Galyna’s adams and eves

[zeroISinfinity]

2 minutes ago, Galyna said:

Surprising to hear  when comparing our cultures. 

Here girls are much more protected by parents. It's not suprise if girl doesn't know to cook because mommy does everything for her. If in family there is brother and sister expect all pressure and all work on boy because hey girl will get marry and be taken care of hubby and then she will learn. That's how things are in Belgrade everywhere else in Serbia it's far more traditional. Well not really a suprise most girls I. dated didn't know. But if they start living alone they learn because they have to. If they stay with parents most don't. 

 

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Why? What was shocking that lady actually bought something for you? Just wonder...

I don't like it. Especially if there is hidden motivation behind it and there is. Not blind. 

Lets say previous virgo gf done same thing but was very naive in a sense I like him so I will gift him. Pisces lady knows exactly what she wants and no fooling around with her. I respect that but not blind at all

 

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I agree something super rear to find. We have the same dreams. I wish I would have more people like that in my reality, not only online.

 

Well see ya in US one day. 

[Galyna]

Just now, zeroISinfinity said:

Here girls are much more protected by parents. It's not suprise if girl doesn't know to cook because mommy does everything for her.

Is it hard to get married for girls there?

I remember when I was seventeen and lived in another city due to my university, I was taught how to cook by my best friend (male) He cooked and I was washing the dishes.  He loved to cook. Honestly speaking, I am not a housewife, I do not like to cook, but I have to now. 

 

7 minutes ago, zeroISinfinity said:

Well see ya in US one day. 

Sure, we will make a kebab party for you when you come, you shall love my friends, they're all Slavic. Do not worry you will blend in. 

[Galyna]

9 minutes ago, zeroISinfinity said:

I don't like it. Especially if there is hidden motivation behind it and there is. Not blind. 

I have different opinion, when you love someone, aren't you suppose to shower them  with little things?

I always did and do for my spouse all the time, when I go to Europe, or travel here in US, or even go shopping, I always buy some yummy things for him or something he really needs. He loves herbal tea and 86% dark chocolate, so I always buy small things for him and he is so happy. 

I think she tries to take care of you, do not look for a hidden meaning, for woman it is natural I guess. 

[zeroISinfinity]

10 minutes ago, Galyna said:

LOL, you drop into details.....

Haha

10 minutes ago, Galyna said:

How do our Ukrainian women do it for the rest of their lives? Carry big plastic bags from the supermarket in two hands with no help, no cars, just public transport: shuttle buses or subway, my dear. You would not surprise me with this, it is not America where you have your own car. My grandmother does it every day, she is eighty!!!! no one helps her, she carries her groceries from the store on her own. Pretty common thing for people in Eastern Europe. I remember those times my self. It is not just a heroic action, pretty usual thing. 

What surprises me still is how our veterans made through WWWII? How could the girl in the age of ten carry a weapon and shoot the nazi soldier, protecting her little siblings, this is surprising, my dear...

It really is not. Just got suprised. She really didn't had to. I mean I could done it today. There was no need. But who knows, well discovered where new place for coffee jar is, so I am ok. With it all. 

10 minutes ago, Galyna said:

Not sure what you mean here....sorry...

Perfect match phase. 

10 minutes ago, Galyna said:

Yeah, I used to spend the whole month when was a kid in July with my grandmother in Russian village. Everything was organic, berries, eggs, milk, mushrooms in the forest, herbal tea, fishing and kayaking on the river.  

Miss Russian village so much. I thought I would fly to Moscow this fall to see my dad, but it is not going to happen in the nearest future, this is so sad.

 

Yeah villages. All grandsons and granddaughters under one roof with grandma and grandpa whole summer. So god damn cool. 

[Galyna]

@zeroISinfinity I remember when I was on the cruise ship, I had a best friend from Serbia, he name was Ivanna. What a nice memory. I remember one day our ship docked in Dover, England, and we were visiting the castle with her together. I think I still have a picture of her in my fb profile. 

Edited July 24, 2020 by Galyna

[zeroISinfinity]

1 minute ago, Galyna said:

I have different opinion, when you love someone, aren't you suppose to shower them  with little things?

Well I like that to be spontaneous. Don't like forced things.Nothing pre planned. If I see somewhere something for her I will buy it. I like honesty in everything don't like theatre play. 

1 minute ago, Galyna said:

I always did and do for my spouse all the time, when I go to Europe, or travel here in US, or even go shopping, I always buy some yummy things for him or something he really needs. He loves herbal tea and 86% dark chocolate, so I always buy small things for him and he is so happy. 

