreplay? That would probably hurt, let alone get her to orgasm. 

If you are talking about penetration after foreplay, yes you can make her cum that way. But why do you want to avoid clitoral stimulation? In many sex positions you're going to be stimulating it unvoluntarily anyways through the contact of your pelvis and hers. 

As others said, you need a lot more than technique. And she also needs to work on her potential insecurities that make it difficult to relax. 

[Value]

@Farnaby Ofc with foreplay and everything else that makes good sex. I mean at the specific point of (one of) her climax(es).

Edited August 5, 2020 by Value

[Michael569]

7 minutes ago, Value said:

Lol to your assumptions. We're having good sex already, with everything you're mentioning above already integrated into our lovemaking. I'm talking specifically about making her come using my penis without clitoral stimuli. If you have ever done that, hit me with your best tip.

Sometimes you can get there going very slow rather than going very fast. That can actually be way more enjoyable for both.