Leo, are you willing to Love and have a girlfriend with mental disorders?

[James123]

59 minutes ago, Someone here said:

as nothing,  distance between your face and tv is you as nothing, 

Bullshit. 

everything Is you as nothing (your bag, chair whatever you see at the moment).

Bullshit. 

Thats how everything can become 1. Because of that in moment you are happening as nothing. Thats what is in front of you.

Meaningless. 

It is you, but unexplainable, unlearnable,

You are not awakened. You have to be awake to You to understand  it. This conversation ends. Thank you. 

[Recursoinominado]

On 22/06/2020 at 10:10 PM, TheUniverseIsLove said:

@Leo Gura

Your energy towards women is outright negative. 

Women are brilliant and beautiful and much, much more.
(Not just .1 percent of them) 

By founding this site (and by how society has formed its structural hierarchy characteristics) your words Inherently have have more impact.

Own your power. 

Stop encouraging your masculine following to treat and talk about women negatively.

Positivity is power.

Imagine changing The subject in your comment to ANY other gender or race and see how truly generalized and incredibly uniformed you sound. 

Check yourself. 

 

Don't be so triggered, let that shit go.

If you are serious with your life mission, you do have to be extremely selective with whom you chose to be in any kind of relationship with.

I too wouldn't be in a relationship with 99% of women. 

[Someone here]

9 minutes ago, Recursoinominado said:

 

I too wouldn't be in a relationship with 99% of women. 

Why? What's so wrong with 99% of women?  And who do you think you are to judge 50 % of the human race that they are not worthy of you ? 

Edited June 24, 2020 by Someone here

[An young being]

34 minutes ago, Recursoinominado said:

Don't be so triggered, let that shit go.

If you are serious with your life mission, you do have to be extremely selective with whom you chose to be in any kind of relationship with.

I too wouldn't be in a relationship with 99% of women. 

Being selective is a personal trait defined by our harmones and genes, I believe. That affects the survival process as well, the more selective you are, the better the child you will produce. But that part is derived from the animals we have evolved from from. Now, since we have a higher part of consciousness, that is fighting with our survival instincts, we should learn to look at the world beyond men and women, leading to a more balanced and universal world, and that in turn will help the entire human race become more conscious naturally, over the course of time.

Edited June 24, 2020 by An young being

[Recursoinominado]

13 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Why? What's so wrong with 99% of women?  And who do you think you are to judge 50 % of the human race that they are not worthy of you ? 

It is not that they aren't worthy, the biggest problem is lack of alignment. What is the percentage of women that are committed to self-development, in your opinion? Those women, what percentage are stage green or above? 

Because in my entire life I have met really FEW and i have been in some privileged circles like yoga retreats/courses, several places devoted to self-development etc

And it isn't some sexist thing, if i were a woman, i probably wouldn't want to be in a relationship with most men also, although i do observe that, on average, men tend to be more ambitious to women. 

 

[Recursoinominado]

@An young being I became this way while i walked the self-development path. In the past i was way less selective with women due to neediness,  i have been in relationships with women that i judged being the "best i could get" in the moment and all of those relationships backfired, although i don't regret any of them.

We are influenced by the people we spend time with, so imagine how much influenced we are by our love partner which we are so much in contact with, having sex, etc? 

A bad relationship can ruin your life and a good one can raise so much, but those are RARE and the biggest problem is because people simple aren't selective enough, they don't know what they want and choose their spouse by bullshit metrics like looks or money, monkey shit.

Men, especially! I see so many men choosing their GF by their looks, mostly. Basically marring the best look one they can find and can have a relatively stable relationship (if that). So many lives ruined!

[Member]

1 minute ago, Recursoinominado said:

Basically marring the best look one they can find and can have a relatively stable relationship (if that). So many lives ruined!

Phahahah. Why I don't feel sorry for them?

[Someone here]

15 minutes ago, Recursoinominado said:

What is the percentage of women that are committed to self-development, in your opinion? Those women, what percentage are stage green or above? 

You speek as if these stages are so concrete and physical or objective and not some abstract modeling. 

You shouldn't expect women to have the same interests as men. We are different by design. Why most women hate football while a lot of men enjoy it?   Why are men usually extroverted while women are generally shy? That's just the way it is. It's our natural differences.  That's what makes the relationship complete. You shouldn't look for a woman that is similar to you. You should look for someone who can complete you by having something that you are lacking. And vice versa she will find something in you that she is lacking.  That's my opinion ofc. 

[An young being]

26 minutes ago, Recursoinominado said:

@An young being I became this way while i walked the self-development path. In the past i was way less selective with women due to neediness,  i have been in relationships with women that i judged being the "best i could get" in the moment and all of those relationships backfired, although i don't regret any of them.