Well we are in phase of getting to know each other. Most of the time I beleive she is confused. Because I am unsolvable enigma for her too. Many of her tests are for that reason, trying to figure out details. 

1 minute ago, Galyna said:

I think she tries to take care of you, do not look for a hidden meaning, for woman it is natural I guess. 

Yeah it's true. It really is. But I never ask For that. Ok will get use to. 

Ok I am Inloved with her I really am. 

I want her as just gf and she wants  serious relationship well I guess can't be womenizer forever. Uffff

[Galyna]

18 minutes ago, zeroISinfinity said:

I like honesty in everything don't like theatre play. 

what was not honest about it, please tell me?

18 minutes ago, zeroISinfinity said:

Many of her tests are for that reason, trying to figure out details. 

In my opinion there is no need for tests, it is either your woman/man or not. It is important to stay authentic and communicate. Tests are silly, it is a game. No game should be involve in love. Love means being vulnerable; Gosh I hate water signs because they really manipulate, and they do it for they lack confidence. My mom does the same thing, hiding behind her pride and dignity, sometimes likes to put on show. She is Scorpio, I told you. 

18 minutes ago, zeroISinfinity said:

I want her as just gf and she wants  serious relationship well I guess can't be womenizer forever. Uffff

A little humor now: my dad is Sagittarius, been married three times, so nothing to worry about marriage, it is not forever thing either, LMAO, ofc I am joking, but it is true per statistics.

Currently,his wife is Aquarius, he loves her to pieces, so that is a security for sure. 

I know quite  a few people of your sign with multiple marriages, it is not uncommon for them.

 

Edited July 24, 2020 by Galyna

[zeroISinfinity]

2 minutes ago, Galyna said:

what was not honest about it, please tell me?

 

2 minutes ago, Galyna said:

In my opinion there is no need for tests, it is either your woman/man or not. It is important to stay authentic and communicate.

 

Well how to explain it. She is way to submissive /feminine or afraid I dunno  to be honest with me. "Nervious" episodes are when she gets honest but she wants to escape. That's why crying. She is unable to put arguing with me. She is able with everyone else at work with her friends family but not with me. 

I melt that solidified version of her so fast. 

Melted version her looks so manipulative to me. But she indeed likes me. That's why mindbend. 

2 minutes ago, Galyna said:

 

Tests are silly, it is a game. No game should be involve in love. Love means being vulnerable; Gosh I hate water signs because they really manipulate, and they do it for they lack confidence.

 

I agree with this so much. That's why in bed she is so loving caring etc. Pleases me so much. But I like that. Very very feminine. 

2 minutes ago, Galyna said:

My mom does the same thing, hiding behind her pride and dignity, sometimes likes to put on show. She is Scorpio, I told you. 

Oh boyo scorpio women, they can be really really crazy already said that. Also high temper. 

 

2 minutes ago, Galyna said:

A little humor now: my dad is Sagittarius, been married three times, so nothing to worry about marriage, it is not forever thing either, LMAO

Yeah we are like that lol. 

2 minutes ago, Galyna said:

Currently,his wife is Aquarius, he loves her to pieces, so that is a security for sure. 

Haha. 

2 minutes ago, Galyna said:

I know quite  a few people of your sign with multiple marriages, it is not uncommon for them.

 

I guess it's not. Sagi is capable of cheating so not a suprise. 

[zeroISinfinity]

Already had pretty good chance to cheat on her but I didn't. There is one girl on work where I know I have like pretty pretty big chance and if I decide I can have her but I really like my piesces for some reason. Is that Sagi love for underdog I dunno. Protective nature too?!

I dunno.

I got. Myself into something that there will be no escape possible at all. She will exploit all. My weaknesses because it's very natural for her. 

Edited July 24, 2020 by zeroISinfinity

[Galyna]

@zeroISinfinity This is hard for me to grasp, if you really like her, like truly in bed and in other aspects of life,  and you are telling me that you're constantly falling in love with her, then what would it change to have more and more random vaginas in your life? Will it make you happier if!!! you even considering such opportunity? The more vaginas you have, the happier you will be? Do you have any issues with self-esteem? What were you trying to accomplish by being a womanizer? 

There is some hidden complex here for sure.

