Modern Dating and "Polygamous societies tend to become ultra-violent"

[Epikur]

3 minutes ago, Hank Galaxy Brain said:

@JosephKnecht hmm not if you're LGBTQ it's not. That's been hotly debated a while now. As well as abstinence only sex ed, contraception, abortion, and state funding for those.

Most of the time I'm progressive with these. But here, the social conservatives actually have an immensely important point, that no one ever talks about: polygamy destabilizes society, while monogamy promotes egalitarianism.

I think it's such a big deal it warrants societal discussion. It seems that most people are extremely removed from a vital anthropological truth, and a huge aspect of our history. Probably from old cultural taboos on teaching the history of sexuality in high schools and it just hasn't hit the media's radar. Either that or it benefits them not to talk about it. I mean seriously, how has a Bill O'Reilly or Hannity type ever come across the fact that across all of history monogamy is better?

Anyways, just my guess.

You have other fields where to force equality creates more inequality. In the famous case of Jordan Peterson where he pointed out that in Sweden women tend to work more in classic women jobs.

[Onemanwolfpac]

9 hours ago, tsuki said:

@Onemanwolfpac While I see that being a one man wolf pack is a way to avoid the gender wars, it is a solution only in subjective sense.

I believe that the connection with the other gender is worth taking the risk and I hope that one day, if the opportunity presents itself, you will not be afraid to take the shot. I never had a home as a child, so the only one I will ever have is the one I will build.

Bless you.

@tsuki mate, i took my shot today. I take my shot post workout or anytime I get the urge. I am a tall, handsome bachelor, and I am not afraid to put myself out there or take it out. The username says it all. I am going to live a great life and to the best of my ability. I wont marry nor play pretend monogamy as it suits society and a biological urge to replicate. I have zero interest in bringing in children into a world where people are looting and rioting and women. I can do a BASIC background check on any computer and debunk that white dress real fast. Its short of cuckoldry in the modern age. It's not a play. Not anymore. 

I love Jordan Peterson and his content. I think he means well and is attempting to turn this ship around and away from debauchery. I believe he is sincere. I think he is missing the forest for the trees. Responsibility for a wife and family when at any given time, i can be a financial mule. I can be divorced into oblivion or not getting sex. I can marry a fit woman who decides she loves food more than me and gets fat. The stats are god awful.

The commentary i see in daily life be it social media or irl, none of it adds to confidentiality in a dated document. I see no reason to bring the state into my relationship given that the state has failed on so many levels. I take ownership of my relationship. Not the state nor do i sign up for removing my rights and place of head of the household. Its not up for debate. I wont do it. The fix is in. I am out. 

I have more fun on the pursuit as a bachelor instead of the state of modern marriages. 

Bless you too bro. Good luck on your journey. ?

[Onemanwolfpac]

On 04/07/2020 at 6:00 PM, Lyubov said:

they is red pill. 

Lol they is? 

 

5 hours ago, Hank Galaxy Brain said:

AHahahahahahaahahahaha never stop bringing this up. This makes me laugh to no ends. Not even sure exactly why it's just absolutely fucking hilarious. Jordan Peterson's hot daughter + Andrew "Cobra" Tate who teaches young me to get PhD's: Pimpin Hoes Degrees hahahaa it's like an SNL skit or something.
This.

@Roy.

I think she never got a chance to get wild with her health issues. She thought that she could test the waters and well, she is not the best spokesman for Peterson and his message. Moreover, she is what's wrong with his message. Why the fuck am i going to be responsible in general or for a wife and children when she cucked her husband? This is wedding vows 2020. 

I agree with Peterson on the consequences of polygamy. The problem is that, its dated and the fix is in. The con job is just that. 

What man with options are willing to risk the farm for what? Cobra Tate has a harem and i marry when he's done? 

No dice. 

9 hours ago, Sockrattes said:

1. Cum hoc, ergo propter hoc. Sociological inequality doesn't necessarily mean inequality on the dating market. If this was true, Tyler wouldn't impregnate Stacy on a daily basis. People want to have Sex and relationships with "their best options".

2. 1. Nothing. It's actually a good thing. Marriage is just a fancy term for a sales contract. People have to accept, that all people are individuals with desires and that they will act accordingly. The whole concept of a lifelong unconditional partnership was a lie to begin with.

