Question about Tripp from Leo's Interview

[Rilles]

1 minute ago, Leo Gura said:

Don't be sharing the Holiest of Grails with some random club slut

How else will they learn!!! Jesus went to the prostitutes and the criminals! 

[Kailash Bhattarai]

@Leo Gura How to i apply meditation techniques while doing pickup. I have been doing pickup for about 1 year. Due to covid i have not been able to do it for about 4 months though. I am getting good. Can get numbers and dates, but i am very short guy 5'2". I want to improve my game. So, provide me some suggestion. Especially on using meditation on the field.

Edited July 4, 2020 by Kailash Bhattarai

[Leo Gura]

7 minutes ago, bazera said:

@Leo Gura Lots of guys are insecure about their looks, including me to some degree,

YES! Of-fucking-course you are. We all are. I was hugely insecure about my looks. I didn't believe I could ever attract a hot girl. When I first started it seemed impossible, like a fantasy.

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what do you think is the role of physical appearance in attraction?

It certainly plays a role, but most guys seriously overestimate its importance. You will be shocked how hot of girls you will attract if you approach enough.

One of the coolest things I learned is that I can attract the hottest girl in the club. You can attract porn star hotness level girls. Because girls are primarily attracted to strong personality, not looks.

If you have above average looks, that certainly helps. It will be easier.

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I mean, if you take care of basic hygiene, groom yourself, aren't overweight (not like a bodybuilder or anything)  and don't smell like shit, of course, Other then that, you don't have much control over it. It isn't a trainable skill.

That's enough get to hot girls.

Girls don't judge your looks as much as you judge theirs. See? That's your problem. You're projecting.

[bazera]

@Leo Gura Thanks, Leo. Your responses don't leave a room for bitching and moaning about this shit  Training, practice, learning, and most importantly our own trial and error process seems to be the solution. As in any field for that matter.

[Leo Gura]

14 minutes ago, Kailash Bhattarai said:

@Leo Gura How to i apply meditation techniques while doing pickup.

Don't. Just do pickup when you're doing pickup, and do meditation when you sit to meditate.

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I have been doing pickup for about 1 year. Due to covid i have not been able to do it for about 4 months though. I am getting good. Can get numbers and dates, but i am very short guy 5'2". I want to improve my game. So, provide me some suggestion. Especially on using meditation on the field.

If you can get numbers and dates, clearly you're getting attraction, so what are you insecure about? As far as your insecurity goes, what you need to get through your thick skull is this: within about 15 minutes you will either reach hook-point with a girl or not. If you reach hook-point, you will clearly see that she's attracted. Once you see that, you know she is willing to fuck you if you just don't screw it up from here on out and handle the logistics well. So drop any insecurity from here. You KNOW she's willing to fuck you. And if a girl agrees to go on a date with you: YOU KNOW SHE'S WILLING TO FUCK YOU. A girl will never agree to go on a date with a guy she's not willing to fuck.

Your insecurity should be about those initial 15 minutes to reach hook-point. If you get there, you've won! She's willing to fuck you. Which means your looks are now irrelevant.

One of the best guys I knew in game was a short 5'2" Pakistani guy. He was amazing. He got more girls than me at 6'2".

Your PERSONALITY is what matters. Focus on improving that. Become charming and bold and you will attract many girls.

[Preety_India]

@Leo Gura  omg, you're 6 2"? 

You must be walking on stilts if you are that skinny. 

Good for you. 

 

[docs20]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

You can get very technical about game.

But that's not good for newbies. When you're just starting out you want to focus on the bare basics like your dress, grooming, approaching consistently, building decent state, eye contact, smiling, body posture, physical escalation, never running out of things to say, and leading.

The most important things are:

• Going out at least 2x-3x nights a week, consistently
• Approaching consistently
• Putting yourself into a good mood while you do so
• Smiling and laser eye contact
• Getting good at never running out of things to say. Becoming good at holding conversation
• Communicating with her man-to-woman, with clear sexual intent
• Immediate physical escalation
• Leading her

That will get you 90% of your results. Getting decent at all the above will take you several years of full time work.

Toootally agree. The hardest part is combining the nights out with sleep health and other parts of one's lives. Also logistics play such a key a role.


Is there something that you don't like about RSD content on dating? Other than what you said about the community in your famous video

[John Iverson]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Don't. Just do pickup when you're doing pickup, and do meditation when you sit to meditate.