I just can not understand the nature of it. Sorry, I do not want to sound rude, I guess I become a little bit emotional about that, when it comes to womanizers. I guess I understand about your desire for sex with other women, I guess you can potentially cheat on your partner, nobody is insured from that, but chasing so many skirts constantly, why? Please explain. 

p.s. Taurus and/or Capricorns for sure....for the rest of my life, lol 

Edited July 24, 2020 by Galyna

[zeroISinfinity]

5 minutes ago, Galyna said:

@zeroISinfinity This is hard for me to grasp, if you really like her, like truly in bed and in other aspects of life,  and you are telling me that you're constantly falling in love with her, then what would it change to have more and more random vaginas in your life? Will it make you happier if!!! you even considering such opportunity? The more vaginas you have, the happier you will be? Do you have any issues with self-esteem? What were you trying to accomplish by being a womanizer? 

There is some hidden complex here for sure.

I just can not understand the nature of it. Sorry, I do not want to sound rude, I guess I become a little bit emotional about that, when it comes to womanizers. I guess I understand about your desire for sex with other women, I guess you can potentially cheat on your partner, nobody is insured from that, but chasing so many skirts constantly, why? Please explain. 

p.s. Taurus and/or Capricorns for sure....for the rest of my life, lol 

I don't chase at all that's the God damn problem.It really is other way around. Just saying could do it. When I was like really young I did. Did cheated I always say my college years real sodom not really proud of it at all. As time passed and I grown in wisdom I become very very loyal. Lets say in spiritual quest pretty much I become monk like so chasing skirts kinda not so true. 

My lady Piesces seduced me not other way around I just have an illusion I did the work. This holds true for pretty much most women. 

If there is any resemblance of "going serious" I will always go for replacement. This time I am caught. She wants that from very start well it's obvious and problem is, she is perfect for that. Literal match. 2nd problem is I am. Really inloved with her so will not cheat her for any women. 

She forces me into some. Sort of "sorting myself out" about some.deep issues. I have. Shadow issues. 

 

[Galyna]

7 minutes ago, zeroISinfinity said:

It really is other way around.

So you're spoiled by women's attention, hah? See, that was a big huge red flag for me before I met my spouse. 

I love when the guy who is humble. You would not believe, but my spouse is a very handsome man, but he is very-very humble, he is not womenizer and never been, guess upbringing and my mother-in-law did a wonderful job about it. I also understand that in ten years he might want a new sexy body or something like that, but he has a respect for women for sure. He is not a dog!

Marriage should be a quite harbor where you can both relax and trust each other, not be scared to put some extra pounds when pregnant because he will not get horny any more.

Believe me, Ukrainian men are so spoiled, I had enough of it. You literally better be going to the gym right after birth.... My culture is very judgmental about the looks, thanks God in America people are more relaxed about it. I am not talking about being an ugly cow, eat a lot, put weight and forget about high heels, of course not! but thanks to American women who trained their men to respect femininity! At least people here do not scan your body like they did there.  

 

[Galyna]

27 minutes ago, zeroISinfinity said:

She forces me into some. Sort of "sorting myself out" about some.deep issues. I have. Shadow issues. 

I think it is a wonderful opportunity for your development. 

Go for it and do not be apprehensive about the future. If we are totally honest, nobody can guarantee us anything.  

You repeat the same phrase in different variation over and over again, so you've already made that choice and intuitively you know what you want and how it will be. She is the One for you!

Congratulations. I am happy for you. It is not that often when you can meet your true match, some people go through life and  never meet their true match.

I do not believe in matches as such, but I do believe that with some people it is way easier in all aspects than with others. 

Friendship holds the same principle in life.

Sometimes, you meet people and there is this explainable chemistry, while with others you do not even know what to say next.

 

Edited July 24, 2020 by Galyna

[DrewNows]

@Galyna does the boot fit?

part of your aries clan, this one 

[zeroISinfinity]

7 hours ago, Galyna said:

So you're spoiled by women's attention, hah? See, that was a big huge red flag for me before I met my spouse. 

Yes that's true. Irl I flirt all the time. Why? Have no idea. But I indeed like women, I beleive they are so under appreciated and are not respected the way it should be. By society, by men etc. So not really an evil guy. 

Spoiled in that regard and many otger I guess. 

7 hours ago, Galyna said:

I love when the guy who is humble. You would not believe, but my spouse is a very handsome man, but he is very-very humble, he is not womenizer and never been, guess upbringing and my mother-in-law did a wonderful job about it. I also understand that in ten years he might want a new sexy body or something like that, but he has a respect for women for sure. He is not a dog!

Keep that man!

