I Am 20 And Married

[Uchira]

I live in Japan studying but come from Mongolia. Everything was happening and then i got married when i was 19. I applied for family visa in order to live with her here in Japan. The problem is i have no idea that i love her. I just feel like i love her but in fact, i never questioned it before. Now i have too much obligation on her, her mother, my mother and everybody else. What if i just divorce. How is my faith gonna change? Haha I know that the only problem is in me, i know that.  

[egoeimai]

No the problem is not in you.

You just took a quick decision ,which now youre questioning for.

Take this risk !!!!!!!

You re young!!! Dont ruin your life from now! If you are not sure change it before its late!

[Richard Alpert]

getting married at 19 sounds horrible.

i think there should be a law that doesnt allow under 30 year old people to marry.

Most men doesnt have a clue who they are in theyre 20s and mid 20s

Wasn´t it Jung who said that life begins at 40, everything before that is just seeking

[OlgaMack]

If you don't feel happy, what are you waiting for? You'll make her unhappy too if you stay together. And the time for divorce is before a baby comes.

[Raghavm]

Dude you need variety of choices. Try every flavour of ice cream out there [personality( shy , introverted girls ) and looks ( asian , latino etc) ] before making a decision. After trying , dating alot of women would you know whats your type. And you can genuinely "love" her for a longer period of time.