How do you define maturity in relationships?

[Zak]

I have been thinking about maturity as the number one requirement for a successful relationship of any kind. So I was wondering if you guys can share your insights about maturity in relationship. How do you know if your partner is mature or not. Because this can someone to some extent be faked.

[Zak]

Emotional and Sprirituat Maturity

[Moon]

Open mindedness, non-dogmatic, emotionally stable&emotionally intelligent, ability to admit and apologize for mistakes etc 

[mandyjw]

Selfless yet self-respecting. 

[hamedsf]

I would call her immature if:

she gets mad at me constantly (without me hurting her)

she gets upset without explaining the situation and expecting me to be a psychic to know precisely what she wants and feels  

and most importantly: she would have extreme mood swings something similar to bipolar but not exactly that (this is the indication of instability in personality) 

[Zak]

1 hour ago, mandyjw said:

Selfless yet self-respecting. 

Took me a while to understand. So great.

[Zak]

24 minutes ago, hamedsf said:

and most importantly: she would have extreme mood swings something similar to bipolar but not exactly that (this is the indication of instability in personality) 

Yes exactly, I will have to take a note on that as well. Great.

Mood swings can be an indication to many major deep problems.

[Oliver Saavedra]

I would determine it by their capacity of self-awareness, responsability, vulnerability, empathy, knowing what they want, flexibility, and Love. 

Edited July 17, 2020 by Oliver Saavedra