But lets look situation in realistic way. This country is no where near developed. 

So I look good, I am smart had (I have to start all over that again) my own buisness have car apartment and house. So by standards of my country I am rich dude. Also I am dream of every woman here following their survival logig and socio economical situation here. So ofcourse I am spoiled. Why would I care when I can always can get new girl?

So right now I am cooling off, of all of it need some time to re adjust and re calibrate. 

People don't know but when I become self realized from my perspective I was 80 years old already. Already achieved and experienced life and was ready to give it all away. So once again I am here "to dream" but what already experienced it?!Even all nasty stuff which most part of my life was. 

 

7 hours ago, Galyna said:

Marriage should be a quite harbor where you can both relax and trust each other, not be scared to put some extra pounds when pregnant because he will not get horny any more.

Women here care a lot about their looks you know that. Way more then american women. 

7 hours ago, Galyna said:

Believe me, Ukrainian men are so spoiled, I had enough of it. You literally better be going to the gym right after birth.... My culture is very judgmental about the looks, thanks God in America people are more relaxed about it.

 

Yes that's true. 

7 hours ago, Galyna said:

I am not talking about being an ugly cow, eat a lot, put weight and forget about high heels, of course not! but thanks to American women who trained their men to respect femininity! At least people here do not scan your body like they did there.  

Hahaha. 

7 hours ago, Galyna said:

 

7 hours ago, Galyna said:

@zeroISinfinity

 

[zeroISinfinity]

7 hours ago, Galyna said:

I think it is a wonderful opportunity for your development. 

Yes it is. Really is. I struggle a lot. 

7 hours ago, Galyna said:

Go for it and do not be apprehensive about the future. If we are totally honest, nobody can guarantee us anything.  

That's true. 

7 hours ago, Galyna said:

You repeat the same phrase in different variation over and over again, so you've already made that choice and intuitively you know what you want and how it will be. She is the One for you!

 

Well she forces me to think about it. Is she really the one. Yes she is that's the worst part. But for it I have to learn to be calm and patient which is against my temper. I am afraid that at one moment I will snap and say "I don't need this at all and swearing part starts". For warrior type any sort of cage is unnatural and he reacts against. Doesn't mean warrior is bad it's just so against my nature. 

So I am forced to mature in that way and find inner strenght to accept "faith". 

7 hours ago, Galyna said:

Congratulations. I am happy for you. It is not that often when you can meet your true match, some people go through life and  never meet their true match.

See that is amount of how much I am spoiled regarding women. For me that's ok. Nothing extraordinary but I forget to see how it is for anyone. Ungreatful. 

7 hours ago, Galyna said:

I do not believe in matches as such, but I do believe that with some people it is way easier in all aspects than with others.

Neither do I, takes a lot of adaptation for match to be a match so a lot of work from both sides. Even in friendship tgere is adaptation. 

7 hours ago, Galyna said:

Friendship holds the same principle in life

Yup. Here friendships are bit more longlasting. Still friend from most people I went to school with. Dunno how it is in US. 

7 hours ago, Galyna said:

Sometimes, you meet people and there is this explainable chemistry, while with others you do not even know what to say next.

 

Yes that's true. 

[Galyna]

8 hours ago, zeroISinfinity said:

Yes that's true.  I flirt all the time.

Well flirting with women and being spoiled it is a slightly different thing

8 hours ago, zeroISinfinity said:

Also I am dream of every woman here following their survival logig and socio economical situation here. So ofcourse I am spoiled. Why would I care when I can always can get new girl?

That would be a huge decisive factor for me. Having fun with you sexually and starting a family would be different. 

See, you are already position yourself as a "dream of all women". what kind of self-development we are talking about here? 

Be honest have you ever met a hot looking, intelligent, educated women that were a "dream for a lot of men"? Or just an average woman with charisma?  Who is independent enough?

I wouldn't not give a shi...t how cute your face is, or how thick your wallet is. Unfortunately a lot of women would run after this qualities :good looking guy with money. 

This is not a definition of being a real man. A lot of men in Ukraine think that if they have penises and lets say some money, they can dictate the poor girls what to do and how to be. And a lot of women would worship that penis in the house not to be alone. Our whole culture revolves around this concept. 

Just watched the interview last night with a very famous Russian singer, she did the same, with all the fame and money she had, she worshiped the penis not to be along....the guy (her ex husband) actually wanted to kill her and take all her property. Which is so sad! 

8 hours ago, zeroISinfinity said:

Women here care a lot about their looks you know that. Way more then american women. 