We are influenced by the people we spend time with, so imagine how much influenced we are by our love partner which we are so much in contact with, having sex, etc? 

A bad relationship can ruin your life and a good one can raise so much, but those are RARE and the biggest problem is because people simple aren't selective enough, they don't know what they want and choose their spouse by bullshit metrics like looks or money, monkey shit.

Men, especially! I see so many men choosing their GF by their looks, mostly. Basically marring the best look one they can find and can have a relatively stable relationship (if that). So many lives ruined!

Yeah, the more compatible, the better, for both. That's what astrology tried to do, but seems to have failed miserably.

Looks mattered a lot when we were less conscious, driven by our visual senses confusing beauty with health and well being or some thing else. Nature makes mistakes sometimes. But now we are more consciousness than our past self and we can definitely look for better traits. And even if we are driven by our animalistic nature ( blame nature) and looks and a sexy body is what we want, we have unlimited porn. Still, it is a step towards the opposite of what nature wants from us.

Edited June 24, 2020 by An young being

[Recursoinominado]

@Someone here You should look for someone who has the same or similar values as you. 

If I value personal growth more and my wife values comfort more, we are going to have troubles.

If I value freedom and my wife value stability, that's a problem.

I had this problem every relationship I had because I wasn't conscious enough at the time.

[An young being]

28 minutes ago, Someone here said:

You speek as if these stages are so concrete and physical or objective and not some abstract modeling. 

You shouldn't expect women to have the same interests as men. We are different by design. Why most women hate football while a lot of men enjoy it?   Why are men usually extroverted while women are generally shy? That's just the way it is. It's our natural differences.  That's what makes the relationship complete. You shouldn't look for a woman that is similar to you. You should look for someone who can complete you by having something that you are lacking. And vice versa she will find something in you that she is lacking.  That's my opinion ofc. 

What you are saying is correct, that's nature's design ( for now ). People of one gender are always attracted to the opposite gender with opposite qualities. That's because it assists in survival. If I know cooking very well, and you are better at hunting but don't know to cook, we both have a higher chance for survival together. But survival doesn't matter nowadays. We can easily survive even if we are not married. That's why the ways of nature are changing. Some people feel being with people with the same thoughts and feelings can discover more together while some people feel the opposite. That's why we find people in this forum with both opinions. It's natural. The more conscious we are, the more we can twist nature over time.

Edited June 24, 2020 by An young being

[Someone here]

6 minutes ago, An young being said:

What you are saying is correct, that's nature's design ( for now ). People of one gender are always attracted to the opposite gender with opposite qualities. That's because it assists in survival. If I know cooking very well, and you are better at hunting but don't know to cook, we both have a higher chance for survival together. But survival doesn't matter nowadays. We can easily survive even if we are not married. That's why the ways of nature are changing. Some people feel being with people with the same thoughts and feelings can discover more together while some people feel the opposite. That's why we find people in this forum with both opinions. It's natural. The more conscious we are, the more we can twist nature over time.

Well said. 

[An young being]

38 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Well said. 

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[electroBeam]

4 hours ago, Someone here said:

Why? What's so wrong with 99% of women?  And who do you think you are to judge 50 % of the human race that they are not worthy of you ? 

Once you have an awakening experience, you'll see the point of life is to live a life you want. Not a life others want. You'll see there's no other but yourself, and waking up means facing your fears, choosing God's wants over society's wants, and honouring those wants. Its to live a life you're truly happy with.

99% of people are living a life others want: what their boss wants, what their friends want, what their partner wants, what their family wants, what their society wants. Go look up the biggest regret elderly people have before death: its regretting doing the things everyone else wanted, and not doing the thing they truly wanted.

If you're serious, and inspect deeply, you don't want 99% of men. God's telling you not to be with 99% of men. There's so much to life in the form of mystical experiences and self development, that 99% of men are a distraction. They aren't good enough for you and you're not giving yourself enough credit and love if you think you're only worthy for 50% of men. Are you really going to spend time with them when you could be giving time to God? Or one of the top 1% of men?

And that's ok for the world, because 99% of women are at the same level of 99% of men. They'll find a match.

But by choosing to be on this path, you've chosen to believe in, and to serve that inner godly voice. You've chosen to aim higher than 99% of the population when it comes to happiness, love and wisdom. You've chosen to do things and be things and face fears that 99% of the population wont, and with that comes the need to date the top 1%, because the other 99% are so disconnected with this stuff, don't care about it, and wont give you a meaningful time.

[Someone here]

@electroBeam I'm a male btw so I definitely don't want to be with 100% of men not just 99% lol. 

[Leo Gura]

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