If you can get numbers and dates, clearly you're getting attraction, so what are you insecure about? As far as your insecurity goes, what you need to get through your thick skull is this: within about 15 minutes you will either reach hook-point with a girl or not. If you reach hook-point, you will clearly see that she's attracted. Once you see that, you know she is willing to fuck you if you just don't screw it up from here on out and handle the logistics well. So drop any insecurity from here. You KNOW she's willing to fuck you. And if a girl agrees to go on a date with you: YOU KNOW SHE'S WILLING TO FUCK YOU. A girl will never agree to go on a date with a guy she's not willing to fuck.

Your insecurity should be about those initial 15 minutes to reach hook-point. If you get there, you've won! She's willing to fuck you. Which means your looks are now irrelevant.

One of the best guys I knew in game was a short 5'2" Pakistani guy. He was amazing. He got more girls than me at 6'2".

Your PERSONALITY is what matters. Focus on improving that. Become charming and bold and you will attract many girls.

I am curious how Leo doing pick up ? I wish i can come to you and be my wing man!! 

[electroBeam]

4 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

I would look for a torrent of their entire old-school video catalogue. Not their paid material but their free YT videos. That stuff is GOLD. I'm sure it exists online somewhere.

Well, that hardcore approach machine mentality is basically what you need to gain massive skills and results.

What about the naturalist style of pickup? Would you say this style is better than RSD?

[arlin]

@bazera leo is good looking.

My ex girlfriend always said i was ugly and even told me she didn't want to have sex cause of that. (My photo is taken from the best angle and covers many flaws such as big nose etc).

Physicall attraction is huge. That's why you hear girls always commenting on a guys looks on the streets or at schoo.

Deep down you know that looks matter, that's why when you read this your response will be fear.

I tryied to approach and had girls loughing at my appearence. 

Accept what you can't change. I would suggest working on your groundedness and masculinity. But, if you are ugly... i don't know.

The face matters much more than hight. 

I have to say that i approached enough and if i speak girls listen, i will try to get better of course, but i occasionally i heard comments on my looks. It's not that i repell girls, but im trying to give honest response.

Just don't be delusional and accept things you can't change. Find other ways to be happy and not get obsessed with sex or validation to be happy.

[Michael569]

5 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

And if a girl agrees to go on a date with you: YOU KNOW SHE'S WILLING TO FUCK YOU. A girl will never agree to go on a date with a guy she's not willing to fuck

if I had to extract the greatest wisdom of reading all 3 pages of these comments  

[RawJudah]

@electroBeam Naturalist? Do you mean 'just be yourself'? 

Ha!

[electroBeam]

25 minutes ago, RawJudah said:

@electroBeam Naturalist? Do you mean 'just be yourself'? 

Ha!

 Lol, I agree that pickup is largely be your authentic self, but there are particular techniques to learn to fine tune and maximise your results. Pickup started with mystery, then RSD type stuff came out, then naturalists came out to apparently overcome the limitations of RSD. I was curious about what Leo's views were of the naturalists types considering he has high views of RSD. 

[RawJudah]

@Leo Gura What about if you are already 50% a confident guy. Would it still take a few years to get good at this stuff?

[Lyubov]

I really don't enjoy talking to women during the day like at the park. I mean I'll do it if it flows naturally like at a cafe and I'm feeling it but I don't like to intentionally do "daygame." I always found bars and clubs to be the best for this cause what the fuck else do people go to these places for?  It's really the only places I've gotten action too through "pickup." I've never met a random girl at a park or the grocery store and gotten any action. It's always been bars and clubs for me. It just makes sense to me and idk I think some guys just gravitate and do better naturally in one setting over another. Hard for me to meet girls when I'm away from my usual city cause of this :\ Hope I can move soon to my city with it's night life 

[Lyubov]

8 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Don't be sharing the Holiest of Grails with some random club slut

watch your language Leo!

[Preety_India]

 

I think the only way is to approach a lot of women. 

And don't give up too easily. 

 

[Zak]

@Preety_India How do you feel as a woman about us men learning and mastering all this game thing? Lol

 

 

Edited July 4, 2020 by Zak

[knakoo]

10 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

I started at 26-27 in that position. I had a lot to learn.

Yes, at that age you want to get started right away. It will get harder and harder the older you get. 24-25 is the perfect age to get into pickup. Although Covid-19 obviously killed it for the next year.

You guys can do street approach even now, as long as the girl is not wearing a mask. I am doing it pretty much every day in Paris. 

[electroBeam]

1 hour ago, knakoo said:

You guys can do street approach even now, as long as the girl is not wearing a mask. I am doing it pretty much every day in Paris. 

how's it going for you particularly related to COVID?