America has a lot of hot looking girls (because of the blood mix), it all depends. When my male friend (Ukrainian) came to Nashville from Chicago and we took him in downtown, he was impressed, we met so many hot looking girls in our bars and restaurants. So....you can meet different people here. Also, in US people are more sport oriented than lets say in Eastern Europe. 

 

Edited July 25, 2020 by Galyna

[Galyna]

8 hours ago, zeroISinfinity said:

Well she forces me to think about it.

Nobody can force you for anything. Period!

8 hours ago, zeroISinfinity said:

I am afraid that at one moment I will snap and say "I don't need this at all and swearing part starts". For warrior type any sort of cage is unnatural and he reacts against. Doesn't mean warrior is bad it's just so against my nature. 

Yeah, this is going to be the most interesting part, to show your true nature with all the crap. 

I would rather bring everything to the table immediately not to be heartbroken at the end if she does not tolerate that part of yours. 

I wonder if you are self-realized, what is holding you from being authentic self? Just be who you truly want to be...you want to curse,- so curse, otherwise you are wearing a mask and pretending to be better than you actually are! That is a game, my friend!

Why would you need to show off, if as you claimed in the earlier message,  you can be with any woman you want, then just relax and let them see your real nature. You are a "dream" at the end, so why bother? 

If they do not except you, you will find a new one. Right?

I do not get what is the problem here? I do not get why are you struggling?

8 hours ago, zeroISinfinity said:

So I am forced to mature in that way and find inner strenght to accept "faith".

No my guy, that is not how it works!

You are not forced (let me repeat it again), you've met a woman you really like ( I would not use the word "love" here, because it is too early) and now you need to compromise with her to not lose this relations, since you probably never compromised with anyone else before or did it on a rear occasion, it is an emotional labor for you and you are out of your comfort zone. And you do not like it.

Well, congratulations, someone should give that lesson, right? It's a part of maturing.

 

 

 

Edited July 25, 2020 by Galyna

[zeroISinfinity]

1 minute ago, Galyna said:

Well flirting with women and being spoiled it is a slightly different thing

First hoorey I love you so much. Oh finally someone to talk to. We will be good friends. 

1 minute ago, Galyna said:

That would be a huge decisive factor for me. Having fun with you sexually and starting a family would be different. 

Yes. I agree on this. But lets say once again as man you can also position yourself too. If I am honest I also look for quality of women. Ofcourse will never marry "easy women" lets define it as such. So I am aware of that, my forum mistress started loving you into pieces. 

1 minute ago, Galyna said:

See, you are already position yourself as a "dream of all women". what kind of self-development we are talking about here? 

Just objective outlook if I am ought to make comparisons. I have high value and that's true. I am not ashamed of it. 

1 minute ago, Galyna said:

Be honest have you ever met a hot looking, intelligent, educated women that were a "dream for a lot of men"? Or just an average woman with charisma?  Who is independent enough?

Yes, well have to meet her again. Have to take her out tonight. 

1 minute ago, Galyna said:

I wouldn't not give a shi...t how cute your face is, or how thick your wallet is. Unfortunately a lot of women would run after this qualities :good looking guy with money. 

Well I am a real man have all qualities of grown adult man.Run through a lot of shit in life I am able to take care of a lot of people not just a single women. That's a man. Maybe I sound silly and childish a bit but regarding life I am master. Real leader natural one. 

1 minute ago, Galyna said:

This is not a definition of being a real man. A lot of men in Ukraine think that if they have penises and lets say some money, they can dictate the poor girls what to do and how to be. And a lot of women would worship that penis in the house not to be alone. Our whole culture revolves around this concept. 

This is true. I agree on that. I really do

1 minute ago, Galyna said:

Just watched the interview last night with a very famous Russian singer, she did the same, with all the fame and money she had, she worshiped the penis not to be along....the guy (her ex husband) actually wanted to kill her and take all her property. Which is so sad! 

I agree. 

1 minute ago, Galyna said:

America has a lot of hot looking girls, it all depends. When my male friend (Ukrainian) came to Nashville from Chicago and we took him in downtown, he was impressed, we met so many hot looking girls in our bars and restaurants. So....you can meet different people here. Also, in US people are more sport oriented than lets say in Eastern Europe. 

 

Mostly man are lazy regarding sport. Once they finish schooling and find jobs nobody plays any sport anymore. But Indo even to this day. Nothing better then basketball to clear your mind. 

[DrewNows]

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