Making her come using my dick

[Value]

You read the title, hit me! How to make her come using my penis? Closest so far has been with both vaginal intercourse plus stimuli on clitoris (by the way on which you can also share some personal variations if you have em). The aim would be to make her come through vaginal intercourse using my penis, without clitoral stimuli.

Cheers!

[wwhy]

1. have a big dick

[Preety_India]

That's not possible. 

You need extensive foreplay. 

Why no clitoral stimuli. 

A woman is very happy with that. When she is eaten. 

You can use the d to achieve the same but that needs to be preceded with some strong foreplay.. 

Do role play. Or keep exciting her till the end of the orgasm. 

One trick is to move your d all over the area for stimulation. In poking fashion. 

 

 

[wwhy]

4 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

That's not possible. 

You need extensive foreplay. 

Why no clitoral stimuli. 

A woman is very happy with that. When she is eaten. 

You can use the d to achieve the same but that needs to be preceded with some strong foreplay.. 

 

Not possible!!

The dick was specially designed to fit, and give pleasure to the vagina. Not only is it possible, it is its life mission and purpose.

The mouth is for eating food. If the mouth was for giving pleasure, dildos would be shaped like human mouths.

[Preety_India]

@wwhy

What I meant to say that merely using that D would make her feel very raw and dry. So extensive foreplay is must 

Also I don't get why no clitoral stimulation. That is something that most women just die for   

It's good as an opening act. 

 

[Roy]

Think of missionary but then move yourself into a more of a push-up position with a sharper top down angle. The difficulty of doing that as the man will add a lot of intensity to the thrusts, and will turn her on even more. It's not just the technique you're doing but how she perceives it as well which will make her cum.

Works every time. Have fun.

Edited August 3, 2020 by Roy

[Recursoinominado]

Well, first of all, you have to be able to have sex for at least 30 minutes without ejaculating.

Second, assuming that she is ready to go, meaning that you did all the preliminary work, good oral sex and she is BEGGING for you to penetrate her.

It is not usually a matter of in and out penetration like you see in most porn, that will only work if you have a big and thick dick.

The actual work is really intuitive, you have to be fully present and sensible to her every reaction, breath, motion etc.

I like to synchronize my penetration with the pulsation of her pussy/body, women love that, if you do this right, her pleasure will increase exponentially, but it is hard to describe it via text.

Also, teasing is very important, varying the penetration mode, one shallow, one deep, one deep for 4 seconds, 30 seconds out, one shallow, out, deep for 10 seconds and hold it there, it is more an art than a science. Be present and test shit, see how she reacts.

Another thing is the law of state transference, assume that what you feel, she will feel it too, kind of embody the excitement and orgastic pleasure and she will follow you, lead her state with your breath, pulsation of your body and moaning, this will get her super excited but this can be tricky as you can become so aroused that you will cum. 

I like to focus on deep penetration, letting the woman feel like i am completing her, filling a literal and metaphorical whole. When you are deep on her, move your hips and test things. 

The best position, in my opinion, is when she is laying down on her back, belly up, legs spread out like this:

From here, you penetrate deep and move your hip toward her head with your dick still inside her, this will stimulate her g point, repeat and sync with her until she cums. 

Also, lead all the time, alternate between loving and dominant, tell her what to do, choke her a little, hold her hair firmly, suck her tits, lick her nipples, play with it, some like it rough and some don't. Like i said, more of an art than a science. 

[wwhy]

11 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

@wwhy

Also I don't get why no clitoral stimulation. That is something that most women just die for  

That can happen during intercourse too, the missionary and similar positions work best for this. The man just needs to position his hips and move in a certain way to hit that spot too.

 

[Preety_India]

@wwhy yea. But there is something special when it happens before. She feels like he put extra effort. 

But I like what the above user said. 

Both shallow and deep penetration and mixing them alternately. That's something I experienced personally and when it's in perfect rhythm with her pulse, it's great.. 

 

[wwhy]

It does help, I agree. But I oral sex or any other form of direct clitoral stimulation isn't a must to make a woman orgasm.

The vagina doesn't care about putting effort, if it feels right, it will respond accordingly. For example, when a woman orgasms after pleasuring herself, is it really because she appreciates the effort her fingers put in it?

Edited August 3, 2020 by wwhy

[Preety_India]

@wwhy @wwhy

Pleasuring herself will give her an orgasm but is that sexual love? Where is the sexual affection in it? 

Then there won't be need for sex from a man if women could feel the same way themselves. 

Sex is not just sex, it's sexual affection. And to show that affection, the man has to stimulate the man in ways the woman would like, foreplay and clitoral stimulation is a part of that sexual affection. 

When she sees her man putting effort in stimulating her, she can feel his wanting and affection for her. That will make her extra happy..

Understand that sex is not just about pleasure, hormones flowing and physical happiness but also about mental happiness. 

If a woman sees the sexual act of a man as a mere routine or thing of pleasure, she might see it as too physical or mechanical. For her to feel emotional and Wholesome the man needs to do other gestures as well, like staring deep into her eyes while sexing her up. 

Just dick and vagina is like animal sex. 

She also wants to receive the affection of a man during and after sex.

You are not a woman. How will you know what makes a woman mentally happy during sex. 

It's like me telling men what should make them happy during sex. 

 

[wwhy]

@Preety_India

You have forgotten the context of this discussion thread. It was "Making her come using my dick".

I may be a man, but the only man I know how to please, or what they like in bed is myself. I would never assume to be the authority on, or speak for what all other existing men like. Haven't spent any time in bed with one either. With women on the other hand ..

Edited August 3, 2020 by wwhy

[Identity]

Don’t let yourself get pushed around by any ‘have to’s’

There is no specific hard requirements, well maybe one hard requirement LOL

It’s relative to a lot of different factors

[Value]

@Roy Cool! How long do you have to go at it usually?

[Value]

@Recursoinominado
Great reply! 

 

@Preety_India
Yeah I meant no clitoral stimulation at the specific point of climax, but ofc during the foreplay.

[Preety_India]

18 minutes ago, Value said:

@Recursoinominado
Great reply! 

 

@Preety_India
Yeah I meant no clitoral stimulation at the specific point of climax, but ofc during the foreplay.

Oh got you.. 

 

[LfcCharlie4]

Read: 

Daniel Rose “Sex God Method” 

I think it’s available online, just take the sex advice, I wouldn’t recommend listening to all the life advice lmao. 
 

Basic principle of the method - DEVI 

Dominance 

Emotion

Variability 

Immersion 

 

Just read that book to begin with. 
 

Then when you wanna take it up another gear for your own pleasure and overall well-being read Mantak Chia’s 

“Multi-Orgasmic Man” 

Oh and quit watching porn, that shit is poison to young people’s brains, also older people, but it’s way worse on a developing brain. 

[Value]

@modmyth 
Cool! never even heard of the Cervix. I will check it out. 
I haven't made her come through G-spot stimulation only (yet). Any tips?

 

[Value]

@LfcCharlie4 Thanks for the tip, I'll check it out.

Judging from your PP you and I are about the same age.

[Roy]

4 hours ago, Value said:

@Roy Cool! How long do you have to go at it usually?

20 minutes give or take, just make sure to do some foreplay and other positions first to build up the energy. (Don't forget lube or whatever you need to keep the friction low).