2. 2. Socialism.

2. 3. Making them more attractive. Social dynamics lessons in schools maybe. Girls want cool guys. Guys want cool/hot girls. It's simple as that. When you realise, that you are attractive to at least some girls, life is easier. When you realise, that you have more than just one option, you naturally want all of them. Because desires are endless.

3. *grabs crystal ball* Marriage will die. People will fuck around and the economic and political system will adjust to that. Being a single-mum is not a problem, since the government will make sure, that every child has his basic necessities met. Men are not obliged to pay child-support anymore. After a few years in Babylon, when everyone already participated in weekly orgies, everyone is bored as fuck. Everyone will realise, that sex/desires is the root-cause of all suffering, and then they transcend and merge with God.

I am reading Path to God by Ram Dass. It is a good read. I am far from being on the path. I am downloading the content and integrating it (slowly). I am trying. 

I don't agree with you about finding God but you have tons of women 30 or 40 that found Jesus as single moms. I have no interest nor desire for anything of the sort nor marrying a woman who got banished from playboys harem. 

I agree with you on the marriage and contract. You pay to enter and leave. Money is not the most important thing in life but it is important. Anybody saying otherwise is a fool. To enter a contract given that promiscuity, cuckoldry, the harem, and the divorce fallout, its a shit deal. The stats on divorce based on gender, on college educated, child support, and custody are prime examples why not to indulge. The trail of money is key. I can walk away as a bachelor. The fallout is unavoidable on western society and I have to be skeptical. 

5 hours ago, Hank Galaxy Brain said:

@JosephKnecht 

Most of the time I'm progressive with these. But here, the social conservatives actually have an immensely important point, that no one ever talks about: polygamy destabilizes society, while monogamy promotes egalitarianism.

I couldn't agree more. We see fatherless homes and high crime rates. Its no coincidence. Furthermore, if you look at the data on promiscuity and high kill count, divorce is a guarantee. 

One of my mates got told by a girl who bragged about fucking a high status male. Dating in 2020. She literally bragged about it. My mate fooled around but he described himself feeling disgusted and her repulsive. This is again a biological response. Imagine a man telling a woman he bangs escorts, "want to get married?" 

I agree with Peterson and destabilised society. I don't have a answer. I just know that I am not Mario and I won't be saving any "princess." 

[JosephKnecht]

@Epikur@Hank Galaxy Brain

Sexuality is personal since its the person that decides his/her/their sexuality. 

If you are lesbian, gay, transgender, it is your choice as a person to decide your sexuality. Society can't tell you that you are a lesbian if you don't self-identify as one.

On a level of society, we only make the decision when a person is not able to make a decision for themselves, like minors for example. 

You have to solve problems on the level of abstraction in which the problems arise. Sex is a personal "problem", and can't be resolved on the level of society. 

 

[Danioover9000]

@Onemanwolfpac Are you the Netflix and chill guy that talked about that Canadian president black facing in the dating sub-forum? 

 

@Hank Galaxy Brain Could you, or anyone reading, please describe to me what is an actual incel?? There're many descriptions of those types online...

[Hank Galaxy Brain]

@Danioover9000  It's an involuntary celibate. They're usually described online as sexually frustrated, resentful, basement dwelling types who feel entitled to women and misogynistic. That's the connotation at least. I'm sure some are just sexually frustrated without projecting their anger onto women or the world. There's a Reddit forum by the name.

Now that I think of it it sounds prison related. The very word has a feel most similar to the feel of the word... "ex-con." Almost like punitive, dangerous, awol sort of feel. It's funny how words can seem to encapsulate what they describe.

@Onemanwolfpac Yea marriage doesn't seem like a great deal for most. But at the same time I'm ever surprised to find people who grew up super religious/conservative and still have high expectations for monogamy, waiting till marriage, and overall not using sex and people as objects to see who can get the most pleasure. But rather as more of a sacred bonding experience between to people that trust and love each other deeply. Some in the spiritual community as well. I think for the most part you're right, but don't leave out the possibility of finding someone worth it if that's what you want one day. You just have to look in the right places.