how do I become a sex goddess

[iceprincess]

I remember with my first boyfriend I sucked at giving blowjobs, I was way too insecure about my body and way too quiet in bed and I couldn't orgasm with him because I was too caught up in my head I guess ((probably why he broke up with me) . I just wanna be that girl that gives the best blowjobs, is multiorgasmic, isn't afraid to let loose and be wild and adventurous, can ride a dick like a cowgirl lol. any tips, advice, books, videos, courses etc. 

[Leo Gura]

Practice makes perfect

[Seed]

Have a look at YouTube videos on how to give good blowjobs. It’s really very easy. It’s all about confidence.

if you believe you are a sex goddess then you will act accordingly. 
 

Enjoy  yourself. Have fun!! Play! It’s really very easy... try to think about how it felt to be a child and play... well, sex is adult play. 
 

Lose yourself in the moment. Think about how you feel rather performance. It’s about succumbing to the moment and to your own sensuality.

hope this helps ? 

 

[hamedsf]

open your mind and embrace tons of sexual materials in order to get expert at it including books, tutorials and porn videos. 

[Gesundheit]

@iceprincess Raise your self-esteem.

[Roy]

2 hours ago, hamedsf said:

porn videos. 

Watch out to make sure you're watching the right kind of porn videos if you want to learn @iceprincess. The overwhelming majority of porn is completely male centered.

That's great if you're learning how to please the guy yourself, but realize that it's a one way street.

The girls in those videos aren't under a lot of pleasure and don't orgasm. Imitating them isn't going to get you in touch with your body and your own sensitivities.

[flume]

• Meditation and letting go of thoughts
• Heal any trauma or repression/ moral conflicts you might have around sexuality
• All kinds of exercise. Gets you connected to your body
• Learn about masculine and feminine dynamics. Learn to really own your femininity. It's naturally open and submissive
• Porn usually gets in the way of getting really in touch with what I want to create. Your mind is way more powerful than anything you can watch
• Find a guy you're crazy about, have a lot of polarity with and whom you can really trust. A lot of these things are gonna depend on him

[universe]

13 hours ago, iceprincess said:

I sucked at giving blowjobs

I think you are already 90% there by having the right mindset to please your man. But yeah practice and you could also learn to dance (bachata, pole dance...), how to do dirty talk and explore what side of sex you really enjoy.

[TheUniverseIsLove]

Be in the moment, let go, have confidence, and have fun. 
 

 

[Leo Gura]

I do have a video: How To Have Amazing Sex (For Women)

[Member]

On 7/20/2020 at 0:28 PM, iceprincess said:

I remember with my first boyfriend I sucked at giving blowjobs, I was way too insecure about my body and way too quiet in bed and I couldn't orgasm with him because I was too caught up in my head I guess ((probably why he broke up with me)

If that's the reason, then be happy that he broke up with you.

Gee, people are so superficial nowadays, they only see you as a piece of meat. Fucking sad and pathetic.

Edited July 21, 2020 by Member

[iceprincess]

@Leo Gura yeah I saw it it was really helpful ty 

[iceprincess]

I guess I'm just scared because I never came with a guy before and I was reading a lot of articles saying that a lot of girls can't orgasm through penetration and they just have to accept it and be okay with it . I saw an article  that says the distance from your urethra to your vagina correlates with how well you orgasm lol thats probably bull shit but I just don't wanna be that girl, I wanna squirt and have mind blowing orgasms and do it multiple times! please tell me that its possible with every girl, as long as I know that it's something every girl can work on and it doesn't depend on your external anatomy then I can take care of the rest 

[Leo Gura]

@iceprincess

Most guys are really turned on my femininity. So anything you can do to amp up your expression of femininity will drive them nuts. Just by acting up your femininity in bed this will make the sex 10x hotter. Acting up femininity is stuff like sweet talk, gentleness, moaning, squirming, going into heat, being submissive, etc.

5 minutes ago, iceprincess said:

I guess I'm just scared because I never came with a guy before and I was reading a lot of articles saying that a lot of girls can't orgasm through penetration and they just have to accept it and be okay with it .

Nonsense!

You just need to find the right guy and get turned on in the right ways.

You can have a deep vaginal orgasm without even any physical touch.

Hell, I can almost have a vaginal orgasm and I'm a dude.

Sex is not about the physical. Sex is all about how you use your mind.

[Preety_India]

I think you would need the right man. 

 

The man who can make you.... squirt.  

 

 

[Member]

It seems that porn movies do a great job at brainwashing people. Be YOU and everything will be okay with the right guy.

[mandyjw]

@iceprincess It's about vulnerability. First you have to pick a man you can really be vulnerable with. 

[Preety_India]

 

9 minutes ago, mandyjw said:

@iceprincess It's about vulnerability. First you have to pick a man you can really be vulnerable with. 

+1..This exactly. 

 

[iceprincess]

@mandyjw I can't be vulnerable with guys, it's always been hard for me to be naked and comfortable and submissive with men. I always get so nervous and rigid. I guess it has a lot to do with the fact I was sexually molested by a family member but it's okay I'm slowly getting through it 

[Hello from Russia]

If you want to ride a dick well, you might wanna purchase a good quality dildo from Amazon (or other store) and practice riding it for like 30-60 minutes/day. There are some dildos you can attach to the wall for doggy style practice as well.

Just find out the most important minutia of the skills that you want and make the systemic practice/habits out of it. Practice the core skills for a month or two and then try it with some guy to receive the feedback from him. Adjust your practice based on its feedbak and keep on.  It might be very useful to have a consistent practice partner of the opposite sex for this, so consider finding one you are comfortable with and do a lot of sex with him.

Being super good at anything requires commitment and practice

Edited July 21, 2020 by Hello from Russia